Size Queens and Orgasms?

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    Hey everyone, I’ve been with about a dozen women and I’ve noticed something about how they react to my cock size. It took me awhile to pick up on this but when I look at my experience with women there are 2 kinds, women who orgasm mostly from oral and ones who orgasm mainly from cock. In my experience the ones who get off from oral don’t mind my size but to them it’s not the biggest deal (I’m about 8X5.5). With women who orgasm from penetration a lot of them think my size is the greatest thing ever. I mean it’s not a perfect rule obviously and some women can get off either way but in general it seems only about half the women can orgasm just from cock alone and they're the ones that are most into size. I guess it makes sense if that's how you orgasm to like a big one, but I know a lot of women like it for the visual part too not just the feeling. I guess I’m just wondering if the women on this site fall into that category and if maybe that’s why they like big ones. Also if any of the guys have noticed this I’m curious.
     
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    To complicate things a little i think i fall into neither catagory..Im not a fan of oral and for good penetration orgasm i dont believe the bigger the cock the better the ride..
     
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    Yeah. I guess I sort of fall into the vaginal orgasm/size queen category because I orgasm mainly from penetration alone and I do like me a big cock. But Lee is right that the bigger the cock does not always mean the better the ride. I'll go back to the my broken record - the advantage of a hung guy is he doesn't have to be that good, as long as he lasts long enough. A smaller/average guy needs to last but also have skill to make up for the lack of size. But if the guy knows how to use it, an avg. penis can have big advantages - g-spot stim, rock-hard erections, etc. So for me bigger is often better but certainly not automatically, if that makes any sense :biggrin1: .
     
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    I've stopped trying to figure out women years ago, since I've found that like men, their moods and expectations can change occasionally. No two women are really the same. Maybe things are changing with sites like this popping up, but from what I can still tell, all-in-all, size is still mainly a male thing. I just don't think women think about it nearly as much as this site suggests. Maybe in terms of casual sex, what you say may ring true, but when real feelings start getting involved, I think its more about sexing the man. I'm not saying that "love" equals great sex, or that size will stop mattering to certain women with it, but I do think the dynamics change when real feelings start getting involved. Sex is ever changing, and repetitive sex can get real boring very quickly for many, well me anyway.
     
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    Dude its like banging a 5'10 model chick(visuals) with nice tits as to a regular fuck. Or jackin with porn (visuals) or just a quick jack in the bathroom. Visuals are a part of the psychological orgasm. hope that makes sense.
     
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    i think size doesnt really matter ive had bad and good with all shapes and sizes but i cant orgasm from penetrative sex with a small cock, i orgasm from oral mostly but i have acheieved it from penetration with a large cock which is something id like to explore furthur :tongue:
     
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    We have had that subject, and I think it was you (Stud_Hunter) who started it by telling us about your great sex experience with an average guy. Yes, if he has skills and a good overall package, he can keep up with a better hung guy who lacks skills. I wouldn't scream that the one or other is better, it's really a fact that there's a certain size which will make you climax without employing elaborate technique, positions or similar. The orgasms will be there, it's just that they'll have different causes.

    Hung guys are pretty good and highly probable to make you climax from stimulating the interior of your vagina, by the depth of their penetration, and the way they fill you. If they want to use advanced techniques, it becomes difficult, after all size restricts the maneuverability, and so guys with less size might be better if you are into crazy penetration angles and similar kinks. In fact, a hung guy trying these can cause a lot of pain, so there's nothing bad if he sticks to the good, ol' humping and straightforward pumping.

     
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    Indeed, Claire. You've correctly described how different penises have different strengths :biggrin1: . An avg. one is great for g-spot stim, a thick one fills me and tugs on my labia/clit, a long one provides longer strokes which feels very nice. As a friend of mine said, the inside of a woman is like a pinball game, there are points to be scored in many different places as long as you keep the ball in play!
    But you are right, an average penis is more versatile. And a bigger guy doesn't have to innovate really. As Claire said, just good ol' fashion humping :biggrin1: . In general I find I orgasm easier with a larger-than-average penis just on account of he's providing more friction and sensation. But as Claire stated I've had great sex w/an average guy!

     
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    For me I am not a massive oral fan, for me ( bores me ..and yes it has been done right :smile: ) ...I do love giving oral though :wink:

    I cum from penetration and also doggie style with me stimuating my own clit, both get me off , fingers do it nicely also.

    So I kinda, sorta, fit your theory as I LOVE big cocks and small ones just don't make me cum right.

    :)
    Honey
     
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    Well from the few responses here it seems the theory might not pan out, since some ladies say they orgasm from cock but they think bigger isn't necessarily better. I guess in my experience there's been a few women who got off from cock alone and they were the ones who were most into my size. But then again I'm big but not enormous.
    In the end I guess it takes all kinds, right? Hopefully some more people will pipe in on the issue. Thanks though.
     
