Sleeping at boyfriends (Any fun sex ideas:))

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by 7"24, Oct 28, 2011.

  1. 7"24

    7"24 Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    142
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Texas
    Hey guys,

    I'm sleeping at my boyfriends tonight we haven't been able to have a night together in weeks. We have slept together 4 times, he's a bottom. I'm looking to keep things fresh and exciting, any one have some ideas for how to spend the night :). We are both pretty inexperienced on the sexual side. No rimming, not ready for that yet lol.
     
  2. D_Kitten_Kaboodle

    D_Kitten_Kaboodle Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2010
    Messages:
    4,322
    Likes Received:
    39
    always fun to play with your food...

    whip cream....
    chocolate syrup......
    shaved ice.... (yes this is really hot!)

    just a few ways to start foreplay lighthearted and fun...and get your tongues ready for some licking..
     
  3. rough_neck_9_1

    Joined:
    Feb 7, 2009
    Messages:
    288
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    There's also taking a trip around the place, not necessarily full on sex but playing around in every room can give some perspective based fun. I'd also recommend look up adult toys online, not so much to buy right away if its out of a place of comfort, but kind of going through an online catalog and jest/joke around with the different toys and joke what you'd do with it etc.
     
    #3 rough_neck_9_1, Oct 28, 2011
    Last edited: Oct 28, 2011
  4. MH07

    MH07 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 5, 2004
    Messages:
    438
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    14
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Houston

    Taking a shower together is fun. Everybody gets all soapy and slippery and slidey. you can make it last as long as you want....Make him stand with his legs apart, totally still, while you wash every square inch of his body. Let him return the favor. Being held from behind as the water beats down is also incredibly erotic.

    For that matter, I had a very hot afternoon one time with this guy who had bought some body paint. I had never seen it before. We got in the bathtub and had fun painting each other. Cheap thrills.

    Another thing is to just stop in the middle of sex and hold totally still. Dick hard inside ass, just freeze and stay that way. It's an incredible feeling for both.

    Pick up a game of Twister. Turn the music up loud. Get naked. Have fun.

    And don't be afraid to try rimming, but only after you've taken a shower together....:smile:
     
    #4 MH07, Oct 28, 2011
    Last edited: Oct 28, 2011
  5. aninnymouse

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2006
    Messages:
    3,063
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    In My Own World
    A nice slow, sensual massage is nice. Complete with touching and attention to special areas, including but not limited to kissing, nibbling, licking and such.

    A pair of those erotic dice may be good for some fun and games.

    Of course, this is all in addition to what everyone else has suggested above.

    The best thing to do is to just relax and enjoy being together. You haven't been able to do that in awhile, so just laying back and going with the flow and simply getting high on the moment and high on each other sounds like just the ticket; especially since the two of you have not had an easy go of it lately.
     
  6. D2Have

    D2Have New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2008
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Aw =)
    My boyfriend and I don't get to see each other too often. We've slept together only twice, and we have so much trouble falling asleep, even when we're done having sex. I guess we're just not used to it, and are excited of sleeping together, and the next morning we get so tired..

    I'd just cuddle with my bf for the night, but you could lie down and talk about interesting topics... bed time stories are nice !
     
  7. 7"24

    7"24 Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    142
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Texas
    Hey guys,

    He's in the shower in writing this in his bed. We spent the night just relaxing together, lots of kissing ;) we did have sex but I had basically blue balls by that point so came pretty quick and we had an amazing night sleeping by each other sides.
     
  8. Countryguy63

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2006
    Messages:
    14,488
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1,447
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    near Monterey, Calif.
    Verified:
    Photo
    Going on with the shower idea (and no it's not too late:wink:)....

    I can totally relate to the "not ready for rimming", but the fact that you mentioned it, tells me that you've thought about it. Dude, I was right there with you at one time, but since trying it, I have never turned back. It is such a turn on for both sides.

    Of course, getting past the "overthinking" of what it is, was a huge hurdle for me. I just wanted to let you know what worked for me. While taking a shower, making sure you completely wash and rinse the area thoroughly, give it a try. I guarantee you that you will be amazed :biggrin1:. As far as any odor, in that situation it is going to be a sweet smelling as any other part of his body.

    Go ahead, I Dare ya,,,Find out whatchyur missin :wink:
     
  9. B_rzl

    B_rzl New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 3, 2009
    Messages:
    344
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    dude, thats the hottest and most romantic thing you couldve done, just hug and kiss and a little of sex. later you can try all of the above one by one. take ur time, cuddling is great. cheers
     
  10. 7"24

    7"24 Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    142
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Texas
    Yeah last night was awesome. Rolling around making out swapping who is on top of who is so much fun. It was nice to get be able to just bond. I could lay in bed cuddling with him forever. Sleeping next to him last was amazing I wish I could sleep in the same bed with him every night.
     
  11. ed8101

    ed8101 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 22, 2012
    Messages:
    37
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Astoria, OR
    I'd love to take a shower (or even a bath) with another guy. Someone mentioned "Twister" -- has anyone played it naked?
     
Draft saved Draft deleted