Sincere Issue(women pls comment also)

[honeydew]

I actually enjoy when the penis is not huge to begin with. I love oral so it is fun when I can get ALL of the penis in my mouth and enjoy the experience of bringing him to full erection!!!

 

[draw22]

I go from 3 to 7.5 on a hot day and 2 to 7.5 when under the ac...or it sometimes jus stays the same size i guess. But when exiting the pool or ocean,,,damn its like a twig

 

[Billyboy79]

Wow thanks for all the replies!

I guess it is more of an issue with me, than with women; as most of the women here seem to have backed up what my ex-gf also said, that erect size is what really matters. And also I guess 3 or 4" isn't THAT small when flaccid, so thanks all! I understand for some women that flaccid size does play some role, but the responses I got made me feel a lot better about the issue.

Its probably more of my own insecurities with my body anyway. Its like I was programmed and cannot un-program myself to believe that a mans masculinity and manhood are not directly connected to his dick.

For so long when I was growing up, and waiting and waiting for my dick to be "as big as Dads"(no I wasn't molested perverts I lived in a house with the man for 25 years! I always thought that men measured other men, and women measured men by the size of their dicks. Anyway, I guess that I should just learn to be happy about myself the way I am, which is what I strive for every day, to be the best possible version of myself.

Thanks again peeps!

 

[Redheadchi]

Doesn't matter even a little. In fact I would find it hot! But if I were your g/f I'd love to be able to find it all innocent and then tease it into full size - to take it from sweet to dangerous... My own pocket monster! Personally, I like the growers - secret agent cocks!

They don't call me 007x6 for no reason

 

[Gecko4lif]

Personally, if a guy has a tiny newborn baby sized flaccid penis, its kind of a turn off, lol. That's just my opinion though, and no offense to guys like that

If a guy has a flaccid penis and is naked around you your probably not doing your job right.

 

[RawDog]

When cocks are hard I want to fuck, but when they're soft I think they're cute.

CUTE!?!! Didn't we have this discussion before? Don't make me whip it out. :biggrin1:

I scolded my wife for calling it cute (in jest). Now she calls it "unassuming". Seriously, she thinks it's impressive that I'm small flaccid and, well, "ample" when hard.

 

[B_subgirrl]

CUTE!?!! Didn't we have this discussion before? Don't make me whip it out. :biggrin1:

If you whip it out, it won't stay cute for long :tongue:.

I scolded my wife for calling it cute (in jest). Now she calls it "unassuming". Seriously, she thinks it's impressive that I'm small flaccid and, well, "ample" when hard.

I've always thought there was something magical about small, cute (yes, cute!) things becoming large, hard throbbing things. Very, very cool effect. Sometimes I want to play with the cute thing just to see the magic happen.

 

[MickeyLee]

CUTE!?!! Didn't we have this discussion before? Don't make me whip it out. :biggrin1:

I scolded my wife for calling it cute (in jest). Now she calls it "unassuming". Seriously, she thinks it's impressive that I'm small flaccid and, well, "ample" when hard.

*sings Transformer theme under her breath*

 

[B_subgirrl]

*sings Transformer theme under her breath*

ROFLMAO :biggrin1:. That actually sums up the feeling of magic pretty well!

 

[LaFemme]

They don't call me 007x6 for no reason

Now that's hot! :wink:

 

[BlackGirl]

It wouldn't bother me. As long as you are a sweetheart and knew how to treat me like a lady, I wouldn't care. You are also plenty big at 7.5, a woman would have to be crazy to let something so trivial bother her.

 

[etherealheart]

If a guy has a flaccid penis and is naked around you your probably not doing your job right.

if you've never had a guy naked around you who didn't have a hard on, you might be a booty call...
my ex used to walk around naked after sex. so unless i was aiming to put him in the hospital for priapism, i don't see how expecting him to be hard around me at all times would have been reasonable.