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    I don't necessarily think your theory has been disproven either. I think there can be too many variables to really apply it though. I think both men and women can have different sexual responses or even expectations for certain other people. You could take another guy with say your exact same dimensions, but maybe say a different aura, look, or personality than you, and the sex she ends up having or even wants to have with him, may be totally different than the sex she has with you. Maybe not even bad or better, but just different. Seems more a coincident, luck, or luck-of-the-draw to me, but then again, I wouldn't rule it out. But I have heard a few women talk about some guys drawing different responses out of them.
     
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    i'll preface my comment with a bit of sexual fact-finding: you know a guy's cock is small when the FIRST thing he does is go down on you. been there, done that. too many times.

    i prefer 8" or larger, usually up to 10". anything over 10", depending on girth, will just give me a bladder infection and/or lacerations which make it uncomfortable to pee for a few days.

    that being said, i've been with a few girthy 6"-7"ers that were amazing. the thing they had in common was an uncanny ability to nail my gspot with precise positioning. this kept me screaming with unbridled joy for hours.

    being big has its pros and cons. i've been with huge guys that felt their only sexual responsibility was to SHOW UP. while that has its merits, especially with guys who are so big just sliding past my gspot will make me O instantaneously, usually with that attitude comes the fact that the guy is just a total prick. as long as i got my cookies, i wasn't too upset by this if it was something casual. actually being in a relationship with that kind of guy was never a possibility.

    optimally, the best sex guy will not only show up with 8"+, but also use it well. personally, i'm not into receiving oral and orgasm 98% of the time from vaginal pounding, thankyouverymuch. but give me a guy whose interest is in flipping me around that gorgeous, huge cock seeing which position garners the best and most frequent orgasms, and i'm in love.

    ok, just lust. but i'd keep him waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay longer than the others. ;)
     
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    I wouldn't state that as a fact about all men. I love going down and always do it before penetration. I'm not the biggest here but at 8x7 I wouldn't say I'm small either. Maybe you just haven't run into any guys like me. :rolleyes:
     
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    the "fact" was supposed to resonate as a joke, not as a universal truth! but it's something fun that my gf's and i giggle about because they are not as up-front as i used to be when i was dating and have "settled" on what society considers little guys.

    actually, i would have to say that the majority of the "guys i've run into" are like you. because i have been extremely explicit in asking for what i want, most of my sexual partners have been well over 8". one of my favourite lines to hit a guy with on the 2nd or 3rd date was, "let's talk cock ... how big ARE you?" if you don't ask, you won't get what you want. no surprises here.
     
  15. WildHoney

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    You know lightngirl you may be on to something:smile:

    We are active swingers and our in joke is , men who rave on and on about their oral technique and how much they love oral sex with women have small dicks, we have yet to be proven wrong :biggrin1:

    I am not saying men with large cocks are bad at oral, just that small men market themselves as oral kings to pick up the slack for lacking in penis size I guess.

    :smile:

    Honey
     
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    so, having an average cock, i should avoid speaking of what abilities i may have in the oral deparment, and hinder myself even further?

    cool! the rules ROCK!
     
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    Think youve hit it on the nose there Honey,

    Im a straight guy with a big penis and i dont tend to rely on oral too much wen talking sex with my girl. She responds much more to talk about what im going to do to her with my cock. Could just be her thing of course, but my suspision is that its what she most looks forward too in sex. She loves oral and to be honest its part of nearly every act we ingage in, and i definatly think she would still be happy if i had a smaller one, but as it is its more about the cock because its there.
     
  18. WildHoney

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    Sk Bum, Not at all, every woman loves a man who is good at oral sex. Its merely a coincidence in our circles that they seem to have small cocks.

    I have stated before I play with many many types of men, I prefer to be fucking a guy who has a huge penis, but have had mind blowing sex with men who are smaller also.

    Actually I'd prefer a guy to tell me how awesome he is at fingering :tongue: thats my thing....I always g-spot orgasm by a good fingering session. Oral sex kinda bores me...I like something penertrating me

    :smile:

    Honey

    (btw Sk Bum, you don't exactly have a small cock, you could rely on that alone with me *grin*)
     
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    well i do have amazingly long fingers....

    I'M IN!!!
     
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    You ladies ever stop to ponder that a man who instantly goes down on you, is in many cases trying to prepare you for what he is about to ram inside of you? Food for thought...

    Funny thing: When I first started having sex at 16, going down on a woman was simply a necessity. Over time...it has become a full-blown fetish of mine. I look at a woman with lust and when I finally get her I just want to play that pussy like a harmonica and use her pretty ass as a hat for as long as possible.

    ...OB
     
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