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I’m having a crisis moment. If penis size is important, and large penises are better than average or small penises, why are the majority of men in relationships? Because obviously the majority of men are average. It doesn’t add up. And I’m in crisis.
 

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I don’t think this is something a man can answer. The very fact that this is a thread highlights that men in general (well, most perhaps. Ok, some) are focused on our penis size. Bottom line, we want to be bigger than the next guy. Before marriage, I had been told a few times I was “so big,” and on other occasions, heard absolutely nothing about my size. Go figure. Does that mean that the former group had only smaller one previously, and the second group had larger ones? I don’t know. In the end, I think they were all quite satified with my performance, so maybe size doesn’t matter. My wife tells me on ocassion I’m “so big” in the throws of passion, but honestly, I don’t think she truly cares. She loves me no matter what, and may very well be saying it more for my ego than for anything else.

But, yeah, it’s fucking nice to hear!
 
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Possible explanation: certain parties (or industries) profit by promulgating the notion that your penis just isn't good enough. Sort of like the beauty and cosmetics industry and Madison Avenue: just as they are responsible for the rock-bottom self-esteem of girls everywhere (as well as bulimia), there are now men toting around seven-inchers who think they're small.
 

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I don’t think this is something a man can answer. The very fact that this is a thread highlights that men in general (well, most perhaps. Ok, some) are focused on our penis size. Bottom line, we want to be bigger than the next guy. Before marriage, I had been told a few times I was “so big,” and on other occasions, heard absolutely nothing about my size. Go figure. Does that mean that the former group had only smaller one previously, and the second group had larger ones? I don’t know. In the end, I think they were all quite satified with my performance, so maybe size doesn’t matter. My wife tells me on ocassion I’m “so big” in the throws of passion, but honestly, I don’t think she truly cares. She loves me no matter what, and may very well be saying it more for my ego than for anything else.

But, yeah, it’s fucking nice to hear!

From the looks of your photos, I believe you should trust that your wife knows what she is talking about. :)
 

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From the looks of your photos, I believe you should trust that your wife knows what she is talking about. :)

Thank you, my friend.

I think the point is that there is always someone bigger out there, as we can see in locker rooms or on this site, and if size alone was the deciding factor in a relationship, to answer the question of OP, many of us should not be in relationships. But we are, so clearly, most women have more sense than men when it comes to penis size.
 
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Besides the simple reality that penis size matters in different ways to different partners, here's a radical thought -

There's more to the man than his dick, contrary to what fetish porn might suggest.
 

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I’m having a crisis moment. If penis size is important, and large penises are better than average or small penises, why are the majority of men in relationships? Because obviously the majority of men are average. It doesn’t add up. And I’m in crisis.

No you aren't
 

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Joking aside a survey of reproductive age heterosexual women and men asked to rank ten characteristics of the opposite sex from most to least important netted the following results:

90% of women ranked how much money a man has as the number one or number two most important male characteristic and

90% of men ranked how good looking a woman is as the number one or number two most important female characteristic.

This explains why there's a beauty industry (and expectation) for heterosexual women but not for heterosexual men. For example women spent more money on cosmetics than we spent on the space program to go to the Moon. It also explains why women's clothing, shoes and accessories are so vastly overpriced compared to men's.

It also explains why the patriarchal glass ceiling has been around forever: men have to have money to get and keep a woman. I once discovered a coworker with the same grade, training and seniority was being paid more because he was married and I wasn't. I asked immediately for a raise from that old boy network and got it.

It also explains why men get paid more than women for the same work.

BTW the list of characteristics was the same for both sexes but did not include penis (or breast) size or any other specific physical characteristic except whether one is "athletic." :)

In case you were wondering about the opposite score: women ranked how good looking a man is about halfway down the list. Men ranked how much money a woman has about halfway down the list.

As a population study it doesn't say what any one individual is like but it did answer the question "what do most women and men want?"

It also answers the OP's question. Why are most men in relationships? Because most men work and have money.:cool:
 
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Joking aside a survey of reproductive age heterosexual women and men asked to rank ten characteristics of the opposite sex from most to least important netted the following results:

90% of women ranked how much money a man has as the number one or number two most important male characteristic and

90% of men ranked how good looking a woman is as the number one or number two most important female characteristic.

This explains why there's a beauty industry (and expectation) for heterosexual women but not for heterosexual men. For example women spent more money on cosmetics than we spent on the space program to go to the Moon. It also explains why women's clothing, shoes and accessories are so vastly overpriced compared to men's.

It also explains why the patriarchal glass ceiling has been around forever: men have to have money to get and keep a woman. I once discovered a coworker with the same grade, training and seniority was being paid more because he was married and I wasn't. I asked immediately for a raise from that old boy network and got it.

It also explains why men get paid more than women for the same work.

BTW the list of characteristics was the same for both sexes but did not include penis (or breast) size or any other specific physical characteristic except whether one is "athletic." :)

In case you were wondering about the opposite score: women ranked how good looking a man is about halfway down the list. Men ranked how much money a woman has about halfway down the list.

As a population study it doesn't say what any one individual is like but it did answer the question "what do most women and men want?"

It also answers the OP's question. Why are most men in relationships? Because most men work and have money.:cool:
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Maybe because there is a lot more to a relationship than dick size? Sure MAYBE the bigger dick equals better sex..... MAYBE. But that’s it......