Although I lurk or have had a few real meetings through Swinging web-sites, I got an invitation the other day for a male for male website where you can join for free (well a limited time anyway). So, my curiosity led me to do so. Like another thread here, I can't define myself as bi or straight because there is definitely some gray for me, but that discussion is for another time. I find the gay ads or posts to be very interesting. Almost every guy who is well hung desires to meet only other well-hung guys. In other words, the man with size is only apparently turned on by others with size. Certainly there are preferences listed regarding age, looks, tops, bottoms, and so on. But, almost every guy stating that he is very well-endowed just about requires the guy who will respond be equally endowed or better. And, with a few exceptions, the guy with size is a top vs. a bottom. So, what do you make of this? I conclude that size is more important to men than it is to women. I also conclude that size plays more of a dominating role or concept for men to men. Agree, disagree?