Size - Do You Even Notice?

[hsarge]

I have seen videos of both Mandingo and Jack Napier measured correctly. Mandingo was slightly over 9.5 (it looks bigger because he is a small guy). Big Jack was at 9.5 (he's a funny guy). These are 2 benchmark guys in the porn business. I doubt the measurements of the 9's and 10's I hear about in some posts.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

Interesting thread SG, and my women friends and lovers have said pretty much the same things.

If it's of any interest, I could describe very accurately every pussy I've ever been down on or fucked, and that is a three figure number. I can't remember names, but I remember pussy intimately.

I like to hear the description. Not to mention right from when i joined, you have been my favorite poster and your writing skill is top notch.

 

[Mithra]

I think with these two statements, it's pretty easy to understand why guys are so obsessed with size. Even to your own words, a girl with only notice a dick if it is big (or small). Don't you think most guys would actually like a girl to notice his dick? Perhaps even appreciate it? (which is hard to do if you don't even notice much about it) I'm sure as a girl you would like guy's to notice, pay attention, and appreciate your pussy, right? It's as if no matter what kind of sex I can give a girl, she won't remember much about my dick, but she'll never forget the guy with the big dick before me because she "noticed" him. This isn't meant as an attack or anything, just further explanation as to why size is so important to us.

I think they are talking about noticing the SIZE of the dick. If its in the average range they aren't thinking about its size. I'm pretty sure if you are having sex with a woman she is noticing your penis.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

I categorize them in terms of what we will be able to do as lovers:

5" and 6"-ers pop out, however, good all-purpose cocks that are slightly limited in terms of stroke or position, but can be an excellent lay ( as in "fuck your brains out" - call him "the mighty dog" :biggrin1. Also, generally not all about the penis -- unless someone has been gassing his ego.

7" rarely pops out, the increased variety and depth are welcum, but can still own him through deep throat without a problem... 8" and 9" do not pop out, love the two-handed hand jobs, switching positions while he's still inside (which I will try with the average guy, but, yeah... :09, and knowing he'll push my limits.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I don't notice size as much. I just notice how it looks. Veins, cut/uncut, color, etc.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Thank you! I appreciate the compliments.

You're welcome :smile:

I think with these two statements, it's pretty easy to understand why guys are so obsessed with size. Even to your own words, a girl with only notice a dick if it is big (or small). Don't you think most guys would actually like a girl to notice his dick? Perhaps even appreciate it? (which is hard to do if you don't even notice much about it)

I didn't say I don't notice their dick, only that I don't think about size. Believe me, I notice their dick! In fact I pay quite a lot of attention to it.

I'm beginning to think I REALLY didn't explain my point very well.

I'm sure as a girl you would like guy's to notice, pay attention, and appreciate your pussy, right?

Actually, I wouldn't. Those kind of comments make me feel rather uncomfortable because it's based on luck of the draw. I'd rather him notice and comment on my bedroom skills.

It's as if no matter what kind of sex I can give a girl, she won't remember much about my dick, but she'll never forget the guy with the big dick before me because she "noticed" him.

I think you might have missed my earlier comments about how it's largely the non-dick related stuff that makes sex great. Generally, if you're good at sex, you'll be remembered, even if she never thought about your dick size once.

This isn't meant as an attack or anything, just further explanation as to why size is so important to us.

Understood :smile:.

Observations:

Three dirty stinky brown carrots.

Ewwww . . . it could have sounded sexy, but nope.

I think they are talking about noticing the SIZE of the dick. If its in the average range they aren't thinking about its size. I'm pretty sure if you are having sex with a woman she is noticing your penis.

Exactly! Thanks for understanding what i was getting at :smile:

I categorize them in terms of what we will be able to do as lovers:

5" and 6"-ers pop out, however, good all-purpose cocks that are slightly limited in terms of stroke or position, but can be an excellent lay ( as in "fuck your brains out" - call him "the mighty dog" :biggrin1. Also, generally not all about the penis -- unless someone has been gassing his ego.

