Size doesn't matter to her, so she says

[LemacST]

This has panned out just like I said. The big guys mostly saying "size does matter." The average and smaller guys mostly saying it "doesn't matter."

Anybody else notice the "voting" in these threads being along "party lines?"

Well, everyone is going by their best interest.

In our society, it's well known that "hung" is considered desirable, much like how muscle is considered desirable, tanness is considered desirable, etc.

So, if a girl started seeing a hung guy, don't you think she would flatter him about it?

I think everyone can agree that once you start dating someone, or even have a one night stand with them or whatever, they'll flatter you, bring out your good features and talk about how great they are, etc.

Why wouldn't a girl tell a hung guy that hung guys feel great in bed?


Let me describe myself and my experiences. I am a young, relatively tall, good looking guy. I am apparently looked upon, considering quite a few people have emulated my style (not just clothingwise but in many other ways), basically it's safe to say I'm charismatic. I am average hung, I have a large tongue and I've been told more than once that in bed I'm "smooth", "so fucking suave", etc. I don't have a LOT of sexual experience (maybe just relatively speaking), but I have more than enough to consider myself a "sexually active" person. It's safe to say these girls weren't lying about how pleasurable my sex was because they'd always call back wanting more. They were obviously satisfied.

I've actually had my cock complimented before as a "nice cock" a couple of times. I never asked for it and it also seemed genuine due to when it was said and other things. When I do look at my cock, I really DO see a "nice cock", anyway. I am fully aware that I'm not nearly the biggest out there, however. Other than this, I've been complimented by everything I listed about myself in the last paragraph. Why? Because the girls I got with liked me so they wanted me to acknowledge that they liked my good features. Oh, how they'd flatter me...

But does this mean that my qualities were absoultely perfect, flawless to them? Maybe to a few, but most probably not. I'm sure they could of found a guy with the same exact body as me but with a bit less bodyfat percentage, or a guy with an inch of cock over mine more desirable when it really boils down to it. They were just HIGHLIGHTING qualities they very much liked. These qualities I listed are also what society considers "desirable". A well hung penis is considered "desirble" so lots of girls will tell a man his cock is "very nice", "the best", "perfect", etc.

So of course, if society dictates that a larger than average penis is desirable, and if a girl tells you that your larger than average penis is desirble, you will be convinced that a larger than average penis is very important and the be-all-end-all of great sex. The thing people choose to ignore is the fact that average size, with exception of size queens perhaps, will still bring great, satisfying sex.

One thing that is largely ignored however, which ironically is the true biggest argument against the whole size thing is the connection between the two people. Think about when you're extremely infatuated with someone and they say or do things that you'd otherwise not necessarily like or agree with. Does it matter at that moment? No, because that connection, whether love or lust, completely causes you to overlook it. It's funny how it's thought that being well hung is more important with one night stands than in a long term relationship because in the long term relationship, that initial lust will eventually die out a few months down the road.

 

[B_superlarge]

This has panned out just like I said. The big guys mostly saying "size does matter." The average and smaller guys mostly saying it "doesn't matter."

Anybody else notice the "voting" in these threads being along "party lines?"

I don't know, haven't paid close attention. I know I don't fit the pattern you're speaking of, as I'm average and I say size matters. I've talked to women some, I've read around forums very much, I've looked at polls, and I've studied the female vagina in detail, plus I've even compared gangbang reactions where guys take turns in amateur porn (though this has been limited), and I've paid close attention at all social gatherings such as nighclubs, parties, cafes, work environments. Everything above combined has caused me no other choice than to reach that conclusion.

My experience indicates that about:

16% prefer a BIG one (10% size queens plus 6% non size queens) (side note: the percentage is some higher with black women)

75% prefer from Extra Size to BIG (the 16% size queens and non size queens that prefer Big added to non size queens that prefer above average in either girth and/or length.

20% prefer average girth and length

5% prefer smallish

 

[viking1]

I don't know, haven't paid close attention. I know I don't fit the pattern you're speaking of, as I'm average and I say size matters. I've talked to women some, I've read around forums very much, I've looked at polls, and I've studied the female vagina in detail, plus I've even compared gangbang reactions where guys take turns in amateur porn (though this has been limited). Everything above combined has caused me no other choice than to reach that conclusion.

