my wife says I am big enuf at 7.25 L x 6.25 avg girth, a little over 6.50 at the base. I am tall, and feel like my cock should be longer for my height, probably 8-9". never been much of a shower, and would like a longer cock, just so my flaccid length would make me a shower. my wife says she was attracted to me physically of course, and she checked my bulge many times and thought I was possibly large, but really didn't know for sure until she felt it by rubbing my pants.