New here; Recently I have had an interest in the size issue. I guess it comes from insecurity issues as my gf left after she had sex with someone else. I know there are probably deeper issues here than penis size but she had someone else a few years earlier while we were together and she came right back to me and said he wasn't satisfying to her (not enough meat) were her exact words. Most of you on this site seem to be bigger than me and I just can't seem to find a reputable survey site that doesn't have a lot of questions left to be answered e.g. standard of measure,age,race,sexual orientation etc.. Okay here goes my personal measurements. Laying flat on my back with a ruler pressed to my pubic bone it reaches 7.75 inches. When I measure circumference it goes 6.5 inches at the middle and 6.75 inches at the base. From what I have found on internet sites I felt pretty good that I wasn't small but nowhere near what you guys all claim to have, so not huge either. So because of past experience with her I don't know how much of an issue this is with her. No I don't know how big her new guy is. I probably just didn't make her happy in other ways...What are your thoughts as to how important a thing this might be to a relationship? If I start looking for someone new do you think I should start trying enlarging programs or what?