Not everyone will agree on the question of whether size matters.
I meant that the general pattern is usually as I said.

My experience also indicates that about:

16% prefer a BIG one (10% size queens plus 6% non size queens)

75% prefer from Extra Size to BIG (the 16% size queens and non size queens that prefer Big added to non size queens that prefer above average in either girth and/or length.

20% prefer average girth and length

5% prefer smallish

That's probably about right. I too, have read much on this issue, and on penis size. I still say it matters a lot more in one night stands, and in the singles hook up scene.

 

[B_superlarge]

Not everyone will agree on the question of whether size matters.
I meant that the general pattern is usually as I said.

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That's probably about right. I too, have read much on this issue, and on penis size. I still say it matters a lot more in one night stands, and in the singles hook up scene.

Yeah, I agree.

 

[LemacST]

I think you guys fail to see the point I'm making.


YES, size matters. YES, for most women, bigger (within reason) is better.

This does NOT mean every girl wants a "big one", though, by the way. That's just an exception.

My main point is this: Although most girls would choose a reasonably bigger than average cock, an average one will still satisfy them.


Let's say there's a girl of average height. There are three guys: one short, one average height and the other tall.

The girl finds the short and tall one only somewhat attractive and she finds the average height one VERY attractive.

Who do you think she is going to choose?

Now, all you're doing is posing this question: "WELL, WHAT ABOUT IF SHE THINKS THE TALLEST GUY IS AS ATTRACTIVE AS THE AVERAGE HIEGHT GUY? WHAT THEN? SHE WILL GO FOR THE TALLEST GUY. THIS MEANS HEIGHT MATTERS"

Whats' the problem here? The tall but attractive guy does not exist, making the whole question pointless.

Like I said before, the only time you should worry about a penis is when you got abducted by mad scientists who make a clone of you who has a large penis, whos main goal in life is to sleep with the women who you're trying to sleep with. He does not exist however, so it's pointless :smile: Seriously though, I hope you understand what I'm saying.

 

[viking1]

Let me describe myself and my experiences. I am a young, relatively tall, good looking guy. I am apparently looked upon, considering quite a few people have emulated my style (not just clothingwise but in many other ways), basically it's safe to say I'm charismatic. I am average hung, I have a large tongue and I've been told more than once that in bed I'm "smooth", "so fucking suave", etc. I don't have a LOT of sexual experience (maybe just relatively speaking), but I have more than enough to consider myself a "sexually active" person. It's safe to say these girls weren't lying about how pleasurable my sex was because they'd always call back wanting more. They were obviously satisfied.

I can believe that with no problem. I will have to use your experience and those of others to learn about this. I have not been sexually active, so I can't know first hand.

I've actually had my cock complimented before as a "nice cock" a couple of times. I never asked for it and it also seemed genuine due to when it was said and other things. When I do look at my cock, I really DO see a "nice cock", anyway. I am fully aware that I'm not nearly the biggest out there, however. Other than this, I've been complimented by everything I listed about myself in the last paragraph. Why? Because the girls I got with liked me so they wanted me to acknowledge that they liked my good features. Oh, how they'd flatter me...

Actually, from the measurements you have given on here you are above the average. Within the average range, yes, but above the median size that medical professionals now accept. I don't mean this to be derogatory in any way, but if you were below the median size, do you think this would affect your confidence, or your sex life? I am not leading you for the answer that I desire. I only want your honest opinion. Just from your posts on here, and your position on this, I trust you to give me the truth.

But does this mean that my qualities were absoultely perfect, flawless to them? Maybe to a few, but most probably not. I'm sure they could of found a guy with the same exact body as me but with a bit less bodyfat percentage, or a guy with an inch of cock over mine more desirable when it really boils down to it. They were just HIGHLIGHTING qualities they very much liked. These qualities I listed are also what society considers "desirable". A well hung penis is considered "desirble" so lots of girls will tell a man his cock is "very nice", "the best", "perfect", etc.

