Size and soul mate

[BigA]

This is a question for the "size queens". If you believe in the concept of soul mate or everlasting love, could the man be small or average? And if so, would you still desire a large penis outside of the relationship? Thanks

 

[snoozan]

Even with a soulmate, you have to make compromises. Maybe he snores. Maybe he likes bad music. Maybe he forgets to take out the trash. No one is perfect. That's not what love is.

I don't know if I'm a sizequeen, but I definitely don't like skinny dicks at all. I like cocks that are pretty-- which is a totally subjective thing. I am married to someone I consider my soul mate and I love him more than anyone in the world (except maybe my son). I don't think I could have married anyone better for me, and I feel like I am truly blessed and lucky to have found him.

With all that said, I've seen a lot of bigger/prettier/nicer cocks. At least his isn't skinny though. I'm an artist and I get turned on by things that are visual (like porn). It's just the way I'm wired. If I could get my husband the perfect cock without changing anything else about him and the plumbing all worked, I'd do it if he were willing. And it might make our sex life a little better. But, without that option, I'll take the soul mate and love and security over the way the penis looks. That's a no brainer.

 

[BigA]

If I could get my husband the perfect cock without changing anything else about him and the plumbing all worked, I'd do it if he were willing.

Yes, I assumed this. But since it is not possible, is it a desire to go outside the relationship for the sake of this hypothetical perfect cock? Thanks for the thoughtful response.

 

[snoozan]

I think everyone desires, at some point in a relationship, going out of it for some sort of satisfaction that they aren't getting from their current partner because no one is perfect. There are times in every relationship I've been in that something has really sucked that I've thought, I'd really like some strange new dick. Hell, things can be great with the husband and I meet a guy with a nice face/body/personality whatever, and I wonder what it would be like to bang him. A pretty hot cock is just another one of those things that gets my libido going. So yes, I'll admit it, I've thought about it, but not seriously. Usually along the lines of, "Man, if I wasn't married, I'd so fuck him in a New York minute." (Wasn't that an Olsen twins movie?)

But that's what LPSG is for. I get to look and read about sex and cocks and it's fun. My husband knows I'm here, and though he doesn't quite get why I enjoy photoshopping dicks and talking about sex incessantly in my spare time, it doesn't bother him. We have a good sex life.

I think everyone for myriad reasons fantasizes about sex with someone outside of their relationship. It just seems very normal. And if cock size or appearance is your thing, you'll think about it. Doesn't everyone have some goofy fantasy that they hold onto? The grass is always greener and all that.

Christ could this be misconstrued like I'm asking for PMs and pics and cam sessions? Argh. No. Speaking of which, since I removed my gender etc. from my profile, my PM box is filled with only those familiar with me from posting. It's kinda nice.

 

[BigA]

"Man, if I wasn't married, I'd so fuck him in a New York minute."

Yes, I'm pretty sure that's the title of an Olson twins movie... lol

 

[snoozan]

Yes, I'm pretty sure that's the title of an Olson twins movie... lol

For the record, I would not have sex with either Olson twin. Ewww...

 

[kalipygian]

yes and yes