Sitting in Sauna at Gym

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Maybe he wasn't gay and was telling you it didn't matter to him if you were completely nude. I've been in saunas were guys had a shirt and shorts on and i wanted to say to them, "it's fine - take off your clothes. no one is gives a shit" but then again someone might think that means, you WANT them to take off you clothes. Maybe it meant the opposite - that they are straight and understand their sexuality?!

I don't know. I don't think it's that big of a deal. He didnt' ask to touch it so I don't think he was really coming on to you.
 

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Frankly, I've never heard of anyone covering up in a sauna or steamroom. Just ask Milton Berle if he ever covered up in the Friar's Club steamroom. What are you guys, a bunch it uptight repressed puritans? It you don't want to go nude in a sauna, just don't go in. In Scandanavia, where the sauna was invented, the custom is nudity. In German saunas nudity is mandatory, and many of those saunas are for both men and women together. I can't believe the fearful attitude expressed here that someone may put a "move" on one of you scared little boys. For God's sake grow up! Be comfortable with what God gave you. Enjoy yourself. No wonder Bush and Cheney are able to succeed at their fear mongering what with all these people who are ready to take offence at the friendly glance of another human being. :banghead2: Jeesh! Leave the towel on the hook outside.
 

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I broadly agree with the last three posts, we are so fucking Puritanical in this country it is SICK!!! People are just fine with women shaking their asses and them wearing the tightest clothing possible with modern science. But if anyone sees a cock... LOOK THE FUCK OUT... CALL THE MORALITY POLICE!!!! What the hell is so wrong with the penis? Everyone is fine with the nuts, when John Ritter's balls fell out of his shorts on Three's Company, people LOVED it!!!! If his cock fell out, he would have been canned from the show! If a man shows a bulge he will get some SERIOUS dirty looks mixed in with the smiles and grins, this country is full of a bunch of wankers!!!!!
 

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Gay, straight or whatever; I’m comfortable with getting complements on my body and my cock. I wasn’t always comfortable; normally I’d freak out, walk away or cover up. Now, I think it’s great. What’s so wrong with some one saying, hey buddy you got a nice piece of meat?
 

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Around here, guys typically sit on towels in the sauna. So guys catch a look when you come in, and then they're done. I've never been propositioned in a sauna -- maybe I just give off the "don't fuck with me" vibe.
 

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Yeah, the guys was coming on to you, wanted to see the equipment and let you know he's interested without being quite so blunt. Hoped you follow him to the shower for some action, I think. Sauna seems like a good place for bi/gay to check others out - kinda like part 1 of the audition -IF the person is in there for it - some are, some/most aren't. I say go with it and find out, if not there, he'll make arrangements.
 

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Similar thing happened to me about 2 months ago at the gym. I went in to sauna and it was empty cause it was pretty late. I only had a smaller towel and I used to to sit on cause I didn't want to lay my bear ass on someone elses sweat. Anyway... so I'm sitting back relaxing and stretching cause I pulled my hamstrings from lifting. This guy comes in. I think nothing of it. I don't cover up cause I have nothing to hide. As I'm reading the paper I glance over and I see this guy burning a hole in my crotch with his eyes. He was sweaty and mouth was day but I don't think it was cause of the sauna. lol...
 

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yeah man get over it!

Come on you are a fit man that can easily protect yourself in the worst case scenario....Think about it...You are not a 5'2'' 110 lb woman that gets annoying sexual advances from men that actually pose a physical threat to you. In addition alot of guys think they are entitled to making sexual advances on women. This is your first experience in your life with something like this???? U better thank god u are not a woman! By the time women hit puberty older men (in addition to pubescent teens with raging hormones) are lusting after girls!

As men we have it easy compared to women...When is the last time that you heard of a guy getting raped in a gym or stalked?

Don't get your panties in a wad, you can make a sly remark to the peverts or just ignore them......I don't think they are going to violate u!

oh nice cock by the way!



I agree!! Great cock! i would never cover it up if I were you!!
 

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Yeah. There's alot of cruising that goes on in gym saunas and stuff. There's also hidden language and "movements" that people do to suggest that they are interested in more than just to relax.

As many guys who cruise places, their horniness blinds their discernment and for that matter, discretion. They figure if you're gonna let it hang out there, you shouldn't be mad that they're staring.

