Sleepover with my friend crush tonight! Need help!!!

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  1. nicaholic

    nicaholic New Member

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    So, i have this friend who is a total hottie. He has a great body! He plays soccer. So, i ve been friends with him for nearly 10 years(im 18 btw).
    So, over the years, we explored puberty together. we jacked off together a lot of times in the past, and even reached further, when we would jerk each other off, and blow each other. We stopped doing anything about 1-2 years ago. Im bi, and i guess he is too! But he keeps saying how he wants to fuck girls, and have a lot of girls, so i dont know.

    Anw, my parents are on vacation, and he is sleeping at my house tonight! Its the first time im having a friend sleep over. So, we never really talked about the past, and what we used to do together... But i really want something to happen tonigh! I miss out jerk off sessions, and his sweet lips around my cock..

    How can i bring it up, and you know, start a situation?
     
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    B_curiousaboutthis New Member

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    Your golden. Just bring up your past experiences and you'll be getting head by the end of the night.
     
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    Shall i start by saying like " Remember the old days.... " and stuff??
    Cz lately, he always mentions how he rarely jacks off. He says he is "bored".. Im like, yeah right! How can you be bored masturbating? Haha

    And also, im a bit scared of his reaction! What if he doesnt want!? Could it affect our friendship?
    Its really complicated..
     
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    He wouldn't even be mentioning it to you if he didn't want the old days back. " Remember the old days.... " is a great way of striking up the conversation. You already know hes open to it because you have done it before so it's not like he is going to be freaked out by the suggestion. Your on easy street with this one.
     
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    But, what i dont get is, back in the old days, whenever we were alone, or had the chance, he would ask me to got jerk off somewhere. Whenever i was alone at home, even for 10 minutes, he would ask me to watch porn and jack off..
    Now, we had plenty of opportunities where i was alone at home, or we were alone and bored, and he never asks anymore. And since he doesnt mention it now, im a bit hesitating to ask, cz i think he doesnt want to anymore..
    I mean, if he wanted to, wouldnt he mention it all this time?
     
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    maybe he is tired asking you all the time? maybe he thinks you don't want to.
    or maybe you are too nervous about it and you guys aren't enjoying it as much as you could.

    But first step is to show you want it as much as him..even though you may be more shy.
     
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    Listen to curiousaboutthis...he's making sense. This guy sounds like he is interested, by saying he is bored with masturbation he is effectively saying he needs a change, and if you and him have been much less closer over the last couple years he may be trying to think ways of getting you to drop trousers right at this very moment.
    I reckon you are going to have a HUGE smile on your face by tomorrow morning!
    Have fun you lucky lad.
     
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    I dont know.. I guess i shall make a move tonight!
     
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    Oh, and we are probably getting drunk tonight, since my fridge is full of alcohol.. I guess that would help!
     
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    But he's not saying that directly to me.. When we are all together, he just mentions it!
    Anw,i shall see tonight where it goes..
    I ll be definitely update tomorrow, on what happened.. :)
     
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    Not necessarily. A fridge full of alcohol. That sounds like a puke and pass out sleepover.
     
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    Why not just put some porn on the TV and see what happens..................
     
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    Do tell of your experiences later, wheter you succeed or not (although I hope for the former). It could help other people with this same problem.
     
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    Yeah,there's a channel that has new movies on, and around 12-1am there's porn! So, i guess we could start watching a movie, and then the porn would pop out!

    Anw, he's already here.. I'll definitely tell you guys what happened..
    And thanks for the help!
     
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    try gettin pics aswell
     
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    While watching porn, Show off your dick and start jerking off, I bet he'll love it.

    Don't forget to update us :biggrin2:
     
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    For your information, a bisexual person also likes fucking girls.
    Now for other things... He won't say it out loud now that he wants to jerk off because he thinks you both grow up and don't want that anymore.
    On the other side, the chance that he just don't wanna jerk off with you anymore is big. But you can start with 'remember the old days...'. I think that is the best way to get to know what he wants. But please don't push them.
     
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    You forgot to Update us man.....
     
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    They are still "at it" :wink:
     
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    Cant wait
     
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