Of course it is preference. That is how i found this place. However I had big cocks before and still didn't have a problem with those that were smaller, some of them were much more skilled then the larger variety. I have alot of experience with both. But having an over abundance of large cocks lately i am finding it harder to go back lately, especially with a lover that is one of the best I have had. I am sure it is a phase.....i really made this post to gauge other womens experiences with this, not have an existential crisis over the sausage.......
Being wishywashy isn't a size queen trait, it is a trait in a flaky person in general. Flaky people can have any type of preference from liking small to big cocks. It is unfortunate you were turned away due to their inadequacies and gives women who like large cocks a bad name.
Being with alot of giant cocks and gaining an affinity for them is usually totally different then a woman who has little experience yet just enjoys the porn and the thought of large cocks. The mechanics are hard to get used to at first sometimes.