I'm generally a fairly shy sorta bloke. I'm not huge when hard or soft, but because I have fairly hefty legs (thanks to my Jamaican Mum :wink I always find that jeans are a little bit tight across the crotch meaning my package is always a little bit framed by my trousers which always gets a few glances even when I'm not hard and personally, I hate it because I'm so shy. I'm not "big" compared to some guys on here (I'm 6.5 x 5.5 or there abouts) but because I'm black (we all know the sterotypes that go with that, but that's another story!) I'm always paranoid people see my crotch being stretched and start whispering about "that guy must be huge" etc etc. Am I the only one that gets bothered by this?