Hello All! I'm very new here and need a very important question answered. I'm a straight, divorced, male of polynesian descent. I'm 40 years of age. Well! Here's my question. My penis size is 9.75"(length) by 7.50"(around) erect. The last four women that i've wanted to have intercourse with have told me "Oh! i'm sorry but i'm scared", "Whoa! it's going to be too painful", etc., etc.. I've always been gentle with ALL the women i've had sex with always aims to please a women 1st. I'm very frustrated! It's hard to be a good sport when there putting their clothes on with my penis in my hand, AGAIN! Is it just a stroke of bad luck, penis too big, or am i overeacting.