"size doesn't matter" really means....???

[AlteredEgo]

How many men have you been with? What entitles you to bruise a man's already fragile ego? Many women have an idea that men are strong but their ego is so fragile. If a man is asking you he about his endowment and he is small, he either wants reassurance of his manliness or he wants to be humiliated. I am not going to be the one to hurt someone because their size less than what I like. There is going to be a woman out there who wants them. My personal interest of someone endowed isn't an average guy or smaller guy's fault. It is absolutely unfair to hurt someone because I want something out of their reach that they can't control.

How would you feel if a guy said you should change your hair color or go on a diet?

It isn't to bruise his ego, but to allow him to face reality. I show him the respect of honesty. I told he bearer of the first micropenis I encountered that our sexual relationship was over (without even trying intercourse) but that we could be friends if he wanted, just never to ask me why I changed my mind. I had been so conditioned not to tell a man his cock was too small that blew him until he passed out, and then I snuck out of his house at the crack of dawn. I had no idea what to say. I didn't want to lie, but I also didn't want to say, "Your dick is two-and-a-half inches long, and is shaped exactly like a dreidel. I don't like it. " Of course he didn't want to be friends. He didn't even dignify that suggestion with an answer. Maybe he'd have spoken to me again if instead of skipping out and refusing to tell him why I wouldn't fuck him I just diplomatically said, "My experience tells me we were not built for each other. Let's masturbate to some porn since we are both horny right now, and then let's stay friends."

Lying about something that's going to come up for him again and confuse him is wrong. It is the reason so many keep asking if size matters, and only believing what women like you say (when you don't have to look them in the eye, anyway) that it always matters, and refuse to believe the majority of women whose truth is it only matters if it doesn't fit, and most of them fit. Women like me who are fine from four to eleven inches are liars. Only women like you who won't fuck men with small dicks are being honest in the eyes of these confused men to whom women like you have been lying for ages. Then there are the men you (and women like you) have convinced. They are really confused too, and stigmatize size queens. Don't get me started on the women who buy into what you've told those men. You just met one earlier in this thread. That's the only point really being made.

 

[sizequeenNY]

Dunno. She walked back in the door pissed off at you (http://www.lpsg.com/397836-four-for-four-luck-or.html)

Were you having a disagreement about something when she took her last break from the forums?

I don't take breaks from here, I log on occasion as I have an actual life offline, clearly something many people on here struggle with

 

[sizequeenNY]

You're confusing liking something with being pathologically obsessed with it. The funny thing is, I actually do consider a guy with a little extra size a bonus. But when you consider everything that contributes to being fulfilled with someone, to say you aren't attracted to someone because they don't have a huge dong, it's clinically insane. Sex can be mindblowing whether or not a guy is packing. Why on earth would I DQ a guy I'm into because his dick isn't a certain number?
I'm not saying it's bad to like something. I'm saying if you make every guy pass the crazy dick test or get DQd, you need to step down off the wacko wagon.

Sex for you can be mindblowing whether or not a guy is packing. Sex for me with someone average or below isn't as fun. Their endowment is part of what I consider in someone. It takes more than just being hung to keep me and the men who met me from here will gladly tell you that I am not some basic bitch for just anyone, I'm a trophy with a pussy tight enough to crack a walnut and a throat deep enough to take ten inches without hesitation and you can quote me on that

 

[sizequeenNY]

It isn't to bruise his ego, but to allow him to face reality. I show him the respect of honesty. I told he bearer of the first micropenis I encountered that our sexual relationship was over (without even trying intercourse) but that we could be friends if he wanted, just never to ask me why I changed my mind. I had been so conditioned not to tell a man his cock was too small that blew him until he passed out, and then I snuck out of his house at the crack of dawn. I had no idea what to say. I didn't want to lie, but I also didn't want to say, "Your dick is two-and-a-half inches long, and is shaped exactly like a dreidel. I don't like it. " Of course he didn't want to be friends. He didn't even dignify that suggestion with an answer. Maybe he'd have spoken to me again if instead of skipping out and refusing to tell him why I wouldn't fuck him I just diplomatically said, "My experience tells me we were not built for each other. Let's masturbate to some porn since we are both horny right now, and then let's stay friends."

Lying about something that's going to come up for him again and confuse him is wrong. It is the reason so many keep asking if size matters, and only believing what women like you say (when you don't have to look them in the eye, anyway) that it always matters, and refuse to believe the majority of women whose truth is it only matters if it doesn't fit, and most of them fit. Women like me who are fine from four to eleven inches are liars. Only women like you who won't fuck men with small dicks are being honest in the eyes of these confused men to whom women like you have been lying for ages. Then there are the men you (and women like you) have convinced. They are really confused too, and stigmatize size queens. Don't get me started on the women who buy into what you've told those men. You just met one earlier in this thread. That's the only point really being made.

