Size and your reaction to porn

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buffalowilliam said:
Porn's a fantasy thing. You watch in porn stuff you wouldn't necessarily like/want in real life ...

I respectfully disagree. Pron is fantasy, and it is more about lusting after something you find both desireable yet simultaneously (and possibly) unattainable: The blonde 19 year old buxum co-ed, the MFM threesome, the 10 guy circle jerk, the 9" cock, the leather daddies who invite you over to play. If pron was filled with things that people did not want, it would not be so prolific.

The fact that these istances happen for a rare few people makes the fantasy all the more attractive. In the end, its like SnakeByte and Sorceror said--it's a bunch of people who are good at looking like they are having a good time while being made to feel very uncomfortable and contorted for our pleasure. God love 'em.

I know a guy who did some pron and he talked about how difficult it was. The things they wanted him to do in his solo scene (fuck the pillow, for example) where not particulary arousing to him and the extras/director who offered to fluff him were totally unattractive. I'll stick to photo shoots, thanks!
 

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bigbull29 said:
I have to say that "big length" is much more common than "big girth" in the world of porn and among men in general.

Big length does not impress me near as much as big girth.

Maybe penis size should be determined by weight. what do you think? Boys with big girth would automatically win, unless you're competing with Madingo. LOL

In fact, who are some porn stars known for big girth? Brian Pumper? Mr. Marcus?
They have some meat between their legs.

i am with you all the way man. proportion, girth and how the guy uses his meat turns me on the most (of course length should probably be above average too;-) i've noticed performers are much harder than they used to be. viagra anyone?
 

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i certainly have a dick big enough to do porn......and would do it if approached....

Arliss, I do amit. You look like one of them guys you would see in a Meat Packers dvd. U know that series? Mostly solo scenes of big guys from NYC. However they come out with a straight and gay line now.
 

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When I started watching porn, in jr. high; it gave me the impression that I was average.

It was a nice discovery when I found out this wasn't the case. I was in denial about it some time.
 

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not at all.. if you go to an XXX store and pick a random dvd they would all be smaller than 8 inches.. now if you look mega cocks, big dicks and things like that you get 7 8 9 inches. but those are rare. porno are on average 6.5-7.5 inches.
 

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Y'all some insecure ass losers. Obviously you don't know how to please a woman with your cock if seeing a guy with a couple extra inches of length bugs you.
 

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I'm confused at what the question is here? Is it supposed to be how do you feel about male porn stars and their size compared to yours? Is it supposed to be do you like seeing big cocks in pornos?

Straight porn stars are usually the ones with big dicks. Gay porn stars are mostly average. When they do have big dicks it's advertised and marketed to sell the videos. That's why I stick to the straight porn. Big cocks, hardcore fucking and cum facials...everything I love.
 

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I agree with two-fister. The women in pro-porn just dial it in. The amature stuff with Shane Diesel is great. These girls are really having a hard time in the scenes.
 

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When women start to tell me that they wish I was a big a guys in porn.... Well I still won't worry. It's not how big your magical wand is. It's how magical you make thinks during sex with your wand.
 

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would you consider a career in digging up year old threads?

i think i may have just become the victim of the lamest comeback in the history of the internet. :eek:

hahahahahaha

I saw my first bit of porn when I was in middle school and not fully developed, so they all seemed huge to me. I remember one of them being huge and made me really self-concious at the time, and I later found out that the guy was the legend, Ron Jeremy.

After puberty though, I realized that most of the dudes are actually smaller than me. It's pretty rare that I find stars that are longer, but ESPECIALLY rare if they are thicker than I am.
 

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I'm curious, though, as to how an average, or below average, sized man responds to the typical porn images of large penises. Is the inevitable comparison ever a problem? I suspect that this may be more of an issue for straight men, but I'm open to all views.

Well, here is my story about porn and its impact with me...

I am 45 now. I saw very little porn with couples having sex through my teen years. The internet wasn't around yet. I saw a few porn vidoes at a stag party but it was more of an impact of seeing sex than even noticing the guy's sizes. I was a virgin until age 31, so sex was an unknown reality to me.

After college, me in my mid twenties, I got a decent job and moved into my own apartment. All sorts of privacy to do my own things. I remember subscribing to Penthouse and reading the "forum letters". There I started to read all these big cock stories. How "wonderful" sex was with them. Seeing ads for dildos and the sizes of them. I started noticing how thick they were compared to mine. I ordered some porn videos... John Holmes of all things! God was he HUGE! But so were all the guys in porn compared to me. And women took them on and seemed to love it! Sure I knew it was "fake" acting, but the cocks and pussies filled by them were not!

Seeing big cocks was such a turn on. The internet came along and I had access to all sorts of porn. The thing I looked for most was pictures and videos of women taking on big cocks. Sex was all about the physical act of a big cock in a pussy. It left me with all sorts of insecurities.

I discovered mine was thinner than average. When I finally lost my virginity it was not that great. I think I couldn't live up to all of the "expectations" I had in my head from seeing too much big dicked porn before experiencing sex for myself. I haven't overcome it to this day.


 

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One of the first clues I had that I was bigger than most came when I was in high school and while on lunch break from a summer job, my buddy and I went over to the house of a girl he knew. She had found her dad's porn stash and we were lounging around watching the movies. In one scene this lady was blowing a guy and going on and on about how big and hard he was. All I could think was, "What the hell? He's no bigger than I am."

As far as today goes, I really don't know why, but movies in which the guy is smaller than I am don't do much for me. I'm not sure if it's just a distraction or the fantasy of it gets messed up because I can see more physcially intense fucking in real life (unless there's something really crazy going on in the movie).
 

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In fact, it appears to me that the very well endowed "actors" often find it difficult to get truly rock hard, and as this has never been a problem for me, that fact provides a measure of reassurance as well.

Keep in mind that porn scenes are taped over a much longer period, anywhere from two to 12 hours. The director says 'cut' and lights and cameras are moved. Often a dozen people are watching you. And the woman may or may not be turned on or even attractive to you. Under those conditions, a partial erection is pretty understandable.

Size is not a major consideration to become a porn star. Getting hard and ejaculating when asked to are the main talents. Being endowed too is a bonus as far as porn producers are concerned.
 

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ok so an honest opinion,

i have a small cock no more that 5" erect, and i have to say it has been a constant problem for me through my childhood and adult life,

im 39 now and have finally learned to accept and realise that it is not a problem foe me it works, and my g/f always has orgasms when we make love,

but as for the porn side of things it is intimidating and you certainly wonder if thats what all women want or expect from a man, i have found that my partner thinks after many discussions on the subject that she is turned on by me, my mind, my humour, my love for her,

all these things combinded i believe she would be satisfied and orgasm if i were 2" big as its not my size that makes her cum its me !!!

Take Care all