Size, Nudity, Self-Confident or Self-Conscious

Has being hung made you more confident or self-conscious re: frontal nudity?


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Growing up uncut (which I am) in the 50's and 60's (which I did) was its own special curse. Being big or have a really extened foreskin only made the teasing worse, in the locker room. Once you appreciate your own personal characteristics as part of you and not explaining them, to those that comment. I found they (both the problem and the person), went away. And, with less "baggage" hanging on, then I would have thought.

The larger you make the issue of nudity or body-consciousness in your mind the longer you will NEVER get over it.

"Your a man, its a dick!" :yeah:

DON"T YOU LOVE IT... your dick that is!
 

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I am average and yet completely comfortable about nudity in the appropriate situations.
 

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cute5 said:
I am average and yet completely comfortable about nudity in the appropriate situations.

I am above average and completely comfortable with nudity in just about all situations.

Don't you love being hung?:biggrin1:
 

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it's very reassuring to know that Alecia19 and Sexychick517 felt confidently hung enough to participate in this poll

*cough* your freudian slips are showing *cough*

thanx ladeez :banana::banana:
 

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I grew up with 2 older brothers, a dad, and two grandfathers that I skinny dipped with and showered on camping trips and at the gym. So in the locker room or at nude beaches I am perfectly at ease...except when I have to lay on my stomach. :tongue:

A medical exam of the genitals is another issue. Every doctor that has ever checked for hernias or whatever has followed the same protocol. They lean forward and "look" at the floor as they probe. The result is that they are inches away from my dick during the exam. Why in the f*** can't they stare at my navel? Who knows, I might have a lint ball there.

In my teens I was certain that one day it would go out of control and bounce up and hit him/her in the face.
 

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rawbone8 said:
it's very reassuring to know that Alecia19 and Sexychick517 felt confidently hung enough to participate in this poll

*cough* your freudian slips are showing *cough*

thanx ladeez :banana::banana:
I already knew that Alecia19 was a man. This comes as no great surprise to me.
 

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rawbone8 said:
it's very reassuring to know that Alecia19 and Sexychick517 felt confidently hung enough to participate in this poll

Maybe they are ... :eek:
 

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Matthew said:
Maybe they are ... :eek:

Matthew, your new avatar reminds me of the first stripper I ever saw – Princess Glow – a stately Haitian exotic performer, by way of Montreal, on tour in a tavern in the small industrial town where I drank with underage buddies and off shift millworkers.

She possessed a rather old world charm, tassled sequined pasties on nipples (required by law) which she could spin in either direction and also in opposite directions with great skill. Ambidextrous titties. Then there was the large powder puff which she offered to the audience members, to wield and participate with her toilette. What a character. Ahhhhh to be 16 again, stoned, drinking the tiny glasses of draft beer and taking in some Canadian ballet.
:beerchug2:
she left big shoes to fill Matthew, I'm guessing size 12 at least, you go girl!
 

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Haha, great story. You know who it actually is, don't you?

'Princess Glow' ... it's got a nice ring to it ...
 

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rawbone8 said:
Do I ? No. I don't have a clue. Illuminate me.

I'll give you a hint: It's easy if you know the song "Hey Nineteen" by Steely Dan.
 

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rawbone8 said:
Gotcha. Hmmm... I thought her Daddy was a very strict Man of the Church.

So I guess that would make me the son of a preacher man.
 

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I'm totally comfortable being naked around guys. In college where we used to have a shower room for the whole floor, we would have to stand in line in the morning. That was my first real experience being around naked guys. I was so afraid I'd pop a woodie around all these 18-year old cute guys, but much to my surprise I was OK.

Today I'm naked in the steamroom at the gym all the time. Some guys wear towels some don't. I wouldn't lie on my back with my legs spread wide open or anything, but I'm most comfortable without a towel wrapped around me so I just sit on it. If someone wants to look its fine with me as long as they're reasonably polite/discreet, or at least cute and/or hung! :wink:

I'm reasonably well hung and I think this is one reason why I have no problem being naked. I wouldn't go around flaunting it, but I'm comfortable being naked...if not maybe just a little proud of it. :redface:

What's with the guys in the gym who are petrified of anyone seeing them naked? We have private shower stalls each with their own curtains, and a few guys go so far as to undress in the stall with the curtain closed, drape their underwear and a towel over the bar, then dry off inside the shower, then put the underwear (or another clean pair) back on and leave. Is it really that small? Or is it some other kind of shyness? Maybe its just the midwest prudishness?
 

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No definetly not a midwest thing. I've noticed recently a few guys coming in the locker room after working out put the towel around thier waist with thier shorts on, and pull thier shorts down. Then I noticed another guy (while I was drying off after showering) grab his towel and dry off behind the curtain. next thing I knew he came out in briefs and when he saw me there he quickly wrapped his towel around him. I find all of this really strange as I've never seen anyone this extreme about covering up.
 

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inwait8 said:
I've noticed recently a few guys coming in the locker room after working out put the towel around thier waist with thier shorts on, and pull thier shorts down. Then I noticed another guy (while I was drying off after showering) grab his towel and dry off behind the curtain. next thing I knew he came out in briefs and when he saw me there he quickly wrapped his towel around him. I find all of this really strange as I've never seen anyone this extreme about covering up.

I can't really understand that from grown men who are regularly in that kind of atmosphere. I'd think even under-averagely hung guys would get used to it and have it fade into the background. But what if it's their first time at the gym? What if it's their first time at ANY gym, in that kind of surrounding?

I think of that because my first time having to shower publicly post-puberty--as part of a student group retreat in high school--I was petrified. I had never been on a sports team. I'd been around naked guys at j/o parties, but the situation now was totally different and I didn't know what was "supposed" to happen. I was nervously thinking about the locker room sex-hazing scene from "Lucas" and wondering if that kind of thing went on all the time... so I changed and dried myself completely inside the shower stall.

Some people just aren't used to it. Though if they're regular gym attendees, again I have no explanation.