It would have ended badly anyways. Would you have preferred to just put on a show together. Both of you pretending to enjoy yourselves with your friends watching the bad acting? She seemed nice enough to emphasize that your size wouldn't have been an issue if you went first but I understand the impact on one's ego. It's not fair to vilify her just because she hurt you unintentionally.
As for this idea that we are all somehow entitled to have crazy pornstar sex no matter what our bodies are like, I disagree. Love is about the OTHER person but lust is about yourself(thank you Divine Comedy). So if you want to have casual sex with no feelings attached(lust), both parties are just looking to please themselves. It's understandable that someone would leave once it's clear they won't get as much pleasure as they thought. Having a ton of casual sex is often just a symptom of insecurity. If your endowment forces you to stick to meaningful sex then I don't think you're missing out on much.[/QUOTE
Have to agree to disagree on that. I mean I am sure if a girl came on here saying she feels insecure about her body or bits because of a group situation she was in, and the guys basically told her that her pussy was not doing it for them but the other girl was, well I am sure I know what most guys on here would be saying. "Dont worry they were just immature etc etc".
So do I have to make a girl fall in love with me before I can enjoy having sex without worrying that she will make fun of my penis? Thats how what you are saying sounds like to me. I would never dream of making a girl feel uncomfortable when in a situation like that, just cant see how you can say its right.
Finally you say she hurt me "unintentionally". Come on now, thats like me saying " I cant believe this girl got upset, I only said could you squeeze your legs together so i can feel something when we were having sex".