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The only difference having a big cock has made in my life is, sexually. I seem to get a lot of eye contact in bars and saunas so I pick up men easily. Outside the sex arena I am no more successful with a big cock than I would have been with a small one. I cannot see how anyone can say having a big cock has made them successful. Only if they are escorts or porn actors.
Having been an interview subject of Jana's, I'm one of the hung and shy guys. I've never been molded into feeling ashamed for my differences, but it really wasn't til I came across LSPG that I truly started feeling comfortable with them too. One of those differences is a sizable dick, which has recently opened up a confident side of me I never knew existed. So thanks to everyone at LPSG - those who ask and those who answer and those who simply spout their two cents.
regular joe: Only here and recently have I even come to realize I'm above average. That does lend towards more self-confidence. Its a new feel for me, so I don't know how it will impact my success or not.
hung_big: It's also very hard to say what it is exactly in one's life that impacts them.
Sure, a large cock may give one self confidence, but it could also be because they are intelligent, good-looking etc.
I'm going to use you as an example Jacinto (DMW), if you don't mind. Unless you are completely blind you can see that DMW is extremely intelligent, kind, drop-dead gorgeous *drools*, in good shape and overall well-rounded person (languages, courteous etc). Now, it's also pretty common knowledge that he is well endowed below the belt, but who's to say that all or ANY of his success is due to his meat?
I am willing to bet decades ago before he even knew that he was well-endowed he was very intelligent and motivated. Of course, this is just speculation, but it doesn't seem to me that Jacinto credits anything to his meat, except for perhaps a few jobs he might have gotten and, given, his sex life.
It seems to be pretty ignorant to credit success to your cock. I'm not overly well-hung, but I would say I'm relatively successful for a 15 year-old. Of course, nothing compared to some members here, but still. Cock has no more correlation to success then it does to the size of one's nose size, shoe size or hand size.
Sure, a large cock may give one self confidence, but it could also be because they are intelligent, good-looking etc.
I'm going to use you as an example Jacinto (DMW), if you don't mind. Unless you are completely blind you can see that DMW is extremely intelligent, kind, drop-dead gorgeous *drools*, in good shape and overall well-rounded person (languages, courteous etc). Now, it's also pretty common knowledge that he is well endowed below the belt, but who's to say that all or ANY of his success is due to his meat?
I am willing to bet decades ago before he even knew that he was well-endowed he was very intelligent and motivated. Of course, this is just speculation, but it doesn't seem to me that Jacinto credits anything to his meat, except for perhaps a few jobs he might have gotten and, given, his sex life.
It seems to be pretty ignorant to credit success to your cock. I'm not overly well-hung, but I would say I'm relatively successful for a 15 year-old. Of course, nothing compared to some members here, but still. Cock has no more correlation to success then it does to the size of one's nose size, shoe size or hand size.
I tend to think, in my case, the only real effect it has had in terms of success involves the confidence factor, as others have pointed out.
Having said that, I will add that I think success in anything, from the world of business to sexuality is mostly due to confidence and luck. These motivational speakers say "you make your own luck" and, I suppose, that is true...to an extent, but you would not even try making your own luck without the confidence to pursue it. Then, it becomes nothing more than a confidence game you play with yourself: if you think you can do it, you almost certainly can.
Now, how much of that confidence came from my penis size? I do not know, but I hope it wasn't very much.
And don't EVER let anyone say that success in anything is all hard work or natural talent. Most of success is luck, people. The only difference between Bill Gates and a Bowery bum is that Bill Gates is right 52% of the time and the Bowery bum is right 48% of the time. In that four percent spread is all the difference in the world. It's much like that one base hit a week during baseball season that makes the difference betwen a mediocre player and a star. Ultimately, the difference is not that great when you really look at and consider things.
Now, in another posting....someone commented regarding Bill Gates' uh, status....I have never met him, but among my acquaintances is a woman about exactly his age who grew up with him in Seattle...she ran over him with her bicycle when they were both kids and she refused to dance with him at some Microsoft social before Gates' marriage - she has other recollections of him, too, but these are among the more flattering. Let's just say that she doesn't think the reality is much like the image the media make it out to be...the same for the popular imagination.
Having said that, I will add that I think success in anything, from the world of business to sexuality is mostly due to confidence and luck. These motivational speakers say "you make your own luck" and, I suppose, that is true...to an extent, but you would not even try making your own luck without the confidence to pursue it. Then, it becomes nothing more than a confidence game you play with yourself: if you think you can do it, you almost certainly can.
Now, how much of that confidence came from my penis size? I do not know, but I hope it wasn't very much.
And don't EVER let anyone say that success in anything is all hard work or natural talent. Most of success is luck, people. The only difference between Bill Gates and a Bowery bum is that Bill Gates is right 52% of the time and the Bowery bum is right 48% of the time. In that four percent spread is all the difference in the world. It's much like that one base hit a week during baseball season that makes the difference betwen a mediocre player and a star. Ultimately, the difference is not that great when you really look at and consider things.
Now, in another posting....someone commented regarding Bill Gates' uh, status....I have never met him, but among my acquaintances is a woman about exactly his age who grew up with him in Seattle...she ran over him with her bicycle when they were both kids and she refused to dance with him at some Microsoft social before Gates' marriage - she has other recollections of him, too, but these are among the more flattering. Let's just say that she doesn't think the reality is much like the image the media make it out to be...the same for the popular imagination.
madame_zora
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Carolina, you cracked me up with that "interview subject" comment, I hope you know you are far more to me than that! Look at you, at your young age to be doing so well in the field of your own choosing, you have a lot to be confidant about, for sure. To be a genuinely decent person in addition to your success, your dick, your good looks, your intellignece- you're a great whole person package.
