Size queens, could you?

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  1. JustJimbo

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    Hello all, I have been around this site for a little while now but dont really have much input as I dont have a big fat one to show and tell, mines 7x5. Anyway I have always enjoyed watching big ones but mainly women enjoying big ones, I am not into any of that cuckold stuff. My partner has had a fairly big one 8x6, and I enjoy showing her big dick dvd's stuff from here etc. But she is just not a size queen and is quite happy with mine and although a bigger one would be nicer its the total package and all that.

    I have suggested that I would love to watch her wank a big one suck a big one etc, and right now she is not so keen but maybee one lucky day she will. So my question is not only to the size queens but I am guesing just like my partner to most women a big dick is nice but not everything. I have read that with size queens they have turned down men when they find he is not hung.

    So could you if you met a partner that provided everything you looked for in a partner ( no need to list attributes as everybody looks for different things) but thay had an average dick like mine 7x5 or even a little bit smaller but not silly little. But the partner was more than happy for you to play with bigger ones, so the both of you could share the pleasure together. Could you ever respect sombody who was willing to let you do that and even more so wanted you to do that?. Because it must be harder to find sombody who in every other aspect other than dick size you click with, and then just finding a big one on the net etc than finding sombody who has all the looks, charm, personalitty etc etc and a big dick aswell has to be one hell of a find. I have been wanting to ask this question for a little while now and hope I have explained it quite well as I dont want to waffle on and on. I know there are plenty of people who would never do the whole sharing swinging thing so I respect that. Cheers.
     
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    I know that lots of people do this, but to me if a guy loved me the last thing he'd be willing to accept was me being fucked by someone else.
     
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    I certainly wouldnt ask for it. It would suck being constantly reminded that Im not enough.

    I wanna be enough goddamnit! :)
     
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    Yes I guessed this would be the response, and Spoiled Princess I dont think I would likr to see her fuck another man that would be a bit too much, but I think I could handle her wanking one, sucking one. I would also like to watch a couple that like to be watched while the guy has a whopper, stuff like that really, also playing with toys. Just to note she also feels the same as most people on here seem to feel which is if you love me you wont want to share me, I dont know maybe I could never go through with it or maybe there is something wrong with me :confused:. I just think it would be fun.
     
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    7" isn't small,I wouldn't do it if I was you.Keep to the DVD's and the fantasy.Things have a way of getting out of control.Be happy with yuor life!
     
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    She already told you no. If you keep up pestering her, she will feel less secure with you, less secure with herself, and she might even leave. If things are acceptable as they are, stop fucking it up.
     
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    This is all turning about my situation, my situation is fine I would never pressure my partner into anything she didnt want to do. My question was to the true size queens could you love a man if he had everything apart from the dick you dream of, but to make up for it the pair of you shall eternally search for that big one. Doing it together and having a good time looking on the internet, meeting people, playing with big toys. Or do size queens belive that they will find there dream man attached to a dream cock one day, or is it the fact that size queens are the sort of people that will always be on the look for bigger and never fully satisfied.
     
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    I am the 2nd man my GF has had in her life (she was a virgin when she married and was with her husband for 20 years). She started showing me the porn she liked; I started talking about voyeurism & exhibitionism and she was interested. We went to a club in San Francisco (Power Exchange, if you're interested) and saw some people putting on amateur shows, then we put on our own show and had an audience of dozens of people. She lost count of the number of orgasms she had in the ~40 minutes she was riding me.

    I asked her if she would like to fellate men while I fucked her and she was not interested. Turns out, she was only afraid of infection and had no problem letting other men fuck her if they wore condoms.

    We went to another club (Interracial Kink in the SF Bay area) where she had sex with her first black man (about as thick as I am, but an inch and a half longer). She came so hard and so often that she was sweating (she had to take a shower afterwards).

    Since then, we have gone to clubs when it fit our schedules and she has had a dozen other men. Only 2 of them were smaller than I am, another 2 were about the same size and the rest of them substantially larger.

    I don't have the slightest concern that she will leave me for a better-endowed man (she doesn't even want to have sex unless I am at least in the same room) and I am happy she is getting the experiences she missed out on while growing up in a repressive culture.
     
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    She might doubt your sexuality if you carry on too. many women wouldn't (i'd imagine) want to be with a guy who could be a closet gay.. just to leave her 5 yrs down the line once they are married with a couple of children.....leaving her with a child or two to bring up herself......
     
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    Personally, I think to love someone is to have a connection that's alot more than sex. Especially someone you're thinking of marrying.

    If I had an average sized dick and it wasn't good enough for my significant other, I would first try pleasuring her through other means, but done by myself. Maybe some vibrators or dildos that I could use on her?

    I think that would be the first step. If that wasn't enough . . . well that would mean her value system is significantly different from mine, and I wouldn't be interested in her for a long term relationship anyways.
     
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    I would honestly just forget about this. It's a fantasy for a lot of men, but I'm sure this is weirding her out and I can almost guarantee she wishes you'd stop. Experiment with movies, dildos, but leave the reality of introducing a real dick behind. Lots of break-ups happen over things like this, where the man is egging his woman on to try a big cock and she's basically indifferent, wondering if he's insecure, secretly gay, or worse. Lots of guys love to hear women ranting and raving over huge dicks because it's a turn-on, but the reality is a lot, if not most women, just don't care all that much.
     
  13. JustJimbo

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    Six of spades I think yours is the post I agree with the most, but also with Jeff he and his partner have had good experiences. I guess its all about mindset and trying to gauge if it would make or break the relationship in question. Again I wasnt actually asking for advice on my own current situation, I was just asking asking size queens. But I guess I didnt really explain myself in my OP. Cheers.
     
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    First, I don't think you have anything to worry about at seven inches. That's porn star size for many petite women. And people who aren't hardwired to swing, probably won't, and if they do it will make them miserable and perhaps doom the relationship.
    Me, I would like a boyfriend to watch me being fucked by a big dick, if it also got him off. But it's risky, emotional makeup being what it is. Was recently in a threesome, but no real commitment was involved.
     
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    if you only knew that most guys that do porn are less than 7 inches.. if yo guys knew... ;0 but oh well, have it ur way!
     
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    size queens are a joke.I am not big nor small and have been with quite a few women & have NEVER had a problem.Yes...some of the women have been with large men & they have told me it just wasnt confortable for them.Size is not everything & if you "big" guys think it is then you really need to grow up.I can understand if a woman has a large vagina & only can accomadate a large penis.Just remember ladies....it works BOTH ways.I just have more damn things in my life to worry about then if a woman prefers a large penis or not.Many of you guys need to get a hobby & i dont mean talkin bout your penis & other guys penises on lpsg.SAD.....
     
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    You couldn't be more correct. And...the fact that you have a very large cock gives even more credibility. Nicely said.
     
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