Seems reasonable, if a woman (or man) likes someone they will give them compliments and praise.

So of course, if society dictates that a larger than average penis is desirable, and if a girl tells you that your larger than average penis is desirble, you will be convinced that a larger than average penis is very important and the be-all-end-all of great sex. The thing people choose to ignore is the fact that average size, with exception of size queens perhaps, will still bring great, satisfying sex.

What about below average? Not micro, just below average. Do you think that will affect a woman's perception of a guy?

One thing that is largely ignored however, which ironically is the true biggest argument against the whole size thing is the connection between the two people. Think about when you're extremely infatuated with someone and they say or do things that you'd otherwise not necessarily like or agree with. Does it matter at that moment? No, because that connection, whether love or lust, completely causes you to overlook it. It's funny how it's thought that being well hung is more important with one night stands than in a long term relationship because in the long term relationship, that initial lust will eventually die out a few months down the road.

Long term relationships are about LOVE, not LUST. They are two different things. I have felt lust when looking at many women. I have never felt love for any. Relationships built on lust will never survive for long. Love is blind
and when it hits, little else matters. I've seen it happen too many times.

 

[LemacST]

I'm going out right now but I promise I'll honestly answer your questions next time I log on. Bye!

 

[AlteredEgo]

Size matters. Anyone who says it doesn't hasn't had a big one yet or has not had a good experience with a big one.

I didn't used to think breast size mattered. Til I had some DD's in my face :tongue:

I would never date a AA girl, there needs to be at least some bust there...D at least, C maybe. That's just my preference. Women are allowed preferences too. Or are they? Maybe they need to be controlled and put in their place .

My first boyfriend had a just-bigger-than-average penis. I thought the sex was good, but later found out that we were two stumbling virgins, and the sex was just okay. My second boyfriend had lots of girth. The sex was not memorable other than when I did start to have a good physical response to it, he was done(and it was under duress, anyway). My third boyfriend had an average girth and nine inches. He also had way more sexual experience than I or the other two had combined. The sex was incredible and I still think about it when I masturbate sometimes. My next boyfriend had ten inches of length, and six inches of girth. I was with him for a lot longer than the guy before him, and had learned from the guy before him to be a great partner. He was a virgin, but with his curiosity, and my experience, we made the sex really hot. I will always rememberr how amazing sex with him was. There were a lot of guys I dated after that, but none that were boyfriends. I don't get approached by many guys with average and smaller penises, but there have been a few. Unless you count the guy who forced me to have sex with him when I was 16, I have never had bad sex, not even with my first. My first was the only one with whom I even had mediocre sex , and I did not perceive it as mediocre at the time. I have had AMAZING sex with plenty of guys with lots of extra size. Still, I do not have a preference for size where the penis is concerned. I just want it to work properly and be used with skill.

 

[whatireallywant]

I know that I haven't dated much. The shyness has something to do with it, but I also think being shortchanged in the boob department has a lot to do with it. Most guys don't even notice me.

Because of my being "shortchanged", I do probably attract more small and average guys than big guys, when I attract any guys at all. Unfortunately, I also have a larger than average pussy and seem to need a big guy to be satisfied. One thing about me though, is that when I do attract a big guy, they do tend to latch onto me and stick around, whereas the average and smaller guys do not. And I never say anything to any of them about this, one way or the other.

I've never been with a huge guy though. I'm very curious and determined to experience this. Or do I have to have big boobs to ever experience this? :frown1:

 

[aglets]

Most guys have real trouble understanding that most (not all) women are just not as interested in the particulars of their meat as the guy is fixated on it himself, or as he is fixated on the girl's body. Not even close. There are fundamental differences between us.

I discovered quite by accident that when she's wet my wife can't tell the difference between 8x6 (99th percentile) and 6.5x5.5. I know from a lot of experience that she never strokes a dildo all the way to the cervix, but uses it in the first few inches. That's not to say she doesn't like the sight of a big cock, but making a difference physically is another matter.

