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My penis is 6" long by 4" circumference , I have never had any complaints , in fact have had many compliments on my sophisticated love making , knowing what to do to the best advantage of my lover . All women are different and one has to explore what excites them . Plenty of foreplay is essential to get them really turned on and better still orgasm before one penetrates . My first wife was vaginally very big in the missionary position , but cowgirl she was multi orgasmic . I have made love with two ladies who told me their husband's penis was too big and painful . Often big men think they are God's gift and just shove it in without sufficient foreplay or lubrication .
 

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So I am 6’3 255lbs! I measure out at 6.3x5.6! I always thought my member was on the small side due to how it looks on my frame! Ladies, would you consider this small or just barely adequate?
I don't think anyone would consider that small even if you are a big guy.
 

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You think? I don’t know, the only dicks I have ever seen other than mine were in porn, so I don’t know.
I am similar in both body and dick size to you and I have only had good feedback from women and from guys on here. I'm sure we all wish we were a bit bigger.
 

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So I am 6’3 255lbs! I measure out at 6.3x5.6! I always thought my member was on the small side due to how it looks on my frame! Ladies, would you consider this small or just barely adequate?

I have the same hang up. Body or dick, im not as big as you (6"1, 235) but dont think im proportioned right for my size. My fat pad doesn't help either. Sometimes I wish I had a small frame just so i didn't look so small.
 
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Probably from men in Show Off.
Very well said my lady. When I first came here years ago I was obsessing, and mourning a past life after suffering injury, and a life changing and body altering disease. I was also at the end of an 18 1/2 year marriage and had lost all confidence. In fact I avoided women all together because for one the ex was a very unique person and not necessarily ina good way. So I was sgi. Shy and in trusting. Atlest now my several conditions five me a chance to get to know them before anything else. Although, I still haven't dated or been with anyone in 10 years. I've thought about taking Altered Who's advice and doing what she said here. You see to get involv d with someone IRL. Ive made lots of freindships but other, newer health issues have come to light. More serious, and so much so the original problem I came here to clarity on is small potatoes. Thanks for that but of advice Altered Ego, I will take you up on that.
 
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I don't know that it's an 8"+ site. I also won't speak for other women, just myself, and my own observations. I don't think women are quite as interested in penises as men are. I'm not stating that as fact, just supposition. I mean, look at this site. Look at the ratio of male to female posters here. Then, look again, and realize that lots of the women are men pretending to be women in order to convince hetero men to show them the goods and pay attention to them in a sexual context. (Though, lately there seem to be way fewer fakers than in years past.)

Personally, I don't spend much time looking at galleries, and zero time in the Show Off board. I look at the galleries after ages of fun, flirty inuendo, though particularly charming members pique my curiosity faster. When I first got here, I bought a subscription and ogled dicks for countless hours. Now, unless it is attached to someone I've gotten to know, they all look the same and I couldn't care less. I don't have a preference for size, and have appreciated peens across the spectrum.

But if you're not getting lots of comments from women here, and wondering why, a lot of it may be related to the things I've mentioned. The best way to get attention from (real) women here is to stick around and be yourself, and post to the areas the women frequent most often. (Though, if you post lots of men's issues to women's issues, that's gonna create friction between you and the ladies over time. You're better off in Ask A Woman, Sex With A Large Penis, and Relationships.) Get to know the women who are active here, and some of them will want to get to know you and your gallery. Also, there seem to be women who love the galleries and never post. I think the best way to get to know them is to comment on their galleries. Maybe they'll look at yours and comment too. There are also women who like the chatroom. If you go on cam in there, and don't constantly ask for attention, but participate in the conversation, or strike up interesting private conversations, women might request to see your cam and pay attention to your dick. Or not. Above all, don't feel entitled. You have to remember that everyone here has his or her own agenda, and it just might not be the same as yours. Good luck.

Sorry people, this is the post of hers I was trying to quote. She has very good advice in here for some of these guys especially newer and even younger guys. Thanks again A E
 

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Read my topic about taking pictures linked in my signature. I would definitely enjoy seeing better pics.
I have been a photographer for 38 years. The best thing to do is to not use your wide angle on your cell phone. If you can use a real SLR camera and a 50mm lens for the perspective of the human eye or an 85mm for the magnification of the human eye.
 
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So I am 6’3 255lbs! I measure out at 6.3x5.6! I always thought my member was on the small side due to how it looks on my frame! Ladies, would you consider this small or just barely adequate?
I am 6.7 x 5.6 and am often told that I have a big thick cock. I know that I am thicker than average but I only consider myself to be just average. It is, I think, a matter of perception. With your size both you and your partners should be very satisfied.
 
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My strokes aren't more of 3 inches i think(with a longer penis at least double).Moreover most women can take up a 8 inch penis:this means that with the same strokes more than half of the whole length stay in vagina(increasing the physical sensation of being "well filled").A long penis rarely slips out,a shorter one yes.
Hitting the cervix isn't pleasurable for most women but however all of them like a penis long enough to hit the bottom..
So a good girth is useless not having a good length too..

Man, that really sucks that your wife actually says that. It can't be good for your confidence. 5x5 is average.ost guys have that. There's a lot more I'd like to say but if I do I'll just come off sounding like an ass. I don't feel like it except I think it's more her problem. If she loves you she could try and help accommodate you. Like she can make adjustments to angle of hips as well. Marriage requires teamwork. I'll shut up now.....
 

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I’m 6’3. Usually between 220 and 245lbs. 233 currently. My dick is anywhere from 5 inches to 7.5 inches soft and 7.75 to 8.75 inches hard. 6 inch girth soft. I’ve gotten it up to 7.25 inches girth hard hahaha

I’m sure I could go bigger.

Normal morning wood is 8 inches long, 6.25 inch circumference. Pumps are hilarious. I have never seen a woman cum as hard in porn as a few of my partners have after I use a Bathmate. That pump is like a Game Genie for your cock lol