Shyness and bulges

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  1. D_Marvin Meatthistle

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    I'm generally a fairly shy sorta bloke. I'm not huge when hard or soft, but because I have fairly hefty legs (thanks to my Jamaican Mum :wink:) I always find that jeans are a little bit tight across the crotch meaning my package is always a little bit framed by my trousers which always gets a few glances even when I'm not hard and personally, I hate it because I'm so shy. I'm not "big" compared to some guys on here (I'm 6.5 x 5.5 or there abouts) but because I'm black (we all know the sterotypes that go with that, but that's another story!) I'm always paranoid people see my crotch being stretched and start whispering about "that guy must be huge" etc etc. Am I the only one that gets bothered by this?
     
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    I am not huge either but I also have a prominant bulge in most trousers. I don't wear loose shorts or jog pants without underwear because it's just too obvious.:biggrin1: I also have hefty thighs but also I think it is to do with the angle of your penis - some guys are hung low down and some are hung "up-front"! I used to get embarrased at school when people noticed but I am proud of it now. In fact I find it a turn on if I catch someone looking. Enjoy the attention!:wink:
     
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    I'm black and I feel the same way. I'm extreamly shy when it comes to anything sexual personally because I'm 7X5.3-5.5 inches. I bulge easily, but I am shy about it. When I am go workout though I try to show it :) otherwise, I always try to hide it. I am just too nervous because I'm black and I feel that when it comes down to it, people will be expecting more then what I have because of the stereotype.
     
  4. D_Marvin Meatthistle

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    Sometime I do enjoy the attention, but most of the time I just get paranoid and uncomfortable because I'm so shy. Luckily I'm in a long-term relationship so I'm not worried about a new partners expectations of me, but when I started in this relationship that was definitely something I worried about.
     
  5. viking1

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    Could this be the understatement of the year? If you aren't huge, what does that make me?
     
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    You are who you are....shy or not....just be you and don't worry about what others are thinking about you. It's probably positive if you have a prominent bulge!!

    Wear it proudly.
     
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    nothing excites me more than thick thighs or as you call it "hefty legs", would love to see you in your jeans
     
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    Just stop being shy, it's not like you haven't got pretty much the same as every other man in the world, and women know what you've got, we're not going to run screaming he's got a gun, he's got a gun if we see a bulge there :) Relax about it.
     
  9. viking1

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    However, they might run if it's not up to their expectations...
     
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    They wouldn't be able to run they'd all have stupidly high shoes on :)
     
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    I'm fairly shy myself. Have you and your partner ever discussed this? Do you believe that she was expecting more?
     
  12. viking1

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    Aren't they all?
     
  13. D_Marvin Meatthistle

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    We have,it was a worry to begin with, but after talking that was clear that wasn't the case.

    That gave me a little chuckle :smile: but very true I guess!
     
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    Shinybellend is NOT huge, so what are you complaining about?
     
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