Size = Confidence

[Xavian]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here:

I'm pretty sure every guy reacts differently to his penis size. Some over-compensate, some under-compensate. Some don't let their size dic(k)tate who they are as people. I don't care how big or small your cock is, the important thing is that you at least attempt to be a somewhat good person. If cock size matters that much to you, I suggest you buy a 13" dildo and move on with your life .

 

[Big Dreamer]

Well said, Xavian. There's no problem with someone being either satisfied or unsatisfied with their dick size (or bicep size, or gut size, etc.). It's when one becomes obsessed over a particular part of their anatomy, they're missing the boat on what inherently defines their character, which is a mixture of hundreds of physical, mental, and emotional assets and liabilities....... one of which happens to be dick size.

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

True confidence comes from within. It comes from loving yourself as you are, warts and all. My dick has nothing to do with how confident I am.

Dig it, there, Lex.

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

I already tend to be shy and non confident about my body, so for sure I'd be less confident so strip naked if I was smaller.

 

[londonguy]

I know a guy that is very smart, succesfull and confident. The result: he can show his dick at any kind of situation. He is average.

hmm...his intellect has manifested itself in a strange way then! :lmao:

 

[Magic 8]

I just happen to have a larger than average dick attached to a smaller than average body. The person that inhabits this body is where my confidence comes from, not from my dick size.

You have to be happy and satisified with yourself and be confident in your own abilities before you can project an aura of confidence outwardly to other people. Confidence comes from within, not from the size of an appendage hanging from your body.

 

[Nitrofiend]

Ah, but if the assumption is correct, is it really all that ridiculous?

Yes! Because there are no scientific grounds backing any of those claims -- it's a collection of stereotypes. Observing that it's somewhat true in my case is merely a coincidence.

 

[7point5]

I think confidence comes from your early years. I feel confident in most ways in my life but I grew up feeling "small" because my older brothers and father were bigger than me (at the time). Also, I was uncut in a world of circumcised boys and was ashamed. Now I know that being pretty long (7 1/2") and uncut is pretty cool, esp. with a small, slim body. But I don't carry that confidence with me into everyday life.

 

[Fire Stick]

I do think that, for many well hung men, their big dicks do indeed provide them with a “certain swagger” in a variety of situations. I don’t think this is a bad thing, necessarily, as it is appropriate to learn how to capitalize on one’s strengths and assets. As an example – although perhaps a silly one – during my young life, like many redheads, I was teased by some of my peers about the color of my hair and, as a result, during adolescence, I sometimes felt insecure about my desirability. However, having a large endowment did make me feel better and inspired self-confidence when I compared myself to other guys, and by the time I was 15, I was so over that “I’d rather be dead than red on the head” thing. Having self-confidence because of some personal quality or characteristic is a good thing, as long as it has a healthy application, and as long as you maintain the right overall perspective.

 

[1kmb1]

no, but it doesnt hurt

 

[B_chinagirl73]

I know some spectular instances of guys who are incredibly hung and lack confidence.

Recently I met a guy from another website who is 27yo, handsome, intelligent and has 9 inches - but he is a virgin (!!). It is a little freaky for me.

Also met a guy through a girlfriend recently who is a little dorky and socially cumbersome - and has 11 inches and has some real issues about it. The girl I met him through had known him for 2 years and never knew about his endowment (obviously never been fucked by him either).

 

[mr obd]

I was thinking the other day, and although I am insecure about some other things in life, I am always thankful that I have a big dick. Do you think you would be as confident as you are, if you had nothing to offer downstairs?

im very small down there but my confidence has always been really high, i do so many other things & people know me for so many other reasons that i dont even think about my size most of the time & when i do i like what ive got so its all good i guess.

Im sure some people act differently cause being small plays on there minds but its only one part of u, most people have got so many other things to offer that being down about it should be last of their worries ya know.

im always happy though so maybe its just me hehe

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

I was thinking the other day, and although I am insecure about some other things in life, I am always thankful that I have a big dick. Do you think you would be as confident as you are, if you had nothing to offer downstairs?

I don't think there's nearly as much correlation there as the Enzyte commercials would have you believe.

 

[Gillette]

I don't think there's nearly as much correlation there as the Enzyte commercials would have you believe.

Oh, sure, ruin their whole campaign.

 

[Nitrofiend]

I don't think there's nearly as much correlation there as the Enzyte commercials would have you believe.

Those commercials may very well be the only things contributing to that correlation. Which came first: the recent PE movement or the idea that bigger is better? It doesn't matter because it is its own feedback mechanism.

 

[vibratingfinger]

It depends on what your question actually means. If you are talking about relationships, I bet there is some correlation. But in life and work absolutely not. If you are smart, articulate, and have a good sense of humor then you have everyone beat. If you are dumb, have limited knowledge, can't carry on a conversation longer than a few seconds and have no sense of humor you are truly fucked and miserable.

I feel more confident when I'm around people who are dumb or of average intelligence. I feel so much better when I know that I'm people's intellectual superior. I feel far less confident when I'm in a crowd of very accomplished individuals. I know this makes me a prick, but aren't we all?

 

[Nitrofiend]

It depends on what your question actually means. If you are talking about relationships, I bet there is some correlation. But in life and work absolutely not. If you are smart, articulate, and have a good sense of humor then you have everyone beat. If you are dumb, have limited knowledge, can't carry on a conversation longer than a few seconds and have no sense of humor you are truly fucked and miserable.

I feel more confident when I'm around people who are dumb or of average intelligence. I feel so much better when I know that I'm people's intellectual superior. I feel far less confident when I'm in a crowd of very accomplished individuals. I know this makes me a prick, but aren't we all?

Interestingly enough, I tend to gravitate toward people who are far more intelligent than I -- but not such that they are incapable of being dumber than me from time to time .

 

[viking1]

It depends on what your question actually means. If you are talking about relationships, I bet there is some correlation. But in life and work absolutely not. If you are smart, articulate, and have a good sense of humor then you have everyone beat. If you are dumb, have limited knowledge, can't carry on a conversation longer than a few seconds and have no sense of humor you are truly fucked and miserable.

I feel more confident when I'm around people who are dumb or of average intelligence. I feel so much better when I know that I'm people's intellectual superior. I feel far less confident when I'm in a crowd of very accomplished individuals. I know this makes me a prick, but aren't we all?

I don't like being around people who are of low intelligence or uneducated.
That doesn't really make me feel any more confident. I don't mind being abound those who are way more intelligent or educated than I am.
As long as they talk on a reasonably understandable level and don't try to belittle me.

I am sure I would have more confidence for relationships or social type situations if I were more well endowed. I currently have no confidence in social siutuations and can't stand a large crowd. I often turn around and leave if I go somewhere and run into a large crowd. I also have zero self confidence to meet women.

 

[D_Tintagel_Demondong]

I'm amazed at the torture and expense that some men put themselves through just to gain a half inch.

On the other hand, I am guilty of contributing to a society that praises large cocks. I have commented on photos of large cocks; I have seen the increase in size of men in straight porn; I've been involved in SPH cuck scenes.

I would say, "be proud of who you are, regardless of your size," but that would make me a hypocrite.

 

[lookingforhung]

If we were allowed to whip out are dick at work, with friends, in any situation..maybe..otherwise, no. lol