I have had sex with someone small because I am not going to walk away from sex once we get started if I find out the hard way that they are small. I had a friend going through his backpack, finding condoms and I coldly told him I only take guys who use magnums. There is a time for being polite

 

[Shackleford]

And the[n] they get this shout out in the chat, "MASSIVEMEAT has entered the room."

LOL. I never thought of it that way.

I want to change my username now. What a missed opportunity!

 

[Daisy]

LOL. I never thought of it that way.

I want to change my username now. What a missed opportunity!

Sorry, it's already taken

 

[Shackleford]

Sorry, it's already taken

Aah, I'd come up with something even better.

"HISMAJESTYLORDFATCOCK has entered the room"

Maybe figure out some Javascript that'll play a musical fanfare along with it. :biggrin1:

 

[AlteredEgo]

There used to be fanfare. Then there was a doorbell. They should totally go back to fanfare.

I have had sex with someone small because I am not going to walk away from sex once we get started if I find out the hard way that they are small. I had a friend going through his backpack, finding condoms and I coldly told him I only take guys who use magnums. There is a time for being polite

I'm always polite. I wouldn't say anything mean to a friend, not purposefully. That's part of being a good friend. There is a difference between being mean and being honest, and I can be he latter without coldness, and with diplomacy. I have only been cruel about it in BDSM clubs where it was made obvious that I was dealing with a guy who wanted a black woman to be disparaging about his masculinity and penis and/or balls. I tended to oblige, especially if cash changed hands.

 

[SprinkleMe69]

Dunno. She walked back in the door pissed off at you (http://www.lpsg.com/397836-four-for-four-luck-or.html)

Were you having a disagreement about something when she took her last break from the forums?

Not with me. I've never had interaction with her.

But to call us all cunts? Geez.

 

[Serial Kisser]

I was addressing you with the first two questions, the rest was me posting in general. I am not going to entertain your stupidity by arguing the semantics of my lack of hitting the fucking return button while posting in the am. I was speaking hypothetically.

Many men who post about their size asking if it is important go onto other areas of this board and ask about cuckholding or have interest in humiliation.

I could call you a bunch of cunts, would that make you feel better

Well, you my dear, could write the book on entertaining stupidity. :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

I'd call you a cunt, but you've neither the warmth nor the depth. Ask someone what that means, because I think it might be lost on you.

 

[Tactfulgal]

Sex for you can be mindblowing whether or not a guy is packing. Sex for me with someone average or below isn't as fun. Their endowment is part of what I consider in someone. It takes more than just being hung to keep me and the men who met me from here will gladly tell you that I am not some basic bitch for just anyone, I'm a trophy with a pussy tight enough to crack a walnut and a throat deep enough to take ten inches without hesitation and you can quote me on that

I know you'll probably disagree with this, but that last sentence is revealing. I think some women who say they insist on an enormous size do so because it's psychologically appealing. In any case, I certainly have no way of knowing for sure what you like or why. In general, a statement like "If I find out a man isn't of a certain endowment, he is emasculated to me and I no longer desire him" is far out of the mainstream and is different than simply having a preference, even a strong one. And guys here need to understand that the vast majority of women don't feel that way.
And I say that as someone who enjoys an above average guy. It can help for sure, it's a bonus. It just doesn't help in any way so incredibly irreplacable that it makes me want to put that near the top of my list. And I feel pretty comfortable saying the vast majority of women don't either. I'm not saying you're not allowed what you want, I'm more saying guys here need to understand most women they meet don't feel the same way you do.

 

[sizequeenNY]

I know you'll probably disagree with this, but that last sentence is revealing. I think some women who say they insist on an enormous size do so because it's psychologically appealing. In any case, I certainly have no way of knowing for sure what you like or why. In general, a statement like "If I find out a man isn't of a certain endowment, he is emasculated to me and I no longer desire him" is far out of the mainstream and is different than simply having a preference, even a strong one. And guys here need to understand that the vast majority of women don't feel that way.
And I say that as someone who enjoys an above average guy. It can help for sure, it's a bonus. It just doesn't help in any way so incredibly irreplacable that it makes me want to put that near the top of my list. And I feel pretty comfortable saying the vast majority of women don't either. I'm not saying you're not allowed what you want, I'm more saying guys here need to understand most women they meet don't feel the same way you do.

