Shy , i hate myself

[Over_7]

Hi , i'm a 21 years old guy who lived his life almost alone , i have no brothers or sisters and also i didn't have a lot of friends during childhood.
We used to live in an isolated area behind the mountagns and now i live in the city
My problem is that i'm very anti social i seriously can't make any friends and whenever i get socialized i become insecure and i and nervous
As for talking to girls , it's like "mission impossible" to me.
Can you give me some advices in order to overcome shyness ? Thanks

A lot of time people refer to shy people as anti social. I dont think this is correct. Its more unsocial. A very big difference. Also even if you are shy there are advantages to it as well. You might also have some other very positive qualities about yourself. Maybe you are a very nice person. Maybe you are very smart. Dont just focus on the negative. I know this is hard to do. Im a more reserved person as well. Just do what makes you happy and try not to do something you are not even if our culture says otherwise.