Signs a girl likes a guy?

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What she said. I also flirt with just about anybody, even when I don't mean to. It's just my nature to be playful. But when I want to really know somebody I will tell him.

I will also let you know pretty much how I feel about you pro or con. Of course, being a Southern girl I'll let you down as gently as I can if you're a good guy. If you're not then you do not want me saying goodbye in my own special way.
 

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What she said. I also flirt with just about anybody, even when I don't mean to. It's just my nature to be playful. But when I want to really know somebody I will tell him.

I will also let you know pretty much how I feel about you pro or con. Of course, being a Southern girl I'll let you down as gently as I can if you're a good guy. If you're not then you do not want me saying goodbye in my own special way.


My inner drama queen would love to see Ellie's evil twin cutting down some dirtbag. TIIIIMBERRRR!
 

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Oh Sugar, that is not a sight to see! This little Texas girl can bring a 6'5 320 lb man to his knees begging to be excused. I just did it to a washing machine repairman last week! I was livid! You don't make me wait for 9 hours for a repairman to show up and then not have the part on the truck when I told him exactly what the problem was.

The part was installed on Monday at 8:30 a.m.

I don't like being fed bullshit, and I will take your shovel and hit you on the head with it!
 

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when i like someone... in a making the grown-up fashion - my boobies light up like police flashers :biggrin1:

like any good southerner i am fantastic at inadvertent/unintentional flirting.
not so good at on-purpose flirting, so i just blurt it out.

no lie, i've walked up to folks and said outright "i think you might be/are ultra-suede, would ya mind giving me the duration of one drink to confirm my suspicions?"

folks i've known for a time... i just pounce on em. not agro-to-catch-a-predator, more "i fancy you. do you fancy me. if your answer is yes prepared to be glomped by me"

even after years of striding the earth dyke-style *think Kung-Fu only with better footwear* i remain clueless as to when a woman is showing interests. so boldness favors the horny, ya know?
 

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I wouldn't say I'm a great flirt but I guess I've done a pretty good job of letting guys know when I'm interested, even some who I really didn't want them interested :) Jk

Some obvious things I do is I use a lot of extra eye contact and I do this thing where I look directly into his eyes then smile and look down and away. Sometimes I play with my hair a little to but that's kind of a nervous thing and I usually would never ever touch someone but I might touch his hand or shoulder casually so it didn't seem wierd. Like I said, I'm not a great flirt but I try when I have to...lol.
 

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I wouldn't say I'm a great flirt but I guess I've done a pretty good job of letting guys know when I'm interested, even some who I really didn't want them interested :) Jk

Some obvious things I do is I use a lot of extra eye contact and I do this thing where I look directly into his eyes then smile and look down and away. Sometimes I play with my hair a little to but that's kind of a nervous thing and I usually would never ever touch someone but I might touch his hand or shoulder casually so it didn't seem wierd. Like I said, I'm not a great flirt but I try when I have to...lol.

i like that, ive gotten those signs and never knew if that meant something. ive had girls eyefuck me but sometimes i think thats just the way they are with everyone. as the first girl said she likes to flirt with everyone she meets which is so deceiving and a let down sometimes(no offense to her) but its misleading. Hence my question and why its so hard to really tell.
 

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I flirt with everyone. Man, woman - it doesn't matter. Laugh, touch, tease. Unless I like you. And then I will avoid you like the plague. So if you see a medium sized brunette lurking behind the potted plants, refusing to look at you, dropping stuff when you walk into the room and babbling like an idiot (even though half my job is public speaking) - congratulations! I want you BAD! :redface:
 

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Omg LaFemme Your comment about lurking behind plants made my day <3. I am little different. I like the guy to make a move on me. My issue is if he takes too long to act I lose interest. I dont really think I leave any hints for him though because my personality is pretty flirty to begin with ( unless I dont like you then I am a down right BITCH). I just wait around to see if he will say anything and if not then oh well. I figure if a person gets told no, they are no worse off then before they asked. So why not take the chance right?
 

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i flirt with everyone. Man, woman - it doesn't matter. Laugh, touch, tease. Unless i like you. And then i will avoid you like the plague. So if you see a medium sized brunette lurking behind the potted plants, refusing to look at you, dropping stuff when you walk into the room and babbling like an idiot (even though half my job is public speaking) - congratulations! I want you bad! :redface:

oh my goshhhhh me too!!!
 

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LaFemme, you and my best friend could be twins! That's exactly what she does. Flirts with everyone, just like I do, but when she sees a guy she fancies she becomes an idiot! And then it's up to me to go and chat up the fellow - for her! This usually does not go well, as you can imagine. "Uh yeah, I'm asking for a friend, 'cause, you see, I'm married. Yeah."
 

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This needs to become part of my signature. Pretty please?

I think I may have heard my Dad say it once or twice, or something like it because he hardly ever cursed. But you're more than welcome to it!

And LaFemme, I think it would be very dangerous for us two to be in public together, especially on the prowl! I already get too close to the danger zone with my friend Meg.
 

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I think I may have heard my Dad say it once or twice, or something like it because he hardly ever cursed. But you're more than welcome to it!

And LaFemme, I think it would be very dangerous for us two to be in public together, especially on the prowl! I already get too close to the danger zone with my friend Meg.

Ok, fine. Two clutzy friends with you playing lead could lead to trouble. The spilled drinks alone could put us in the poor house. :frown1:

Oh yeah, and the guys hitting on you! :tongue: