"size doesn't matter" really means....???

[sizequeenNY]

OMG wait so what we're saying here is....size matters to some women and to some women it doesnt.


Holy shit! history has been made here today on LPSG!

I know right, shocking news

 

[sizequeenNY]

The problem with these threads is nobody's mind gets changed. People enter these threads with one of 2 views. Some people are grounded in reality and realize that size doesn't matter enough to get you or lose you a girl. Some people are consumed in fantasy and insist that little else matters if you're not enormous. And everyone leaves with the same position they came in with, because it was never about facts. It's about reality vs fantasy, and people living in fantasy love their fantasy and don't want you to take it from them.
At the risk of seeming like I'm speaking for all women, I'll again just tell the guys out there, the vast majority of women do not pick a guy based on the size of his dick. That's not to say it's completely irrelevant to everyone, but chemistry and familiarity go a long way, and the proof is that there are tons of great women who are with guys with average ones, when I assure you they had a choice.

Why is reality where size doesn't matter? My reality is that size does matter. There are men who like fit women or curvy women, big breasts or small breasts, blondes or brunettes, Black or Asian or White. Why is it an issue for a woman, as part of what she wants from a man, for him to be well endowed?

 

[sizequeenNY]

I think you mistook my comment. By telling a small guy that size doesn't matter, A. It's a lie. B. THAT is what perpetuates this obsession and attitude about size not mattering. There's nothing wrong with having 'size matter'. It matters to me. That's not what I was saying.




THAT was the quote to which I was responding that you're perpetuating this attitude about size not mattering. This is why guys think size doesn't matter. Because you're saying it doesn't, when it does to you. That's kind of hypocritical.

I'm not trying any "bullshit". It's an open forum. I'm stating MY opinion. Not sure where this group think is coming from. Pretty sure I'm only one person. It's flattering though.

How many men have you been with? What entitles you to bruise a man's already fragile ego? Many women have an idea that men are strong but their ego is so fragile. If a man is asking you he about his endowment and he is small, he either wants reassurance of his manliness or he wants to be humiliated. I am not going to be the one to hurt someone because their size less than what I like. There is going to be a woman out there who wants them. My personal interest of someone endowed isn't an average guy or smaller guy's fault. It is absolutely unfair to hurt someone because I want something out of their reach that they can't control.

How would you feel if a guy said you should change your hair color or go on a diet?

 

[Ocine]

How many men have you been with? What entitles you to bruise a man's already fragile ego? Many women have an idea that men are strong but their ego is so fragile. If a man is asking you he about his endowment and he is small, he either wants reassurance of his manliness or he wants to be humiliated. I am not going to be the one to hurt someone because their size less than what I like. There is going to be a woman out there who wants them. My personal interest of someone endowed isn't an average guy or smaller guy's fault. It is absolutely unfair to hurt someone because I want something out of their reach that they can't control.

How would you feel if a guy said you should change your hair color or go on a diet?

Im agree with this


and for me size matter to all women
Because what a woman will do with a 1 inch penis, way too small.. or what she will do with a (real) 11 inch ? too big...

But of course for most women, they will not drop a guy just because hes average or smaller or bigger than average... when its not too small or too big all is ok


Its same for guys, we will not break with a girl just because her boobs are 1 size below what we like... except maybe the rare sizequeen of boobs

But It should be an issue for most men if a girl had the same boobs as lolo ferrari

So size matter only when its really too small or really too big for most women and some of them have still their preference like Daisy or sizequeenNY

thats my opinion !

 

[TexanStar]

Everyone lies about something or other.

One could simply suggest that if you're going to lie about something to avoid hurting someone's feelings, keep the lie up (rather than telling everyone else you lie once they're out of earshot).

Because it's that latter case which
a) spawns this kind of thread from guys who are convinced that large cocks are important to all women even if they say otherwise
b) irritates women for whom large cocks aren't important because they get taken less seriously when they try to communicate this.

 

[Popyuu]

What do girls really mean by saying "size doesn't matter"??

I think it matters to them... right? They just can't say it openly because of the guy that's attached to the dick...

That up there is the original post. Annnddd it seems it/he placed all of the women of the planet into one singular group (and that also includes past and present...and no thats not semantics.). Which, i think is the larger problem. When you make a general statement about a large group of people it tends to cause confusion way before the topic is even discussed.

