shy guys luck in getting laid

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    B_tallbig New Member

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    Shy guys usually have problems getting laid or at least is difficult to them . do you any of you guys know shy persons that actually got laid very often ? i got 1 friend that is shy but girls hit on him and that's how he get laid. i have actually witness when girls hit on him not joke.

    and what do you guys think is the reason to shy people be shy . they are born that way?
    overprotection from their parents? or both ?
     
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    dont be shy then, its much easier than everyone leads u to believe
    people are shy in situations they r not used to. do more things you arent used to. expand your comfort zone and start talking to more people everywhere you go.
     
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    I've always been shy, well, in person. This is especially true when first meeting someone. I also never make first moves, with either gender. I do get hit on though, again, by both genders. I'm not intimidating, so people usually feel more comfortable around me, and open up to me. I definitely don't "get" as much as I could (mainly by my own choices, and actions), but I get hit on quite a bit, and I'm not even "hot", so...
     
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    dont be shy? i have talk with several shy guys and is hard according to them to eliminate shyness . I think that isnt impossible but isnt that easy like most people think.
     
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    I respectfully beg to differ.:biggrin1:
     
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    I'm a shy guy, at first. I think people like shy people because they don't seem intimidating, they're usually smiling, and they stay out of trouble (office gossip). One of my parents is shy, the other isn't.

    It's really hard to explain. Sometimes I have trouble meeting new people because I may not seem so outgoing (but I am). I'm pretty laid back and like to watch the scenery. I don't have issues with getting laid, though. I'm an attractive man.
     
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    You're right. Being shy is the way that you're "wired". You can't just "decide" to not be shy. Yes, there are exercises to help, but it's a deeper, core, condition than people who aren't shy, don't usually understand. It's like telling someone with anxiety disorder to "stop being so nervous/over-thinking things."


    No, It's true. I actually get hit on a decent amount. :tongue:
     
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    Must be all that junk in your trunk. :naughty:
     
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    Don't you :naughty: at me unless you mean it, you little tart! :tongue:
     
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    Wud a str8 guy hav tht pic in my galry? :tongue:
     
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    So Bryce - is that really all there is to getting sex? Being an attractive man?

    There's gotta be more to it than that, my friend......

    :biggrin1:

     
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    You're a shameless tease. I never know WHAT you might do. :wink:
     
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