7" rarely pops out, the increased variety and depth are welcum, but can still own him through deep throat without a problem... 8" and 9" do not pop out, love the two-handed hand jobs, switching positions while he's still inside (which I will try with the average guy, but, yeah... :09, and knowing he'll push my limits.

ROFL :biggrin1: Most of these are so true for me.

I kinda have a thing for measuring cocks, and I've measured every guy I've dated since I was 18 or 19. If we just had sex once or twice I never did, but if we dated I definitely measured.

Really? Wow! I've only measured my LTRs (and did a non-subtle hand measurement on one FB). Asking to measure isn't really something I feel comfortable doing in general. Would be interesting to have the stats though.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

Really? Wow! I've only measured my LTRs (and did a non-subtle hand measurement on one FB). Asking to measure isn't really something I feel comfortable doing in general. Would be interesting to have the stats though.

Most of the guys I've asked to measure have thought it was kinda fun and hot to let me get a ruler out, I don't think you'd find all that much objection from a guy if you just say "so let's find out how big you are" with a nice smile

 

[petite]

Most of the guys I've asked to measure have thought it was kinda fun and hot to let me get a ruler out, I don't think you'd find all that much objection from a guy if you just say "so let's find out how big you are" with a nice smile

Are you serious? You take bigger risks with men's egos than I do! I've always suspected that this was a topic best handled with great delicacy, so that's what I've done.

 

[TinyPrincess]

How accurate is this mental list? Like could you estimate what the size distribution for what you had is?.

It could probably estimate most of the guys within ½ inch - length and girth - 1 inch at most.

Makes me feel lucky I have only had 4 then, lest I think that such comments are directed at myself.

4 guys with 8"+ in a row??? That's either one in a million - or my comment was directed at you

Why am I not surprised? :biggrin1:

I know :biggrin1: Guess I'm starting to have a reputation of being the LPSG girth queen :tongue: (I don't mind it)

I don't notice size as much. I just notice how it looks. Veins, cut/uncut, color, etc.

I notice the girth (and length) - but looks is a major turn-on as well. The veins, the head, how massive it looks, is it hard and pointing upwards, is it straight etc.

 

[basincreek]

It could probably estimate most of the guys within ½ inch - length and girth - 1 inch at most.

Interesting. Then you could enter the number of guys you've had into this calculator and it estimates what the sizes of your past penises.

Why don't you see just how inaccurate/accurate it is.

 

[shr1125]

Interesting. Then you could enter the number of guys you've had into this calculator and it estimates what the sizes of your past penises.

Why don't you see just how inaccurate/accurate it is.

That "calculator" assumes statistical randomness with regard to a person's sexual partners in determining the frequency distribution of penis sizes. I would argue that a persons' sexual partners are not selected at random, thus negating the accuracy of the calculator/mathematical model in your link. However, becuase the model does incorporate average and standard deviation, it will be precise for some individuals.

In other words, the model is drawing a random sample (with replacement) from a distribution with a given mean and standard deviation for a given N (number of partners). Unless a girl has been having sex with random individuals (literally; she would have had to have selected her sexual partners at random), that website is not likely to be accurate.

 

[cougar_domme]

That "calculator" assumes statistical randomness with regard to a person's sexual partners in determining the frequency distribution of penis sizes. I would argue that a persons' sexual partners are not selected at random, thus negating the accuracy of the calculator/mathematical model in your link. However, becuase the model does incorporate average and standard deviation, it will be precise for some individuals.

In other words, the model is drawing a random sample (with replacement) from a distribution with a given mean and standard deviation for a given N (number of partners). Unless a girl has been having sex with random individuals (literally; she would have had to have selected her sexual partners at random), that website is not likely to be accurate.

This has actually made my point for me - I socialise with a large number of men, but do not sleep with random guys. Since I was married I have only slept with 4 men. The first being large was a matter of chance, the following 3 were made sexual partners specifically because they were hung (not that they didn't have other features that also drew me). Everyone is talking odds as though I have just lucked into sleeping with 4 men who all by chance happened to be hung. Only the first one was by chance, had he never entered my life it likely would never have become a fetish for me. It is an aspect I deliberately seek out in my lovers. The fact that people find it hard to understand my obsession with it when I am present here on a site specifically dedicated to large penis is actually quite beyond me.