Sure, we can do that thing where we surmise what he means but all that'll do is take attention away from the fact that he could have answered his own question just by evaluating the differences between women as a whole.

Of course size doesn't matter to all women because not all women are hetero to begin with. Of course they don't just say that cause of the guy cause some like va jay jay. :biggrin1:

But thats one example of why they may not though. Keep in mind though. The rest aren't all that difficult to find. I mean, women have been explaining this shit for a while now.

 

[Daisy]

I would never say size doesn't matter to someone, even to spare their feelings. I just say that size matters to ME, but that most women don't care, which I think is true.

 

[EllieP]

I guess I've always been with secure men who never cared for my reflections on their penis. Granted my sample group has been small, but no one has ever asked if I was OK with his size or if I've seen bigger or anything concerning dimensions.

My husband is the only man I've ever known who dared to mention anything about his size, but that was to apologize for any discomfort. All is forgiven.

Now if we begin to discuss something vs nothing then I'll go with something by all means. Even a small size is something to work with.

 

[Serial Kisser]

How many men have you been with? What entitles you to bruise a man's already fragile ego? Many women have an idea that men are strong but their ego is so fragile. If a man is asking you he about his endowment and he is small, he either wants reassurance of his manliness or he wants to be humiliated. I am not going to be the one to hurt someone because their size less than what I like. There is going to be a woman out there who wants them. My personal interest of someone endowed isn't an average guy or smaller guy's fault. It is absolutely unfair to hurt someone because I want something out of their reach that they can't control.

How would you feel if a guy said you should change your hair color or go on a diet?

That's pretty accusatory. You're assuming that I go around telling men they are small. I've learned a long time ago that if you don't have anything nice, don't say anything at all. I don't have sex with guys who are too small for me, so I don't run into that problem. And honestly, I couldn't give a flying fart in space about a man's precious ego. It's pretty asinine of you to assume that. We were talking about what youv'e said, not what you've imagined I've said.

So go ahead and keep lying, and we'll all keep having to read these ridiculous size assurance posts.

And just for argument's sake - you can change your hair color and your weight, so it's not really the same thing.

 

[sizequeenNY]

That's pretty accusatory. You're assuming that I go around telling men they are small. I've learned a long time ago that if you don't have anything nice, don't say anything at all. I don't have sex with guys who are too small for me, so I don't run into that problem. And honestly, I couldn't give a flying fart in space about a man's precious ego. It's pretty asinine of you to assume that. We were talking about what youv'e said, not what you've imagined I've said.

So go ahead and keep lying, and we'll all keep having to read these ridiculous size assurance posts.

And just for argument's sake - you can change your hair color and your weight, so it's not really the same thing.

I was speaking HYPOTHETICALLY

Why wouldn't you care about hurting someone's ego? Don't you have any compassion for others? You seem to be a bit of a misandrist by the way you sound

Also, just for argument's sake, you can change your penis size, popular procedure for middle aged men in the northeast

 

[Serial Kisser]

I was speaking HYPOTHETICALLY

Why wouldn't you care about hurting someone's ego? Don't you have any compassion for others? You seem to be a bit of a misandrist by the way you sound

Also, just for argument's sake, you can change your penis size, popular procedure for middle aged men in the northeast

Misanthrope. Equal opportunity people disliker.

You weren't speaking hypothetically, you addressed me directly, without ever once using the word 'hypothetically.' Hypothetically, when someone is speaking about something hypothetically, they use the word hypothetically.

Compassion for others, yes. Compassion for men obsessed with their dicks, less so.


And on second thought, you're complaining about a group think? The whole "Real women of LPSG are misandrists" is pretty group think. But coming from someone so hypocritical, that doesn't surprise me.

 

[sizequeenNY]

Misanthrope. Equal opportunity people disliker.

You weren't speaking hypothetically, you addressed me directly, without ever once using the word 'hypothetically.' Hypothetically, when someone is speaking about something hypothetically, they use the word hypothetically.

Compassion for others, yes. Compassion for men obsessed with their dicks, less so.


And on second thought, you're complaining about a group think? The whole "Real women of LPSG are misandrists" is pretty group think. But coming from someone so hypocritical, that doesn't surprise me.