 

[aglets]

My third boyfriend had an average girth and nine inches. He also had way more sexual experience than I or the other two had combined. The sex was incredible and I still think about it when I masturbate sometimes. My next boyfriend had ten inches of length, and six inches of girth. I was with him for a lot longer than the guy before him, and had learned from the guy before him to be a great partner.

You have really beat the odds having two guys who are basically off the charts in length, back to back. You should have had to go through a couple thousand guys to find those two. Sounds a little too incredible to be true...

 

[AlteredEgo]

You have really beat the odds having two guys who are basically off the charts in length, back to back. You should have had to go through a couple thousand guys to find those two. Sounds a little too incredible to be true...

You go on and believe what you like. I know how rare they are, but smaller guys do not approach me. There have been a few 8 inchers as well, but most of my experience is in the 6-7 inch range. I'm... experienced.

 

[aglets]

I've never been with a huge guy though. I'm very curious and determined to experience this. Or do I have to have big boobs to ever experience this? :frown1:

There are life-like dildos bigger than any of us- surely you have tried them?

 

[aglets]

You go on and believe what you like. I know how rare they are, but smaller guys do not approach me. There have been a few 8 inchers as well, but most of my experience is in the 6-7 inch range. I'm... experienced.

You really have me curious now-what on earth keeps most guys from approaching but makes statistical anomalies swarm like flies around you?

 

[AlteredEgo]

You really have me curious now-what on earth keeps most guys from approaching but makes statistical anomalies swarm like flies around you?

I don't know. All of the average guys were guys I picked up as opposed to them picking me. The two smallest guys pursued me, and my boyfriend started out below average, but did PE until he was just above average. (He has had unbelievable gains. It might be because I help him.)

I am 5'9", broad shouldered, and stacked. I think most average and smaller guys assume I have a big pussy or something. I dunno. I used to post on measurection, and a lot of the guys there said they were afraid to approach large-breasted women. I do have uncommonly large breasts.

 

[viking1]

I am 5'9", broad shouldered, and stacked. I think most average and smaller guys assume I have a big pussy or something. I dunno. I used to post on measurection, and a lot of the guys there said they were afraid to approach large-breasted women. I do have uncommonly large breasts.

That could very well be it. You know the old stereotypes...

 

[whatireallywant]

I don't know. All of the average guys were guys I picked up as opposed to them picking me. The two smallest guys pursued me, and my boyfriend started out below average, but did PE until he was just above average. (He has had unbelievable gains. It might be because I help him.)

I am 5'9", broad shouldered, and stacked. I think most average and smaller guys assume I have a big pussy or something. I dunno. I used to post on measurection, and a lot of the guys there said they were afraid to approach large-breasted women. I do have uncommonly large breasts.

Well, I have small breasts and a big pussy. So the big guys are after all the large-breasted women, and I would probably be a better match for them where it really counts. I have dated a few big guys though, and those who I do date and have sex with, tend to latch onto me. :smile:

 

[AlteredEgo]

Well, I have small breasts and a big pussy. So the big guys are after all the large-breasted women, and I would probably be a better match for them where it really counts. I have dated a few big guys though, and those who I do date and have sex with, tend to latch onto me. :smile:

Well, you're a great catch, and sexually compatible! They can't lose!

 

[wldhoney]

Stop the press, hold the fort, wait a second here!
I heard a woman say that if she became too wet she couldn't really feel average girth.

Like anything else, superlarge, it depends on the woman. I'm built small and I have never had any trouble feeling a man inside me no matter how wet I am. My point to Proud7 is that is she is wet, then she is excited, so she must feel him just fine.

Some girls have roomier vaginas. A boyfriend of mine once told me of a girl he dated for a while in high school who was a virgin. All he did was finger her and he said it was like putting his fingers into an open hole. He descibed it as "big" on the inside. It's not a bad thing, but just the way she was.

 

[gimme_another_inch]

I'm average if not below average and I had my GF come twice in 30 minutes, there is other besides size, I would like to have 1 more inch but that would mostly be for my own self esteem because I know that what I have works if it is used with the right person in the right environment, that's, maybe, why I avoid one night stands, in that case I'll feel inadequate...

DG