Sure a big dick is nice. So is a good smile. Many things that are physical attributes do give some people an advantage over others, but if these things are given disproportionate weight, a person will surely not develop fully in other areas. I will now turn to the "vapid blonde" stereotype- we all know one! I know too many women who live off their looks alone and don't bother to develop much character, they are annoying as hell to be around. Sure, she doesn't have to do much for a guy to think he's having the fuck of his life, because she's so damned pretty to look at he's struggling not to cum too fast, but if there's not a bit of substance there, it will be nothing more than a short term thing that ends badly.
Sure, there are a select few women like me for whom it is a bigger deal than to most, I suspect there are some gay guys who are size queens as well, but let's not discount the fact that there are TONS of men who will ONLY date beautiful women! You can tell me till you're blue in the face that you're not like that, but society as a whole certainly is! I can tell you from my own experience as a 225 lb woman that I was almost NEVER approached for a date, for my advice, for my intellect or ANYTHING until I lost weight. Hmm. Funny, I was the same interesting person with the same experiences and outlook, but until I "fit the mold" no one gave a damn. No one even suspected that I'd give them the best blowjob of their lives, I was just invisible to men.
Of course, my weight gain was due to depression, and being depressed is no aphrodisiac either, so overall I'm happy with my new size and willingness to take care of myself, but I never thought I was ugly to begin with. I still don't see larger women as automatically unattractive, but society still does. I guess in the long run it's good to make the most of the gifts we've been given, but not stop there. It would be a disservice to everyone to send the message that a "big blessing" is all you need in life, when in reality it's just one of the many things that goes into making a whole man. Or woman.
Sure a big dick is nice. So is a good smile. Many things that are physical attributes do give some people an advantage over others, but if these things are given disproportionate weight, a person will surely not develop fully in other areas. I will now turn to the "vapid blonde" stereotype- we all know one! I know too many women who live off their looks alone and don't bother to develop much character, they are annoying as hell to be around. Sure, she doesn't have to do much for a guy to think he's having the fuck of his life, because she's so damned pretty to look at he's struggling not to cum too fast, but if there's not a bit of substance there, it will be nothing more than a short term thing that ends badly.
Sure, there are a select few women like me for whom it is a bigger deal than to most, I suspect there are some gay guys who are size queens as well, but let's not discount the fact that there are TONS of men who will ONLY date beautiful women! You can tell me till you're blue in the face that you're not like that, but society as a whole certainly is! I can tell you from my own experience as a 225 lb woman that I was almost NEVER approached for a date, for my advice, for my intellect or ANYTHING until I lost weight. Hmm. Funny, I was the same interesting person with the same experiences and outlook, but until I "fit the mold" no one gave a damn. No one even suspected that I'd give them the best blowjob of their lives, I was just invisible to men.
Of course, my weight gain was due to depression, and being depressed is no aphrodisiac either, so overall I'm happy with my new size and willingness to take care of myself, but I never thought I was ugly to begin with. I still don't see larger women as automatically unattractive, but society still does. I guess in the long run it's good to make the most of the gifts we've been given, but not stop there. It would be a disservice to everyone to send the message that a "big blessing" is all you need in life, when in reality it's just one of the many things that goes into making a whole man. Or woman.
gamma_phi: If there IS such a correlation to penis size and success-then my views on my love tool being small must be true since I haven't succeeded in anything, yet.
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If any of you have heard of the group DaVinci's Notebook, you've probably heard their song that goes like this:
Whenever life gets you down
Keeps you wearing a frown
And the gravy train has left you behind
And when you're all out of hope
Down at the end of your rope
And nobody's there to throw you a line
If you ever get so low that you don't know which way to go
Come on and take a walk in my shoes
Never worry bout a thing
Got the world on a string
Cus I've got the cure for all of my blues (all of his blues)
I take a look at my enormous penis
And my troubles start a-meltin' away
I take a look at my enormous penis
And the happy times are coming to stay
I got a sing and a dance when I glance in my pants
And the feeling's like a sunshiney day
I take a look at my enormous pe-e-e-nis
And everything is goin' my way
(whistling)
(ad lib solo)
PE-E-NIS
(end ad lib solo)
Everybody
I take a look at my enormous penis
And my troubles start a-meltin' away
I take a look at my enormous penis
And the happy times are coming to stay
I got great big amounts in the place where it counts
And the feeling's like a sunshiney day
I take a look at my enormous penis
And everything is goin' my way (my trouser monster)
Everything is going' my way (my meat is murder)
Everything is goin' my way (size doesn't matter)
Everything is goin' my waaaaaay
yummmm
Whenever life gets you down
Keeps you wearing a frown
And the gravy train has left you behind
And when you're all out of hope
Down at the end of your rope
And nobody's there to throw you a line
If you ever get so low that you don't know which way to go
Come on and take a walk in my shoes
Never worry bout a thing
Got the world on a string
Cus I've got the cure for all of my blues (all of his blues)
I take a look at my enormous penis
And my troubles start a-meltin' away
I take a look at my enormous penis
And the happy times are coming to stay
I got a sing and a dance when I glance in my pants
And the feeling's like a sunshiney day
I take a look at my enormous pe-e-e-nis
And everything is goin' my way
(whistling)
(ad lib solo)
PE-E-NIS
(end ad lib solo)
Everybody
I take a look at my enormous penis
And my troubles start a-meltin' away
I take a look at my enormous penis
And the happy times are coming to stay
I got great big amounts in the place where it counts
And the feeling's like a sunshiney day
I take a look at my enormous penis
And everything is goin' my way (my trouser monster)
Everything is going' my way (my meat is murder)
Everything is goin' my way (size doesn't matter)
Everything is goin' my waaaaaay
yummmm
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