- two2,
i told my bestfriend that i am bi. i told him because we pretty much know everything about each other and i felt him not knowing about my true sexuality was not making it a true friendship. he said he's cool with it (or so he says).. we've known each other over 5 yrs, he and i are the only ones that know my sexuality. so anyway, at the movies he ALWAYS sat right next to me, even if it were just the two of us.. we would smoke some weed, get high as fuck and have some good laughs at the movies.
but, we went to the movies a few weeks after me telling him about myself and he decides he doesn't want to sit next to me and he leaves an empty seat between us.
i was rather pissed about it as he never seemed to care before.. i never brought it up after that, but it really bothers me and i don't feel comfortable around him.. he's not a fake, i know he cares a lot about me, but it hurts me because he never second guessed sitting next to me in the past. i'm not mad because he didn't sit next to me, but rather because he changed in some way after knowing im bi.
what would you do, just let it be and not bring it to his attention? or would u say something about him acting this way now? i think i dont want to talk to him for a while.. i haven't talked to him in a week and he knows i am mad but has no clue why (so he says).. if i confront him about the situation, he's only going to try to act like his usual self.
it might seem like minor shit, but now i question is comfortableness around me in public..
but, we went to the movies a few weeks after me telling him about myself and he decides he doesn't want to sit next to me and he leaves an empty seat between us.
i was rather pissed about it as he never seemed to care before.. i never brought it up after that, but it really bothers me and i don't feel comfortable around him.. he's not a fake, i know he cares a lot about me, but it hurts me because he never second guessed sitting next to me in the past. i'm not mad because he didn't sit next to me, but rather because he changed in some way after knowing im bi.
what would you do, just let it be and not bring it to his attention? or would u say something about him acting this way now? i think i dont want to talk to him for a while.. i haven't talked to him in a week and he knows i am mad but has no clue why (so he says).. if i confront him about the situation, he's only going to try to act like his usual self.
it might seem like minor shit, but now i question is comfortableness around me in public..