New here; Recently I have had an interest in the size issue. I guess it comes from insecurity issues as my gf left after she had sex with someone else. I know there are probably deeper issues here than penis size but she had someone else a few years earlier while we were together and she came right back to me and said he wasn't satisfying to her (not enough meat) were her exact words. Most of you on this site seem to be bigger than me and I just can't seem to find a reputable survey site that doesn't have a lot of questions left to be answered e.g. standard of measure,age,race,sexual orientation etc.. Okay here goes my personal measurements. Laying flat on my back with a ruler pressed to my pubic bone it reaches 7.75 inches. When I measure circumference it goes 6.5 inches at the middle and 6.75 inches at the base. From what I have found on internet sites I felt pretty good that I wasn't small but nowhere near what you guys all claim to have, so not huge either. So because of past experience with her I don't know how much of an issue this is with her. No I don't know how big her new guy is. I probably just didn't make her happy in other ways...What are your thoughts as to how important a thing this might be to a relationship? If I start looking for someone new do you think I should start trying enlarging programs or what?
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You're big. By any survey you're bigger than average. Here's a summary of surveys from Thunder's Place that does break down results by race, methodology and results.
More important is what happened to you. I've been here at LPSG for years and one of the great truths I've learned is that dick size is no reflection on the man to whom it's attached. This question has arisen numerous times and always the answers reflect two truths: If your girlfriend dumped you because the next guy was bigger than you then what she was looking for was a dildo, not a boyfriend. That would mean she was so superficial as to be in love with your dick, not you. You have to admit, that's pretty damn shallow, she has issues, and you're best rid of her. The chances that the next guy really is bigger than you are slim and the fact that she was vulgar enough to throw it in your face shows she has no respect for you or what you thought you had together. Yet another reason to let her go. Let her be the next guy's problem.
I know you must be hurting right now. Not a lot will change that. Do take heart in that you really do have a big cock no matter what she says and that it's good you found out what she really felt about you today rather than tomorrow, next month, or years from now. There are a lot of women out there who will love you for you, not what's between your legs as I'm sure the women here will be happy to corroborate.
More important is what happened to you. I've been here at LPSG for years and one of the great truths I've learned is that dick size is no reflection on the man to whom it's attached. This question has arisen numerous times and always the answers reflect two truths: If your girlfriend dumped you because the next guy was bigger than you then what she was looking for was a dildo, not a boyfriend. That would mean she was so superficial as to be in love with your dick, not you. You have to admit, that's pretty damn shallow, she has issues, and you're best rid of her. The chances that the next guy really is bigger than you are slim and the fact that she was vulgar enough to throw it in your face shows she has no respect for you or what you thought you had together. Yet another reason to let her go. Let her be the next guy's problem.
I know you must be hurting right now. Not a lot will change that. Do take heart in that you really do have a big cock no matter what she says and that it's good you found out what she really felt about you today rather than tomorrow, next month, or years from now. There are a lot of women out there who will love you for you, not what's between your legs as I'm sure the women here will be happy to corroborate.
be happy with what you have it will serve you well.
find a girl that loves you for you and all of you
find a girl that loves you for you and all of you
Don't be silly!
If those are your true measurements then what are you worried about? Maybe she left you because she has found something more in a relationship. I suggest you do the same. Don't base a relation ship on the size of your cock!:smile:
Principessa
Expert Member
Hell No! When not bone pressed you are probably like 7.5x6.5 This is well above average and should be satisfactory for most women.New here; Recently I have had an interest in the size issue. I guess it comes from insecurity issues as my gf left after she had sex with someone else. Then she did you a favor.
Excellent advice!
Boy do you have a lot to learn about women.
If that's how you really think, you are better off going for the woman who likes your cock more than your wallet. Money comes and goes. Your penis will be with you forever.She doesn't sound slutty to me. She sounds young, fickle; and immature. My guess is she is under 25 though there are women twice her agea who act just as idiotically.
Thanks for all the encouragment. It's hard to rationalize things sanely when your emotions get so involved.You start looking for all sorts of silly things to justify any shortcomings (no pun intended). I guess it would be hard for anyone to admit to themselves that they were a crappy boyfriend but I guess I was for what she wanted. She is now with a guy who is verbally and sometimes physically abusive. Drugs,excessive drinking, doesn't hold a job etc.... Still she says "better than you". She said she could never respect me "to nice" as she put it. Just two different people looking for different lifestyles. I am the true blue type who gives their all to the one they are with. She wasn't. I understand everyone has their own outlook on things so it's hard to say your wrong, I'm right. It's just not that easy. Oh well wish her the best and hope what I have to offer is good for someone else. Thanks again
Man you are more than ok to most woman. Average size penis is 5.5 to 6 x 5 .Average size penis is much smaller than most people think . Many guys imagine that average is atleast 8 inches thats why many has size insecurity issues.
B_ScaredLittleBoy
Experimental Member
"Hey, everyone! Tell me how big my cock is."
Cock is cock. Its not a substitute for compassion, likeability, compatibility, emotional connection, care and consideration etc. Its just a cock.
She left you because you as a person were not right for her. I doubt cock factors into it. Money perhaps could have done, women are money-centric.
Look it as her loss rather than yours. I try to do this. Who would want to break up with a pretty man like me?
Pecker gives sage advice.
Cock is cock. Its not a substitute for compassion, likeability, compatibility, emotional connection, care and consideration etc. Its just a cock.
She left you because you as a person were not right for her. I doubt cock factors into it. Money perhaps could have done, women are money-centric.
Look it as her loss rather than yours. I try to do this. Who would want to break up with a pretty man like me?
Pecker gives sage advice.
Dolittle,
Chalk that up to what's called a "trial relationship." You're both getting ready for the next better one. If it's to be, the last and best one.
You'll never love like that again, but you will love again.
Remember: when you forgive, you love. When you love, life shines its light on you.
Chalk that up to what's called a "trial relationship." You're both getting ready for the next better one. If it's to be, the last and best one.
You'll never love like that again, but you will love again.
Remember: when you forgive, you love. When you love, life shines its light on you.
