Drifterwood
Superior Member
Um, yeah, cheating is shitty behaviour. In general. I was also shocked at the amount of men hiding their sexual preferences from their partners. That to me would be an extra wound. I have no problems entering into relationships with bi men (well, they’ve never been successful in the past, but I digress), but lying about cheating and lying about your orientation? So much hurt. And those threads about how easy it is, just really made me angry. In reality, I can probably forgive cheating - once. But if it was a whole lifestyle? I don’t know. All that lying.
I imagine the men consider it cheating lite, if cheating at all as the person isn't an alternative to their partner. They may convince themselves that it is little different to porn or sex toys. People convince themselves of all sorts of things.