Size matters, right?

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  1. B_jim123abc

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    Its so odd to hear women say "size doesnt matter" then to hear women call a dude "small" or to talk about how huge another guy was. I tend to find myself confused a bit, I hear very modist girls say "If only he was a little bigger." But the thing is size does matter to yall from what I have read, heard and seen. Honestly women, would you want thin average Jon or thick long throbbing Marcus? Alot of yall will say Jon because it doesnt matter about size it matters how he treats you (etc) which I can agree with. BUT, when it comes to you being hornier than a horse yall want big thick Marcus. Ive noticed that alot about women, I have a few friend-girls (who one just hit on me because of my bulge) who told me that when it comes to sex. They want to have a big guy but when it comes to love they dont care (until their horny). My thing is though, dont you see why men care so much about size? Even when yall say it "doesnt matter" many of yall turn around and say it does or poke fun of it. OR TALK ABOUT HOW BIG ANOTHER DUDE WAS OR WHAT YOU DESIRE. Such as saying six inch girth is the best, well alot of guys dont measure that much. More like 4.5-5.0 so it kinda puts pressure on us.

    Can anyone explain that for me? I am curious and Im not small but was just curious.
     
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    If I love (or strongly like even) someone and they're a skilled partner in bed, being average sized is completely fine. If I'm just hooking up with someone, yeah, being sexy and having a big dick are nice. BUT. The best sex I have ever had in my life was with a man who had an average sized cock. And average, in my mind is 5-6" long, and about 5" around. I've had a considerable amount of partners, and a fair few of the more endowed men were shitty in bed. Having a big schlong doesn't matter if you blow your load in a few thrusts and then don't do anything else to make sure your partner has a good time.
     
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    You said it, mate - size matters
     
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    Very true but its more of the pressure that women put on guys because we want to be that "big guy" you tell your friends about. Not you telling us about that one "big guy" you had sex with before us. I bet average men or long length thin girth guys kinda feel bad reading about 6" girth and stuff.
     
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    Only if they're shallow and insecure, and really, who the hell wants to deal with a guy with that sort of baggage?
     
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    gotta remember your on a site called Large Penis Support Group, what do you think everyone's answer is going to be?
     
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    LMAO! Very true
     
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    Saying size doesn't matter and size doesn't make a difference are two totally different things. Of course it makes a difference - does that difference matter, to some it does, to many it is so low on the scale of priorities that really it does not matter.

    And how can you know what most women want and like when you don't know most women? Many will never even have a particularly big or particularly small cock in the first place, most guys are average - that's how average gets to be average!

    Different women like different things - just as different men like different things.

    As for this idea of women dissing men by calling them small - that's a societal construct. Women get exactly the same thing in terms of weight. It's the go to insult. Couple are together and happy - 'I love you, you're beautiful whatever your dress size', 'You're the best lover, your cock is perfect for me'. They split up - Fat bitch', 'Pencil dick'. It doesn't mean anything.

    Grow up - quit blaming 'most women' if you have a negative self image, read around here a bit and you'll discover who really obsesses over penis size til it becomes an issue - I'll give you a clue, it's not women.
     
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    From what I've gathered; Yeah, size matters. However, it's not the only thing that matters in sex. A person could have an 8 inch dick, and not know how to use it, and cause a lot of pain. A person could have a 4 inch dick, and know exactly how to use it, and be the greatest lay ever.

    It's also very subjective, so you can't just make blanket statements.
     
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    Geezus, Manly. Go a little easy on the poor boy. He's only 18. He doesn't have a lot of experience.
     
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    Size doesn't matter until it does. Until then enjoy it. lol People will tell you anything. Everything from what you want to hear to what you don't. Your best bet is not to care about penis size. The less control you give people the better. Control being the ability to hurt you. Or make you feel insecure.
     
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    I suddenly have a lot more insight into the OP's perspective now that I re-read this thread and realized he's 18. :tongue:
     
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    Actually I agree with this.

    Better for him to get all this neurotic bullshit sorted now before he gets into a relationship and makes some poor girls life a misery with his insecurity.
     
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    Big is impressive and fun to talk about. Ask the media, car dealers, real estate agents and porn producers. When all is said and done, in none of those cases it it really the size that matters, except to those who are shallow enough to buy into it (says the insatiable size queen himself).

    Confidence, humor, intellect and interests. Those will get you laid, by women who are into more than just your dick, a hell of a lot more than what's between your legs.

    I googled how to do that - YouTube
     
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    Sex is more mental than physical anyway. Excite your partner in other ways and it will not matter as much. ESPECIALLY if you have great oral skills. :)
     
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    Whoah whoah people this isnt about me I was talking in a general form look at my pictures I am fine and happy the way I am. Someone boueght up what makes some girls insecure/guys and this was brought up. Trust me I am only 18 I have got maybe four more years to go until pubirty stops so I am goooooooooooddddd :p
     
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    You're 18. I assume your friends are around the same age. It's to do with the age group and possibly social background of your peers.

    When/if people grow up they will come to the realisation that:

    They like big cocks
    They prefer average cocks (because large ones hurt them, this is not uncommon)
    They prefer long cocks
    They prefer thick cocks
    They don't mind either way

    Most young women don't know what a big cock is, they are being told what's big by lying guys.

    Size matters until you grow up. If a woman loves you then the size of your penis is irrelevant.
     
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    i just love being told what i like by random internet kids who've never met me! :rolleyes:

    i don't like big. size only matters to the point that i don't want it to cause pain or injury (i know. call me crazy). give me average any day of the week.

    so, no, i would not prefer 'throbbing marcus'. YOU might prefer me to want throbbing marcus though, but that's not the same thing.
     
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    Size does matter to women: the size of your confidence.

    Now for some men, the size of their self confidence is correlated to their cock size. But it needn't be.

    A strong confidant man with an average cock will get more action than a 7 inch guy who whines like a little girl about all the time.
     
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