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so men actually like skinny boys?

So heterosexual men like skinny girls?

I think your question is a little to simple. Not every man likes skinny boys. I personally like "men": muscluar, lean, clean, sexy, intelligent and - most of all - somewhat adult! No boys invited, sorry.
 

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Depends on how skinny you talk about. thin (not too frail though) usually is also defined which is very sexy,
also, a body that doesnt have fat shows virility, youth, and active/sporty lifestyle.
 

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It's more than likely linked to my past of anorexia but I love to see extremely defined hip-bones, ribs, collar-bones, wrists and ankles. The feeling of the bone beneath the skin is something unique as well.

Really, though, I prefer these features on my own body and like a LITTLE bit of meat on other guys. I'm more turned on by myself being skinny than another guy having the trait - I'm actually somewhat jealous of guys thinner than me.
 

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Sometimes, opposites attract. Sometimes they don't. If he years have taught me one thing, it is that no matter WHAT kind of body you have there will be people who absolutely adore and go ga-ga over it. Sometimes they have those characteristics themselves, sometimes just the opposite, sometimes in between. As Ray Steven's put in his song, "Everyone is beautiful, in their own way". The trick is finding someone you find beautiful, who finds you beautiful. Physically, and in all other ways. That's mostly luck. :)
 

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As someone who's been considered skinny their whole life - its a double-edge sword. There are those who are envious of my svelteness, and there are those who have said hateful/hurtful words to me. I actually dated a guy for a brief period of time who when I asked why he wasn't reciprocating exploring my body during sex, kept saying that it wasn't me, but it was him - turned out he was right! He later admitted one night while we were having dinner after coming from the gym, that "my pecs weren't big enough, but that he'd get used to them". I was incredulous! The fact that I've had multiple heart surgeries which has left my chest area muscuarly impacted, obviously wasn't taken into consideration - I assured him that there would be no need for him to have to lower his standards or get use to anything, that while I may have body image issues, I was in possession of a healthy, fully-developed self-esteem and quickly showed him the front door.

I can't help that I have the metabolism of a humming-bird, its the genetic card I was dealt, as well as eating health and minimize my intake of processed foods. I don't appreciate those who hate on others for something that is beyond that person's control. And from the outside world, there might be other underlying healthy issues that affect a person's weight that other aren't privied to, so think about that before you generalize or judge a person's phsique.

Now, as for my preference, I'm attracted to a multiple spectrum of men - slim, muscular, to stocky. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and while physical beauty fades over time, inner beauty is what sustains friendships and relationships.

Just my two-cents - Kiltiesf
 

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I actually dated a guy for a brief period of time who when I asked why he wasn't reciprocating exploring my body during sex, kept saying that it wasn't me, but it was him - turned out he was right! He later admitted one night while we were having dinner after coming from the gym, that "my pecs weren't big enough, but that he'd get used to them". I was incredulous! The fact that I've had multiple heart surgeries which has left my chest area muscuarly impacted, obviously wasn't taken into consideration - I assured him that there would be no need for him to have to lower his standards or get use to anything, that while I may have body image issues, I was in possession of a healthy, fully-developed self-esteem and quickly showed him the front door.

I don't appreciate those who hate on others for something that is beyond that person's control.

I certainly hope you don't consider his statement of preference to have been a form of "hating" on you...
 

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I am a big guy 6 foot 300 lbs. 50 years old. A lot of the younger guys 20 and 30 wont let me even suckk their cocks, but it seems like men in their 40 and 50 and espcially married men love for me to suck them. I am a no recip type guy - I just LOVE to suck and deep throat. I do have a 28yo and a 32yo that LOVES the way I suck and LOVES for me to suck them off.= but that is far and few between. It just seems like the guyus in the 20s and 30 are looking for a relationship and not just a blo n go. I want to do a blo n go and thats all LOVE IT! Does anyone know of any websites of guys that love older heavy men . Thanks
 

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I guess I could be considered skinny. Size 32 waist and all. Been that way all my life, doing all I can to remain that way for the rest of my life. I weigh 161 pounds and desire to remain that weight for the rest of my time as well, not withstanding some folks that try to tell me I should weigh 200 pounds.My doctor, first time I went to see him, told me he was surprised to find a guy 51 years old that is so healthy and not taking any meds, called me a race horse. So not going to be fattening up any time soon.

Take it or leave it. Both male and female have told me I am an attractive guy. And everyone of the ladies who told me that made particular note of my slender form. Slender and strong man appearance is what they have said. No one has ever called me Too Skinny.

My preference is for both male and female that are slender as well. Nothing wrong with big-boned at all. Obesity disgusts me to no end. Almost all cases of obesity are due to not knowing when to stop stuffing your pie hole. STOP EATING for christs sake, you make me sick.
 

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Yes I find them attractive, I was a very skinny guy myself until about age 25 when I started to finally put on some weight so maybe that is why. Many skinny guys I have hooked up with seem to be extremely insecure about their bodies though.

One dude actually wanted to leave his tee shirt on when we fooled around because he was so self conscious. He was afraid I wouldn't find him attractive if he took it off.
 
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I certainly hope you don't consider his statement of preference to have been a form of "hating" on you...

I was offended by his insensitive comment about my body, how else I suppose to take it, as a compliment? We had been going out for two months, this wasn't some random hookup. I accepted him and his flaws, but I wasn't going to subject myself to mental anguish worrying about other physical flaw I might have that he would find repulsive,had I decided to.continue dating him. My surgery scars, I wear as my badges of honor for I survived against the odds. They shouldn't be viewed as tattoos or piercings; something that one chooses to get as I didn't have the choice in the matter.

So, to answer your question, yes I did find his statement hateful.
 

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I wish i was the type of skinny that can eat whatever and not get fat.

That is not so in my case. Everyone in my family is big, cannot see their shoes when upright. I am the exception because I work out and know when to stop putting things in my piehole. Do not overeat, totally stay away from soda pop and high sugar foods. It takes some dedication on my part because part of me wants to eat candy bars and drink soda. Looking in the mirror I get the reward for not doing so. When a lady or even a guy tell me I am attractive also goes along way in maintaining my appearance. Not bad for 51 years old.
 

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was 125 soaking wet for near 25 years and then in 30+ 135 now a am a 40 yr 150+ so skinny was nice but you get so mant complaints bye others thinking you to thin to skinny aughh biggest thing be happy in your own skin regardless what others think or say just be yourself