. . . . shy guys hmu plz^^
Ummm . . . . isn't that a contradiction?
I was a shy guy. Actually, I still am - I don't think it's something you ever grow out of, or fundamentally change - though I have learned to compensate, and cope, and sometimes suppress it. I have had dates with only five girls in my lifetime. Only two of them were situations where I initiated the contact. The others - including both girls who became relationships - either the girl made the first move, or a third party acted on behalf of the girl. And, I should add, the girl had to put some effort into convincing me that she sincerely wanted to get acquainted.
I hope you are successful in your search! My unsubstantiated belief is that inside many shy guys there is a very loyal, and respectful person, who is not at all opposed to learning new things under the guidance of a patient teacher. I can respond to your questions as time permits, but the distance and generation gap works against our ever meeting. And . . . . my second relationship, encouraged and arranged by a third party, became a marriage that is now going on 45 years.