I've met some guys this way, from online and from a phone personals thing. I met them in a public place first (to make sure they aren't psychos!), then if I was ok with them we'd go either to my place or theirs... :smile:
I STILL regret not meeting a guy I'd heard about when I was 23. Although I was old enough to handle myself fine, I was extremely shy and had some problems with that, as well as next to no sexual experience (had only been with one guy, for one night - and he was not big, so I had no idea if I could handle a big guy or not at that time, although I fantasized about them. Later I found out that I could handle a big guy just fine!) One of my more open-minded co-workers told me as well as another woman about this particular guy. She said "He has the biggest dick I've ever seen! It's scary"! (But for me that WAS my fantasy! Still is... ahem!)