Sleeping with a dildo inside you. Safe or not?

[benson19]

For a long time i was always thinking about what would it be and feel like to sleep with a dildo inserted all the way up in my ass?
Last night i dont know what came over me but i finally went through with it LOL (after 5 years of thinking about it).

I didnt want to be too daring and start off with the 7.5 inch dildo that i have so i went with the 6 inch one.
Slept about close to just under 6 hours with it in but i do think i woke up a few times during the night. Wore underwear as well just to make sure it didnt slip out on its own and did notice alot of precum stain marks on my underwear.

So my question is... is this a safe thing to be doing once in a while or not really recommended at all?
I know most have said its ok with butt plugs to give it ago but ive never found much info regarding with a dildo/bigger size?

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

ive done it many times--id use it then get tired after cumming lay there and fall asleep--just make sure theres a ring around the base to keep it from going in too far--the one i used was 14 in double header---it had plenty of room to slide in if it did but if you do this then your asshole will adapt to it and wont tighten back up like it was

 

[deleted1334580]

I think I should try this.

 

[benson19]

ive done it many times--id use it then get tired after cumming lay there and fall asleep--just make sure theres a ring around the base to keep it from going in too far--the one i used was 14 in double header---it had plenty of room to slide in if it did but if you do this then your asshole will adapt to it and wont tighten back up like it was

All my dildos i own have the balls part shaped/add on at the end of them so i would think there is no way it could go all the way up including the balls Hahaha.

Yeah thats the part that has me worried a little...i dont want to get carried away and then stretch my hole permanently.
So that is a possible cause that it can stretch too much then from what your saying?

 

[deleted1334580]

My ass is very tight. I've never been fucked (though I am open to that), it works for the job it has, but the thought of someone penetrating it, I guess I could prepare with a dildo.

 

[benson19]

My ass is very tight. I've never been fucked (though I am open to that), it works for the job it has, but the thought of someone penetrating it, I guess I could prepare with a dildo.

I was like this when i first started to play around with dildos/butt plugs about 15 years or so ago.
I needed so much lube and the 6 inch felt like it was going to rip me apart.

Eventually i started to get use to it and then went a little bigger...and further on.

Now i cant easily insert the 6 inch with just some spit/saliva....the 7.5 inch i can get in with much more saliva. Ive got a 9.5 inch one and for that if i go to start on it direct i def need lube or the other way is to start with the 7.5 inch one and play for a bit and then with saliva i can get the 9.5 inch in but i still cant get it all the way in. Maybe just over 3/4 qtrs only.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

theres a dildo kit you can buy--it has an anal plug --good to start with--then has a bigger on and has thre others that by time done youll have had at least 7 inchesinside you-buti will tell you cock feels 100 times better than a dildo--ask any other bottoms and they will tell you same

 

[deleted1334580]

I have only ever topped, but am just so damn curious about it, plus the stimulation inside like prostate and that.

 

[benson19]

theres a dildo kit you can buy--it has an anal plug --good to start with--then has a bigger on and has thre others that by time done youll have had at least 7 inchesinside you-buti will tell you cock feels 100 times better than a dildo--ask any other bottoms and they will tell you same

Ive got that colt 3 size trainer kit small, medium , large.
Now only the large one i use but the problem with that one is ..it still slides out on its own.
Ive got another butt plug i think its called sports fucker or something like that where its a larger egg/dome shaped and has a very skinny neck.
That one stays in always if i insert it but the problem is i really dont feel like its in there as theres not much length to it.

Only the dildos i can feel inside of me.

Ohh i totally would agree yes that a dildo can never replace the feeling of a real cock.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

you see these porn where guys get fisted and use huge toys to where they can stick both fists up a guys ass--the reason is this---the asshole over time will keep stretching--but not in a few minutes--if yo u never had anything up your ass---i would suggest 4 inch dildo and some good lube--finger yourself with the lube for a few then lube the dildo and lay on your side and start going in---on your side the muscles in your anus relax more

 

[benson19]

I have only ever topped, but am just so damn curious about it, plus the stimulation inside like prostate and that.

