None of the choices apply to me. (3 negative choices? Only 1 positive choice?)
Have we fallen asleep after my orgasm and before I've withdrawn from her pussy? Yes, on very rare occasions. After I orgasm my penis starts to deflate fairly quickly, so even if I stay inside, within a minute or two, I shrink enough that I slide out.
When any woman has ridden me until I've cum, then stayed on top of me, enjoying the afterglow, that's the best position for my cock staying inside her the longest after cumming. Falling asleep after sex, side-by-side, spooning, or slightly entangled legs has always been the norm for me and the women I've been with.