Size Queen in training

[basincreek]

basincreek - spot on with your interpretation there, I enjoy the company of platonic male friends and simply don't allow things to go further if they are not what I am into sexually. I am straightforward in the way I interact with people and open in speaking on matters of sexuality, so nobody is going to be too stunned when I say that I sleep with very few guys, but those that I do get intimate with are well hung. More than once I have mentioned I am a member here in a lighthearted way just to prompt a reaction and bring it into discussion. The last guy I was actually involved with sexually simply jumped in at that point and volunteered the fact that he was hung in proportion to his size - he was around 6'10" in his size 18 aus (19 usa) bare feet, close on 7 feet tall in sneakers lol.

Hung in proportion to his size and he's almost seven feet tall! Wow. Do you have any idea just how big he was? And just what do you consider to be adequately hung anyways? I know some ladies don't like answering that so...no pressure!

I used to wonder if I had some sort of radar for it, and the confidence angle was the closest explanation I could come up with. A couple of the hung guys I know like to brag, but the ones I have been involved with just seemed to have a quiet smug confidence lol, but that just may also be that a personality like that is what attracts me anyway. I am into guys that are tall, strong, muscular, intelligent, and last but not least hung - odds are such a guy is likely to be walking around with a decent dose of self esteem.

Makes sense. I know I'd be overflowing with confidence if I were hugely hung.

 

[RawDog]

Maybe they're just huge down under?

Get it? Australia? :biggrin1:

 

[cougar_domme]

LOL !!

 

[B_ILIW]

basincreek - spot on with your interpretation there, I enjoy the company of platonic male friends and simply don't allow things to go further if they are not what I am into sexually. I am straightforward in the way I interact with people and open in speaking on matters of sexuality, so nobody is going to be too stunned when I say that I sleep with very few guys, but those that I do get intimate with are well hung. More than once I have mentioned I am a member here in a lighthearted way just to prompt a reaction and bring it into discussion. The last guy I was actually involved with sexually simply jumped in at that point and volunteered the fact that he was hung in proportion to his size - he was around 6'10" in his size 18 aus (19 usa) bare feet, close on 7 feet tall in sneakers lol.

I used to wonder if I had some sort of radar for it, and the confidence angle was the closest explanation I could come up with. A couple of the hung guys I know like to brag, but the ones I have been involved with just seemed to have a quiet smug confidence lol, but that just may also be that a personality like that is what attracts me anyway. I am into guys that are tall, strong, muscular, intelligent, and last but not least hung - odds are such a guy is likely to be walking around with a decent dose of self esteem.

Well, judging from your avatar, you have size to be proud of also :tongue:

 

[B_subgirrl]

They probably do have more confidence, I know I would if I was larger, and being above average in looks only the most confident men will approach you.

I mean it can't be a coincidence that hot women tend to end up with bigger guys.

How do you know the hot women are with bigger guys?!? Seriously? I think this might be more assumption than anything else.

What do you think you might be picking up on, subgirrl? One of my best friends said she could tell by the way a guy walked, especially if he wore jeans or other tight-fitting pants.

I don't even look at any physical factors! I tend to choose guys with bold and outgoing personalities who are more comfortable talking about sex.

 

[RawDog]

I don't even look at any physical factors! I tend to choose guys with bold and outgoing personalities who are more comfortable talking about sex.

That itself is something of a self fulfilling criteria. If the person is comfortable about talking about sex, this individual either has some endowment to make him or her good in bed (as in hung or tight or high pain tolerance etc.) and/or just has skills in general.

I find it hard to believe that anyone would talk openly about sex if they sucked in bed (and not in a good way).

 

[hsarge]

After reading many of your posts, Basincreek, I think if you had a 10" dick, you'd still find something else to obsess about. You just seem to have confidence issues. Too bad; Hope you can conquer it.

 

[Big Del]

I love this thread and some of the women who have posted their thoughts and experiences in it - long may there be size queens!

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

Since I left my ex husband (who was a generous average) I have only slept with well hung to omg huge men. (I will add here I have not slept with scores of men and am very fussy, so it's certainly not your general cross section of guys out there). I don't have any interest at all in having sex with an average sized male now. I don't do casual sex and am very sure of what I am dealing with before I take things past friendship, so have never been disappointed at all with the size of any of them.

The idea of an average guy just does not turn me on and I make no apologies for my preferences. I fully expect men I interact with to be judging me on my physicality too. Its not the only thing I judge on, but is an essential part of the overall package I look for (no pun intended lol!).

seaside has it spot on, selection is definitely where it is at for me. I have never had crappy, boring or unsatisfying sex with any of these hung men, why would I wish to change back a gear now? If this is spoiled, it doesn't worry me!

would thickness make up for less length


lots of guys out there with massive girth but with average/ above average length

 

[Deek]

To the women and men in this thread saying that men with big cocks are confident. I'm an excepting to that rule apparently. I'm the most socially awkward, quiet and shy guy I know. In fact, my cock also makes me more nervous around women, because I'm constantly paranoid about all the complications that can occur with a bigger penis.

Not all guys with big dicks are confident and out going. It is not something all of us share. The girl saying that all of her picks were random and hung men is just "lucky" if you can call it that. Good day

 

[basincreek]

How do you know the hot women are with bigger guys?!? Seriously? I think this might be more assumption than anything else.

Maybe I'm just blinded by how hot cougar_domme and dominatrix are. I mean they are both hot and both are pretty hardcore size queens.

I dare say I'd be somewhat intimidated by them even if I had a 10 x 7. Assuming that would be big enough for either of them.

That itself is something of a self fulfilling criteria. If the person is comfortable about talking about sex, this individual either has some endowment to make him or her good in bed (as in hung or tight or high pain tolerance etc.) and/or just has skills in general.