 

[cougar_domme]

Just to add further to that to try and illustrate a very realistic example - I am a member of this site, and so far have chatted to a few Australian men on here who are hung. So if I sleep with one of them next, and have zero intention of sleeping with an average guy in the meantime, then I would have slept with 5 hung men in a row - if I slept with 2 of them, then I would have slept with 6 hung men in a row. Can you see the point I am making about specific selection skewing the odds?

I have aspergers and am very facts orientated, extremely focused, analytical and logical. I know I have an obsession and have no problem with it. I was referred to this site by someone who knew my preferences, I had hoped to find if not others who shared my fetish, at least some who would be somewhat understanding of it.

 

[DAVISDAVE]

Just to add further to that to try and illustrate a very realistic example - I am a member of this site, and so far have chatted to a few Australian men on here who are hung. So if I sleep with one of them next, and have zero intention of sleeping with an average guy in the meantime, then I would have slept with 5 hung men in a row - if I slept with 2 of them, then I would have slept with 6 hung men in a row. Can you see the point I am making about specific selection skewing the odds?

I have aspergers and am very facts orientated, extremely focused, analytical and logical. I know I have an obsession and have no problem with it. I was referred to this site by someone who knew my preferences, I had hoped to find if not others who shared my fetish, at least some who would be somewhat understanding of it.

Well you re on the right site then. And if someone complaints about the fact that your past lovers have all been hung, he´s either jealous or too dumb to get your attitude. It is strange that on a ´Large penis support site´ most male users claiming to be 9 inches and above think that real 8 inchers are very rare...paradox

 

[basincreek]

I won't deny I'm jealous. I'd sell beloved family members into slavery for a chance with cougar_domme. But that doesn't mean I, in any way, expect her to deviate from her stated standard for penis size. And I'm okay with that. I'm okay that even if we were stranded on an island together, with little chance of rescue, and found out we loved each others personality, that sex would just never ever happen because she simply doesn't do it with guys who have dicks my size.

And If I could be cool with that I don't see why others need to make a big deal out of it.

 

[Drifterwood]

Definitely of interest (although listing them all HERE would probably be excessive :tongue. I find it quite intriguing that the males who have answered experience things so differently. Some can feel a lot of physical difference, for others all girly-bits feel much the same.

I like to hear the description. Not to mention right from when i joined, you have been my favorite poster and your writing skill is top notch.

Thank you Spice.

I think it is probably fair to say that there are fewer differences when you are fucking, but I would still say that there are a lot. I think maybe not enough of these guys are going down with their eyes open and really getting to know the pussy. IME every pussy has been different which is why I am fairly confident that I could describe my take on each of the ones that I have known.

 

[curious_angel]

Thank you Spice.

I think it is probably fair to say that there are fewer differences when you are fucking, but I would still say that there are a lot. I think maybe not enough of these guys are going down with their eyes open and really getting to know the pussy. IME every pussy has been different which is why I am fairly confident that I could describe my take on each of the ones that I have known.

I'd like to read this too. Sounds like good material for a new thread....or a book deal.

 

[Drifterwood]

I'd like to read this too. Sounds like good material for a new thread....or a book deal.

I am supposed to be working now all that I can think about is ......:biggrin1:

Back to my email

PS - You're in construction?

 

[curious_angel]

I am supposed to be working now all that I can think about is ......:biggrin1:

Back to my email

PS - You're in construction?

Meh, I'm supposed to be working too. This is far more interesting though.

Construction?


Great thread Subgirrl. I'm with the majority of the other female posters here. I've only noticed the extremes in size and most must have been average. I've never actually got a ruler out and measured! Levels of sweat induced, the sound of grunts, sighs, the taste of his skin, his cum......are all just as memorable.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Interesting. Then you could enter the number of guys you've had into this calculator and it estimates what the sizes of your past penises.

Why don't you see just how inaccurate/accurate it is.

Wrong at both ends of the spectrum, and by a lot.