Even though I do like to cruise, I completely disagree with that notion. If I don't want you to look, I don't want you to look. You should respect that regardless of where I am. Public or private.

I've had times where I had to actually get loud with that person so they would finally leave me alone. It doesn't really help you get any because everyone thinks you're crazy, but at least that person is off your jock...literally.
 

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Similar thing happened to me about 2 months ago at the gym. I went in to sauna and it was empty cause it was pretty late. I only had a smaller towel and I used to to sit on cause I didn't want to lay my bear ass on someone elses sweat. Anyway... so I'm sitting back relaxing and stretching cause I pulled my hamstrings from lifting. This guy comes in. I think nothing of it. I don't cover up cause I have nothing to hide. As I'm reading the paper I glance over and I see this guy burning a hole in my crotch with his eyes. He was sweaty and mouth was day but I don't think it was cause of the sauna. lol...
Yeah, let that queen get an eyeful.
 

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Frankly, I've never heard of anyone covering up in a sauna or steamroom. Just ask Milton Berle if he ever covered up in the Friar's Club steamroom. What are you guys, a bunch it uptight repressed puritans? It you don't want to go nude in a sauna, just don't go in. In Scandanavia, where the sauna was invented, the custom is nudity. In German saunas nudity is mandatory, and many of those saunas are for both men and women together. I can't believe the fearful attitude expressed here that someone may put a "move" on one of you scared little boys. For God's sake grow up! Be comfortable with what God gave you. Enjoy yourself. No wonder Bush and Cheney are able to succeed at their fear mongering what with all these people who are ready to take offence at the friendly glance of another human being. Jeesh! Leave the towel on the hook outside.
It's not a bath house it's a gym and these guys can be persistant. Plus they creep me out! Go to a gay bar buy someone a drink and take them home. Oh wait, they can't their married to some old hag that is as droopy as they are:banghead2:
 

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It could have been innocent. The proper way to use a sauna is to shower first to get clean and then take a sauna completely nude (no towel even to sit on). Maybe he was old school.
old school my ass hole thats what i am talking about. as old school as a cocktail weenie,like some old queen tapping at the hole in the wall at a bookstore.HOW MANY TIMES CAN I SAY NO!!!!!
I am not ranting about you cktlweenie just this whole justification for old queens to prowel.One look says it all, I don't need some ground crew bringing down a 747 with all the hand signals and shit. NO is NO
 

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Oh yeah----Why don't I see these well meaning trolls in the workout rm. Just the lockeroom,steam rm,massage rm.
 

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Boy, sounds like someone has an issue with "old" guys. Would've been ok if he were young and "hot" (?)

I used to go to gyms and sit in saunas. I sat nude on a towel. Lots of people looked. Once a guy sitting next to me even reached over and touched it. He was a young guy who apoligized when I reacted with surprise. I just wasn't expecting it. No big deal. I left.

Haven't met anyone who has gone offensively overboard. (Though I did HATE those holes in the wall of those "bookstores" because I didn't like the idea of anyone peeping at me. There wasn't a chance I'd ever use one of those things even if I was interested. But that was long ago. Nowdays, from what I now know, I wouldn't even touch the doorknob of one of those booths).

Remember, people (even "queens") do eventually grow old and one day the young among us will grow old too. (if they're lucky).

p.s. The word is spelled "naive"
 

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He was coming on to you big time. A similar thing happend to me the other day. He was an unattractive overweight hairy backed pig. Plus had a TINY dick. I am predominently gay but come on ----This guy was overly confident and a gross pig. I will get hell for this post but,primarily from the same pigs


whatever... sometimes people just make a remark.. no sexualiy intended. You do'nt have to read everything as a double line. The guy probably says the same thing about using a fork and knife in a restaurant.
 

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And.. what if somebody was proweling?.. there's a simple solution.. "no, i'm not interested".. and done. No need to get worked up, no need to get mad, no need at all..

Most of the sauna's here are mixed. Ofcourse people look at each other, i dont believe the 'there's no sex in the sauna thing'.. But that doesn't have to be a problem. I go to the sauna for relaxation, not for getting it on. If somebody where to come on to me, male or female, i'd just say what i said earlier, not intereseted. And then enjoy my nakedness with or without towel.
 
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