I find it hard to believe that anyone would talk openly about sex if they sucked in bed (and not in a good way).

I don't know, I tend to talk about sex pretty openly and I'm the antithesis of "hung" and I obviously have no experience with sex itself.

After reading many of your posts, Basincreek, I think if you had a 10" dick, you'd still find something else to obsess about. You just seem to have confidence issues. Too bad; Hope you can conquer it.

No way. If I had a ten incher I'd be so overflowing with confidence that the NRO could spot with a satellite.

 

[D_Langstaff Longstaff]

let's let them answer if they know the guys actual sizes. Keep in mind tons of people claim 9+ inches here but how many are verified with correct pictures to prove it? It's a pretty rare thing.

 

[haulthat]

Being as you are a human being. Guessing, correct me if I'm wrong, that you were not sure these guys were well endowed before you got them in the sack. There is probably some other factor that is leading you down that road. A behavioral trait, or other shit that makes it good for you during sex, and your linking it now. In this case, nothing you have said makes it sound like a bad thing.
The whole place I'm going with this can go for good things or bad things. We develop associations between shit we like and shit we don't so we can go for it or avoid it even before were put in a situation where we are faced said thing. A guy who took good care of you, and was very intimate might leave an impression deep enough that shit you cant consciously pick up on is in the back of your mind making you seek similar people out in the future. On the dark side, girls who have abusive fathers and so on can manage to find a guy who will do the same shit even if early on there were no obvious signs he was that kinda man.
Women liking big dicks don't have a bad name. Women having preferences as far as sex goes do in general. Men (straight ones) who like women with blond hair and big tits don't have a bad name, its typical and expected. A lot of people are still sexist, insecure, and annoying and will give you shit for one thing or another. Chances are there is a hung guy who wont judge you for it and hit it how you like it. Just make sure you don't get dickmatized and stick with a bastard just cause hes hung like a bull. If hes a great guy, great lay, and great cock why the fuck even consider what anyone else thinks? I'm just sayin...:shrug:

Of course it is preference. That is how i found this place. However I had big cocks before and still didn't have a problem with those that were smaller, some of them were much more skilled then the larger variety. I have alot of experience with both. But having an over abundance of large cocks lately i am finding it harder to go back lately, especially with a lover that is one of the best I have had. I am sure it is a phase.....i really made this post to gauge other womens experiences with this, not have an existential crisis over the sausage.......

Being wishywashy isn't a size queen trait, it is a trait in a flaky person in general. Flaky people can have any type of preference from liking small to big cocks. It is unfortunate you were turned away due to their inadequacies and gives women who like large cocks a bad name.

Being with alot of giant cocks and gaining an affinity for them is usually totally different then a woman who has little experience yet just enjoys the porn and the thought of large cocks. The mechanics are hard to get used to at first sometimes.

 

[basincreek]

How many guys actually only date blondes with big boobs?

I mean I couldn't care less about hair color or boob size.

Yes I know I stated up thread that I think cougar_domme is hot. But you know what I find hot about her? Her face...and her relaxed attitude.

 

[B_subgirrl]

That itself is something of a self fulfilling criteria. If the person is comfortable about talking about sex, this individual either has some endowment to make him or her good in bed (as in hung or tight or high pain tolerance etc.) and/or just has skills in general.

I find it hard to believe that anyone would talk openly about sex if they sucked in bed (and not in a good way).

I think this is generally true. I think talking comfortably about sex is usually indicative of confidence with sex, and the confidence (usually at least) is there for a reason.

In light of that, I'm sticking to my criteria :biggrin1:

To the women and men in this thread saying that men with big cocks are confident. I'm an excepting to that rule apparently. I'm the most socially awkward, quiet and shy guy I know. In fact, my cock also makes me more nervous around women, because I'm constantly paranoid about all the complications that can occur with a bigger penis.

Not all guys with big dicks are confident and out going. It is not something all of us share. The girl saying that all of her picks were random and hung men is just "lucky" if you can call it that. Good day

If you're talking about me, I didn't say ALL my partners have been large, just that I've had more than my fair share.

Nor was I suggesting that ALL large guys are confident. It seems to be a trend, not a universal rule.

Maybe I'm just blinded by how hot cougar_domme and dominatrix are. I mean they are both hot and both are pretty hardcore size queens.

Good answer :smile:

I don't know, I tend to talk about sex pretty openly and I'm the antithesis of "hung" and I obviously have no experience with sex itself.

There are always exceptions to the rule :biggrin1:. But are you comfortable talking about sex in real life? You may also find it changes once you've got experiences to share. Lots of people are fine when it's hypothetical, but clam up when it comes to their own experiences and preferences.

No way. If I had a ten incher I'd be so overflowing with confidence that the NRO could spot with a satellite.

Your cock does not define you.


You already have the right to be confident!

 

[RawDog]

I think this is generally true. I think talking comfortably about sex is usually indicative of confidence with sex, and the confidence (usually at least) is there for a reason.

I love it when they (women) blush, squirm, lean in and continue talking. It's like you guys are doing something really naughty and can't stop.

 

[Empathizer]

It's actually a fetish for some. Apparently (according to more than one of his lovers) André Gide had multiple orgasms just writing about it.

I share at least one thing, then, with a Great French Author... :evil:

 

[RawDog]

Is there a label for this fetish?

 

[Empathizer]

Is there a label for this fetish?

It's called "scribophilia," a term that has been hijacked by "clever" bloggers who write about tea, sewing, etc. I don't think these bloggers understand that there's differentiation between all the terms for "like" and "love" in Attic, Homeric, and Church-Era Greek.

 

[TheScotsman]

Your cock does not define you.

Woah, woah, woah.... where you getting these crazy ideas from?