Signs Or How To Identify If A Guy Is Curious About Men

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Well pick one or more of these:

Tell him you're gay. He might then or later feel safe to share if he's gay or bi.
Ask him if he has a girlfriend.
Offer to go out with him drinking to meet girls.
See if he checks out guys often.
Go to a gym or swimming with him and observe.
Go to a sauna with him and observe.

Best is still:

Be brave, tell him you like him, you're gay and if there's any chance there could be more between you. Now this is very delicate but also definitive and if he's been nice to you and he's sane he'll say yes or no, sorry, dude...
 

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Well pick one or more of these:

Tell him you're gay. He might then or later feel safe to share if he's gay or bi.
Ask him if he has a girlfriend.
Offer to go out with him drinking to meet girls.
See if he checks out guys often.
Go to a gym or swimming with him and observe.
Go to a sauna with him and observe.

Best is still:

Be brave, tell him you like him, you're gay and if there's any chance there could be more between you. Now this is very delicate but also definitive and if he's been nice to you and he's sane he'll say yes or no, sorry, dude...
He didnt say no or yes he just called me an amazing friend etc. I took it as a friend zone but a friend said his text can be interpreted as he never gave you a straight answer because he doesnt know. Others have said he is super curious but probably wont ever do anything about it. While others say he is just using me because i make him feel less alone. This deep feeling in my gut tells me to just wait it out in the future but i am going to live my best life. Even if it means meeting someone else. As much as i wish i could his and or he mine. Sentimental i know.