Somehow my girlfriend's ex came up, and (after asking) she told me that he was almost 9". I was sick to my stomach when I found out, thinking that there is no way I could ever please her...but I was wrong. She told me that she actually avoided sex with him, and that he thought his dick was enough to make her enjoy sex. He constantly went in too deep and she said it was plain uncomfortable and not enjoyable. Since I can "bottom out" and fill her up, but am closer to her she tends to get a lot of clitoral stimulation in most positions. She has orgasms (almost) every time we have sex, usually multiple times...so yes, some women can go back to a smaller penis after having a gigantic one. Women tend to be more into the psychological part of having sex (how you treat them and make them feel)....however being a "size queen" seems like more of a psychological thing than anything, so I suppose it depends on the woman.