I unlike you, speak for myself. What entitles you to speak for all women anyway? I know women who don't want someone hung at all. Speak for yourself

Every boyfriend I had in my late teens and early twenties was well endowed. It happened that way. There isn't some deep rooted psychological issue that you are trying to look for

 

[Tactfulgal]

I unlike you, speak for myself. What entitles you to speak for all women anyway? I know women who don't want someone hung at all. Speak for yourself

Every boyfriend I had in my late teens and early twenties was well endowed. It happened that way. There isn't some deep rooted psychological issue that you are trying to look for

Your story is changing. Before you said you immediately lost all sense of attraction for a guy if you find out he isn't hung. Now you say it's coincidence that your boyfriends have been that way. Those two statements can't both be true.
I don't really want to argue with you, you have a right to like what you like, whether or not your reasoning is consistent. But I will flat out disagree with you that I'm attempting to speak for all women. I made an informed observation that the majority of people don't feel the way you do. People comment all the time about various aspects of reality, and by your rationale nobody should ever make any observations about the world unless they've polled everyone on the planet.
I maintain that there is substantial evidence that the vast majority of women do not make their choice in guys significantly based on penis size. That's not speaking for others, it's making a reasonable observation.

 

[Serial Kisser]

Your story is changing. Before you said you immediately lost all sense of attraction for a guy if you find out he isn't hung. Now you say it's coincidence that your boyfriends have been that way. Those two statements can't both be true.
I don't really want to argue with you, you have a right to like what you like, whether or not your reasoning is consistent. But I will flat out disagree with you that I'm attempting to speak for all women. I made an informed observation that the majority of people don't feel the way you do. People comment all the time about various aspects of reality, and by your rationale nobody should ever make any observations about the world unless they've polled everyone on the planet.
I maintain that there is substantial evidence that the vast majority of women do not make their choice in guys significantly based on penis size. That's not speaking for others, it's making a reasonable observation.

No use trying to be reasonable with the unreasonable. <3

 

[185248]

What do girls really mean by saying "size doesn't matter"??

I think it matters to them... right? They just can't say it openly because of the guy that's attached to the dick...

Stalin, Napoleon, Alexander, David, what came first, the dick or the size ....................bugger, forgot where I was going with this.

 

[cleanprophet]

It isn't to bruise his ego, but to allow him to face reality. I show him the respect of honesty.

I love the total conceitedness of those two sentences.

It falls into line with this modern practice of thinking that being honest allows you to be hurtful. It also chimes with another thing people do of saying "no disrespect but...." and then saying something thoroughly disrespectful.

It's very kind of you to allow a small membered chap to face reality. But it is a reality he will be very well aware of. Honesty is not always respectful. As much as you might like to think otherwise. Would you show the respect of honesty to a 5 year old child and tell them that Santa Clause doesn't exsist? Knowing how and when to use honesty is the foundation of a well adjusted person, honest.

 

[326807]

Why should ANY woman have to defend their preference for very well endowed men?
Men have their preferences )big tits n ass ) I applaud woman who are proud size queens!
More power to them.everyone has a right to desire what they like

 

[Serial Kisser]

I love the total conceitedness of those two sentences.

It falls into line with this modern practice of thinking that being honest allows you to be hurtful. It also chimes with another thing people do of saying "no disrespect but...." and then saying something thoroughly disrespectful.

It's very kind of you to allow a small membered chap to face reality. But it is a reality he will be very well aware of. Honesty is not always respectful. As much as you might like to think otherwise. Would you show the respect of honesty to a 5 year old child and tell them that Santa Clause doesn't exsist? Knowing how and when to use honesty is the foundation of a well adjusted person, honest.

You have a small penis, don't you?

 

[Tactfulgal]

Why should ANY woman have to defend their preference for very well endowed men?

For some reason people say that a lot here. The thing is, I've never seen someone's right to their preference attacked here. Some people take "your opinion is rare" as an attack on their right to have it. But not once have I ever seen someone here tell someone else they shouldn't like what they like. So I'm not sure what or who you're defending against.

 

[cleanprophet]

You have a small penis, don't you?

You would think so wouldn't you? I take a more general position on how to treat people. If I allowed what is between my legs to determine how I treat people, then I would probably be a bit of an idiot. The reality is, the size of my penis is inconsequential to how I treat people.

For some reason people say that a lot here. The thing is, I've never seen someone's right to their preference attacked here. Some people take "your opinion is rare" as an attack on their right to have it. But not once have I ever seen someone here tell someone else they shouldn't like what they like. So I'm not sure what or who you're defending against.

That's the point. Nobody said that a woman should have to apologise for not wanting to have sex with a man who has a small penis. Just that how that situation is handled shouldn't be so abrupt.

I don't really have much of a preference for "big tits n ass". But even if I did, I just simply could not imagine telling someone to their face "sorry, but your tits are just too small for me". What an arrogant prick I would have to be to do such a thing and yet, there seems to be some women who think it is perfectly fine to behave in this manner.