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Advice needed.
Joined a new gym around 4 weeks ago, some guy who has a similar morning schedule to me has been occasionally looking at me around the gym, walking close to me between sets, and doing pretty much anything to train close to me.
Things took another turn around 3 days ago, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday we both finished working out simultaneously. Went to our (extremely large) changing room, picked up towels and went into the shower room. Baring in mind we have 4 very large shower rooms - this guy followed me into the same room, and took the same shower cubical at the end directly opposite me. (It’s private - there are doors).
I can see him in the reflection watching me as I dry myself once I open the shower door, and he purposely comes out naked and flashes me before putting his towel around.
This exact thing has happened three days on the trot now. So this morning I went in prepared, and after showering opposite him again, I headed back into the changing room, him following, and I slipped a piece of paper next to his bag with my name and number on. I didn’t see him take it, although when I next looked his bag and the paper had gone and he was still getting dressed.
I left the gym and haven’t heard from him since.
The reason I haven’t approached him directly and spoken to him is I train with a straight friend every day and it’s not appropriate. Plus he might not even be gay but if I’m reading the signs right.. he is.
I’m 25, and I’d say he looks around 26/27.
He’s taller and bigger than me and extremely attractive.
Any advice on next moves?
Chances are high he will be there again in the morning...
Joined a new gym around 4 weeks ago, some guy who has a similar morning schedule to me has been occasionally looking at me around the gym, walking close to me between sets, and doing pretty much anything to train close to me.
Things took another turn around 3 days ago, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday we both finished working out simultaneously. Went to our (extremely large) changing room, picked up towels and went into the shower room. Baring in mind we have 4 very large shower rooms - this guy followed me into the same room, and took the same shower cubical at the end directly opposite me. (It’s private - there are doors).
I can see him in the reflection watching me as I dry myself once I open the shower door, and he purposely comes out naked and flashes me before putting his towel around.
This exact thing has happened three days on the trot now. So this morning I went in prepared, and after showering opposite him again, I headed back into the changing room, him following, and I slipped a piece of paper next to his bag with my name and number on. I didn’t see him take it, although when I next looked his bag and the paper had gone and he was still getting dressed.
I left the gym and haven’t heard from him since.
The reason I haven’t approached him directly and spoken to him is I train with a straight friend every day and it’s not appropriate. Plus he might not even be gay but if I’m reading the signs right.. he is.
I’m 25, and I’d say he looks around 26/27.
He’s taller and bigger than me and extremely attractive.
Any advice on next moves?
Chances are high he will be there again in the morning...