In a real-life scenario, a person could be shy etc. This is the internet. Why would an anonymous woman online feel the need to lie or hide their penis-size opinion? You said yourself that some of them don't even have pictures/personal information. The truth is, as the ladies have said - everyone has a different opinion. Penis size is no exception. Women are built differently and like different things, men are built differently and like different things. When two people are right for eachother, silly things like penis size, shoe size, weight or that mole on your chin no longer matters. Some of those 'obese creatures' are lovely people and I'd gladly throw myself at them. I'm nothing special, but I can see that men and women aren't two-dimensional beings with a list of required statistics. We have depth, even those of us with arrogant and narrow-minded views of the world.
All that aside, you seem to be suggesting that a larger penis is more attractive - it isn't. Some like the look of it, but wouldn't touch it. Some love it and some hate it. You must know, deep-down, I'm speaking the truth. Likewise, Barbie-doll women are not the male-fantasy as people like to believe. I look for the positive things in a person, inside and out. Regardless, sharing my preference wouldn't make a difference as we all carry different opinions and are attracted to different things. In case you were wondering, that's why people were upset/annoyed when you tried to suggest that all women like the same thing or conceal their true feelings because of a simple insecurity - be it physical or mental.