Size preference, length, girth discussions

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I'm not trying to sound like a smartass or anything but who are you guys sleeping with? A woman that claims that she can barely feel a 5 inches thick cock is trolling you man. Or she might be too wide but most women will feel a 4.5" thick and reach vaginal orgasms assuming the length is over 4.5" long and assuming the guy know what he is doing. Fucking a woman well is not only thrusting like a madman, there are angles, thrusting parterns, etc that make sex more complex than just drilling a vagina like a hydraulic hammer.

I assume you're referring to my post above. Let me assure you, those words were genuinely spoken (after the fact) by my gf. Nobody is trolling anybody. She'd only had (much) larger before me & said that she was worried because she couldn't feel me the first time. She qualified this by saying she was extremely wet. During subsequent sex, she said she did feel me more & that the good she took from that was that it didn't hurt her the way her ex had. She herself believes her vagina is larger than average, as she grew very comfortable with hard thrusting from her very hung ex. And, I should add, I was extremely inexperienced in the early years - drilling like a hydraulic hammer would be putting it kindly!
 

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I assume you're referring to my post above. Let me assure you, those words were genuinely spoken (after the fact) by my gf. Nobody is trolling anybody. She'd only had (much) larger before me & said that she was worried because she couldn't feel me the first time. She qualified this by saying she was extremely wet. During subsequent sex, she said she did feel me more & that the good she took from that was that it didn't hurt her the way her ex had. She herself believes her vagina is larger than average, as she grew very comfortable with hard thrusting from her very hung ex. And, I should add, I was extremely inexperienced in the early years - drilling like a hydraulic hammer would be putting it kindly!

Well if that is the case it is more believable. Some women are indeed wider and if that combined with years of sex with a very large man I might understand she didnt feel as usual. My thoughts were more about your average woman that has had sex with average length men and the occassional large dude. Those cannot claim they cannot feel a 5" cock.

Btw didnt mean to call you a liar or call your lady a troll, I might have expressed myself a bit too harsh.

Cheers
 
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I assume that when she said that she means she can't feel it in the same way as a larger one. She obviously knew it was there, just not hitting the same places
 

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my ex girlfriend once told me she had sex with a guy that had a 9 inch dick and she said she doesn't wanna go back to anything smaller. she says they we anle to do way more positions and even the oral sex was better. my girl now says even tho im average size i still hit all her right spots and doesnt care for anything longer
 

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She says she feels absolutely no difference to my 5 inches length but a big difference in girth, saying the extra.25 feels very snug in her vagina, unlike mine.

A discernible difference at 0.25?! Who knew!

yes, just 0.25" in girth can make a big difference, it's true...sometimes it's the difference between "this is a lot of work" and "this is almost impossible"
i guess the good news is that if it's that important to you, pumping could easily give you the extra 0.25", at least temporarily
 

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Mine is 8" x 6". I think of mine as above average, but I think most cocks are probably 5 3/4" to 6 1/4" by 4 1 /2" to 5".
Does anyone know for sure on width? Im straight but have jacked off a few dicks. Most men are 15% smaller than they claim.
 

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Is that a good size? My ideal size is 9x7.


Fuck yeah. I don't fuck dicks, so I don't really know, I guess, but I would reckon a majority of those that do would find that size ideal. Enough to be called hung, but not so much that you scare anyone. Haha. Much longer and much thicker than average.
 
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Mine is 8" x 6". I think of mine as above average, but I think most cocks are probably 5 3/4" to 6 1/4" by 4 1 /2" to 5".
Does anyone know for sure on width? Im straight but have jacked off a few dicks. Most men are 15% smaller than they claim.
One study I saw had white American males at 5.5", African-Americans at 5.75". Not sure about the standard deviation.

Another study (international, I think) had the average at slightly below 5.2".

So I think your estimate is a bit high.

No idea about girth.
 

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This is a great topic. I've take advantage of my girth when I can. It is what it is and the wifey loves it. For those wondering :

Girth at base 6.75"
Girth mid-shaft 6.5"
Cockhead is just over 7"

Here's a few pics from a cam session Webcam Recording | ksb660 081215 1525 male Chaturbate

Message me a let me know your thoughts if you like. Too much ? Just right ?
 

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Mine is 8" x 6". I think of mine as above average, but I think most cocks are probably 5 3/4" to 6 1/4" by 4 1 /2" to 5".
Does anyone know for sure on width? Im straight but have jacked off a few dicks. Most men are 15% smaller than they claim.
And yes, most men lie about that, hence the concept of man-inches. :p ;)
 

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5 to 6 inches is perfect
Aren't you a luck girl? Based on the histograms I've seen, there are an awful lot of penises in that size range.

I would never have seen those histograms if not for some of the size-related arguments on this web site. :D
 

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hey, i would like some help on choosing a condom size and brand since my penis is 5.6 inch length and also 5.5" girth, hoping to be able to satisfy my partner. knowing that I ve never had sex and wondering how to choose the condom that fit best my size. thanks
 
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I LOVE LOVE LOVE to look at all cocks, big ones are the most fun to watch swing around when they are erect. But when it actually comes to sex, it really doesn't matter, its the guy using it. I have often found guys with the really huge cocks, think that is all they need. their big cock id enough to bring to the table. where as small dick guys, like our guy who wrote initially, are the best, because those are the guys who CARE. Since the questioner is caring enough to ask in the first place, I bet anything he is an amazing lover.
Smaller dicks are much esier to suck and I can get the entire thing in my mouth without gagging and it feels like accomplishment for me, lol. thick in the vagina is Nice. you are honestly an average thickness for your length. I had one guy who was so incredibly sexy and then he told me his dick was seven inches, and yes it was, but his dick was literally think like a pencil! im not kidding. it hurt like hell as he was stabbing me. he would ask and say, " am I hurtin you baby?" and smile like in a good kind of hurt way.
no, it wasn't good.
 
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I LOVE LOVE LOVE to look at all cocks, big ones are the most fun to watch swing around when they are erect. But when it actually comes to sex, it really doesn't matter, its the guy using it. I have often found guys with the really huge cocks, think that is all they need. their big cock id enough to bring to the table. where as small dick guys, like our guy who wrote initially, are the best, because those are the guys who CARE. Since the questioner is caring enough to ask in the first place, I bet anything he is an amazing lover.
Smaller dicks are much esier to suck and I can get the entire thing in my mouth without gagging and it feels like accomplishment for me, lol. thick in the vagina is Nice. you are honestly an average thickness for your length. I had one guy who was so incredibly sexy and then he told me his dick was seven inches, and yes it was, but his dick was literally think like a pencil! im not kidding. it hurt like hell as he was stabbing me. he would ask and say, " am I hurtin you baby?" and smile like in a good kind of hurt way.
no, it wasn't good.
Thanks for the confidence boost !! and yes i m more into love making and passion rather than just plain fucking!
 

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Whether you're small, medium or large, guys, focus on serving the lady and her pleasure and you'll both have a great time. Don't be a selfish prick. Her body is a temple; take your shoes off, put your head down, get on your knees and start worshipping it. You might have a religious experience before you're through.