Yeap you need to be ready for it both physically and mentally id say.
For me sometimes just being fucked in the ass is enough to get me off with not even touching or playing with my cock. Ive always felt this way though about it.

 

[benson19]

lay on your side and start going in---on your side the muscles in your anus relax more

That is something i didnt know about.
I always thought on your back was the most best position to insert.
Interesting.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

on your back when it comes to sex--allows the mans dick to go in a little further because your asscheeks are more open so less ass is in the way--you can try legs up if want-- get one with suction cup stick it to the wall and slide back onto it--

but i wanna say do go doing it and if have problems get upset at me--all i said is i did it and nothing happened

 

[benson19]

on your back when it comes to sex--allows the mans dick to go in a little further because your asscheeks are more open so less ass is in the way--you can try legs up if want-- get one with suction cup stick it to the wall and slide back onto it--

but i wanna say do go doing it and if have problems get upset at me--all i said is i did it and nothing happened

I totally appreciate all you advice and thank you so much for it.
No i would never do that or blame anyone else. I always love to ask gather info and then make my choice

The only dildo that i own that has the suction cup on the bottom is the really big 9.5 inch one.
I get the feel even if i tried it against the wall i still would be able to go all the way in. It feels like its hitting something inside me when i try to push it more than 75% way in LOL.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

I totally appreciate all you advice and thank you so much for it.
No i would never do that or blame anyone else. I always love to ask gather info and then make my choice

The only dildo that i own that has the suction cup on the bottom is the really big 9.5 inch one.
I get the feel even if i tried it against the wall i still would be able to go all the way in. It feels like its hitting something inside me when i try to push it more than 75% way in LOL.

parts of your anatomy goes like this-theres your asshole-- then on in is your anus--both these open up as you go to shit and helps force the shit to come out--then about 4 maybe 5 inches past that is your sphincter--this is where the intestines end----so from your asshole to your sphinter is at least7 to 8 inches total---but guys like myslef have taken longer dicks inside them and somehow--the sphincter allows this to happen so far until reaches one of the colons of your intestines--i wouldnt want to go any further than that---

now ive had 11 inch dick inside me and then ive used a 14 inch double headed dildo--got carried away with it to point the tip of it was barely sticking out of my hole--- i pinched it in right way and began pulling it out and i could feel it sliding all the way--i didnt know if i hurt myself until next day i had a bowel movement with no trouble

 

[benson19]

Thanks heaps for the technical description of it all.
Makes sense when you say 7 - 8 inches total as that dildo im trying is 9.5 inch and yeap i think im getting it up to the 8 inch length only in. Maybe its too thick and thats why it cant go past the sphincter?

Wow 11 inch cock & 14 inch double dildo.. truly amazing
Could i ask were very large in girth as well or just for length?

 

[benson19]

- get one with suction cup stick it to the wall and slide back onto it--

I just want to give you my biggest thanks for this suggestion!

I tried it tonight with my 9.5inch dildo.
Stuck the suction cup on the bottom of my bedhead and got on my.back legs up and began to slide onto it.

Not only did I manage to get more length in like you said (about 90% in) but it just felt so much better and more intense the feeling.
I kid you not I spent 3 hours almost just riding the dildo back and forth slowly. Felt amazing. (and chose to not cum to still feel horny)

Because I'm feeling so horny from it tonight I'm in bed now with just briefs on but I've got inserted in my ass all the way my 7.5inch dildo.
Will get about 4 hours sleep as I have to wake up just before 7am here.

So looking forward now to waking up and seeing how I feel.

Thank you so much once again.

 

[bijockfl]

I stayed inside a guy for part of the night..then reinserted in the morning with a fresh load

 

[_chrizzian_]

I'm confused and since noone else asked: why would you want to sleep with a dildo up your butt?

 

[benson19]

I'm confused and since noone else asked: why would you want to sleep with a dildo up your butt?

Just for the feel of it mainly plus to see would it make/keep me more horny/aroused throughout the night whilst asleep.
Normally when i dont cum for over a week i start to get some kinky ideas to want to try

Honestly it was just always something i wanted to try.