If I had a steady job, yes. It wouldn't be fair if I didn't.
Why would you need a steady job? I am a single mother, have a good paying job and support myself and my child. When I date a man I'm not looking to him for support, or thinking "He better make good money to be with us". My money is my money, I don't need yours.
The second reason why I would see that child/ren more as a gift than a hindrance, is because about 2-3 years ago, my wife went for her annual check up at the gynae, she had to go for scans etc and the radiologist told her that she had so many fibroids that she may as well have a hysterectomy - she will never fall pregnant. Because they weren't cancerous, we decided to let things be...and as difficult as it was, accepted the fact that we would never have children of our own. About six months later we found out that she had fallen pregnant - A huge, wonderful surprise....Two months later she miscarried. I don't think that a parent realises the value of a child until they want one, expect one and then lose one. That is why, when it comes to children - not one of their little hairs must be harmed...or else!
Your answer was my favorite on this entire thread. Very well thought out and made a lot of sense. You and your wife will surely be blessed with a baby somehow. I'm so sorry for your heart ache, but I always believe there is a plan for all of us. It sounds like you will be a wonderful father too, best of luck, xx.
its all good aztek.. I have come off like a complete douchebag here too

I know you are trying to champion the rights of single mothers by turning them out while there kids are in the basement..
and I for one.. commend you for it!
way to go man, keep up the good work!
Actually DJG, your comment was a pretty douchebag thing to say. You commend him? For what? Fucking a single mother? Thanks! Thats much more degrading that anything he's said, IMO. Yeah, his delivery is shitty...but I get his point. He's saying that the stereotypical ideal of single mothers is wrong. We
do like to fuck, we
do like to have fun and we are
hungry for some passion....simply because almost 24/7 our lives revolve aorund our kids. I commend him too, but not for being so brave as to fuck a single mother, but for coming on here and talking about it with such passion. He obviously likes to fuck this woman -

.....just because a little person calls me Mommy doesn't mean I don't like to be FUCKED.
That rant wasn't directed toward you DJG, only the "commend" part...the rest was my take on aztecks comments.
Never dated a single mom. But I would. The only conditions -- she must not be a drug user or alcoholic (I do enough beer drinkin for 2). And about kids... as long as they are young (maybe under 5) I am 23 and not ready for raising teens... I am looking for a wife (and in a relationship with an amazing girl right now). Profession, MD.
Do you date "non-single moms" that drink alcohol? If so, why is the fact that she's a mother who drinks alcohol any different?
I'm not trying to threaten you, okay? She is a good mother and I'm not going to hear some asshole call her a freak because she enjoys to be with a man like every normal woman, and I will kick their ass. This some stupid shit if a woman cannot enjoy her body because she is a mother? Her feelings, her passion suppose to stop when she has kids? It is only my opinion but that isn't right.
I hear what your saying....and thanks for saying it. You could've said it more respectful probably, but I took no offense. I would've had I heard you saying "Yeah, she locks those little brats up in the basement so I can go pound her pussy the way she likes it"....that's not what I heard you say. I heard you say "This single mother likes to fuck anytime anywhere, and just because she has kids doesn't mean she can't be a freak".