I was addressing you with the first two questions, the rest was me posting in general. I am not going to entertain your stupidity by arguing the semantics of my lack of hitting the fucking return button while posting in the am. I was speaking hypothetically.

Many men who post about their size asking if it is important go onto other areas of this board and ask about cuckholding or have interest in humiliation.

I could call you a bunch of cunts, would that make you feel better

 

[Daisy]

I was addressing you with the first two questions, the rest was me posting in general. I am not going to entertain your stupidity by arguing the semantics of my lack of hitting the fucking return button while posting in the am. I was speaking hypothetically.

Many men who post about their size asking if it is important go onto other areas of this board and ask about cuckholding or have interest in humiliation.

I could call you a bunch of cunts, would that make you feel better

It wouldn't make me feel better...

 

[SprinkleMe69]

Where the hell did that come from?

Geez.

 

[Tactfulgal]

Why is reality where size doesn't matter? My reality is that size does matter. There are men who like fit women or curvy women, big breasts or small breasts, blondes or brunettes, Black or Asian or White. Why is it an issue for a woman, as part of what she wants from a man, for him to be well endowed?

You're confusing liking something with being pathologically obsessed with it. The funny thing is, I actually do consider a guy with a little extra size a bonus. But when you consider everything that contributes to being fulfilled with someone, to say you aren't attracted to someone because they don't have a huge dong, it's clinically insane. Sex can be mindblowing whether or not a guy is packing. Why on earth would I DQ a guy I'm into because his dick isn't a certain number?
I'm not saying it's bad to like something. I'm saying if you make every guy pass the crazy dick test or get DQd, you need to step down off the wacko wagon.

 

[TexanStar]

Where the hell did that come from?

Geez.

Dunno. She walked back in the door pissed off at you (http://www.lpsg.com/397836-four-for-four-luck-or.html)

Were you having a disagreement about something when she took her last break from the forums?

 

[Reddhott]

For what it's worth, Mr. Sexy Texy, there ain't nothing sub-par about you. :kiss:

 

[Guy-jin]

HUGECOCKASAURUSREX has entered the chatroom.

 

[TexanStar]

HUGECOCKASAURUSREX has entered the chatroom.

No one move! He can't see us if we hold still!

IAN FREEZE!

 

[AlteredEgo]

You're confusing liking something with being pathologically obsessed with it. The funny thing is, I actually do consider a guy with a little extra size a bonus. But when you consider everything that contributes to being fulfilled with someone, to say you aren't attracted to someone because they don't have a huge dong, it's clinically insane. Sex can be mindblowing whether or not a guy is packing. Why on earth would I DQ a guy I'm into because his dick isn't a certain number?
I'm not saying it's bad to like something. I'm saying if you make every guy pass the crazy dick test or get DQd, you need to step down off the wacko wagon.

There is a such thing as a large vagina. If I had one, guys with little dicks would be disqualified as romantic interests. Every single one of them. The cute ones, the ones who love their mamas, the tall ones, the funny ones, the hirsute ones, the brainy ones, all of them with small dicks would be right out. Call it pathological obsession if you want, but I have had the marriage with the perfect man who left me unsatisfied sexually. It wasn't a size issue for us, but it was a huge problem for me. I would never do that again, and I wouldn't wish that on a horrible woman. When a woman tells you SHE cannot be sexually satisfied by a cock that is not a certain size, you have no fucking right to try to make her feel crazy because of it, nor to dismiss what she says are her physical needs just because they are not the same as yours. Just who do you think you are?

The reality is that YOU have overgeneralized to the point of dismissing outlying women who DO exist, even if in minuscule numbers. There are some women who absolutely cannot get off from penetration unless the guy has a huge dick. I wouldn't give up coming from penetration for all the tea in china. If you would, I don't think that makes you a better woman than I am. I place a high enough priority on sex that unsatisfactory sex is a dealbreaker. My next husband has to be good at it without me teaching him everything from scratch, and he has to bone me almost every day. Bonus points go to the man who wants it twice a day daily, and will eat me out on my period, and lick his own semen out of me. I have found Mr. BonusPoints. Now I'm waiting to see if he is the rest of what I need a man to be to make a life with him. But, if this sexual connection wasn't right, he'd be out the door. All size queens are doing is the same thing I'm doing. They are insisting on what satisfies them. And you're an asshole for trying to shame this one. Back off of her.