I don't know per se if it's just me, but that's all during the entire session. Recently a woman started off wanting to give me a bj, so I had an erection for her. BJ's really don't do much for me anyway, so she sucked away until her jaw was sore. So from there, we moved on to missionary and eventually doggy style positions for penetrative sex. Even when I'm delivering oral, I'm erect, you never know when she'll make the demand that I do the penetrative portion of any session. I enjoy the penetrative moreso, much like you do, but if the woman feels inclined to demand she perform oral on me, I guess she's entitled to do so and I'll oblige until she's tired of it, who knows maybe she's that good. I'd also tell you that had I ejaculated from the oral before any penetration, penetration probably wouldn't happen. I probably need about 20 minutes to recycle before I can ejaculate anything again after the first and I'd definitely say the sperm count on subsequent ejaculations would be significantly lower if there was much at all. After the first ejaculation, I can maintain an erection for awhile, but it may be semi or even a forced erection. The 45 minute sessions, yeah, I'm holding back the ejaculation for the sake of a longer session. I figure my goal is to stay as long and hard as possible for her pleasure, I know I can get mine when I want to, anytime and at a moment's notice, even when she's called the two minute warning. Who knows maybe some of these sessions lasted way too long and we were both being overly generous and waiting for the other to get off. In that regard, in general, I perceive it takes women longer to climax than it does for a man to ejaculate, that's why I hold off on that, so that she gets hers and has no complaints in that regard.
Thank you for taking the time Chrysalis and Transformer...:wink:
I do ask because I do not get anything really from oral in me, or fingering or manual, plus I do confess that in the past even not bother to pleasure most of my ex parteners oraly..and only 2 I really crave to pleasure and it was good for them.
But as much I know routine is not agood thing and enjoy explore men's penis mostly to know every bit of it not to pleasure it to cum...be tactile as playing all the time but not so much taking long time and be all sore to acomplish it. Nah...I'm very impatient as to not like stay much in preliminaries and go for what I enjoy most and hopefuly he enjoy the same..when I'm satysfied than we can explore but still..if I'm aroused and horny I want penis inside ASAP.
Than my foreplay of preference would be 'brain' exchanges during the day by antecipate the encounter, foreplay as head approaching rubbing, kisses and hugs passionate and penetration.
Than if a man is much into oral it may be a 'problem' to me if he wants that and enjoy greatly that than penetration, because I get into it if I really crave his penis to do oral...and in a 100% I just really enjoy doing it in 2%...
But I'm learning...:smile: