If I want to last more than a few seconds during intercourse, I need to start very slowly and wait until my glans have become desensitized somewhat before I can do some serious thrusting, this can take up to 5 minutes, sometimes with breaks to reduce the orgasm urge! This period is extremely difficult if my balls haven't been emptied for a few days but if I manage to get past a certain point, I have the best sex ever because my cock is rock hard and extra sensitive. Sometimes, I get the impression that this slow start is frustrating for my girlfriend, especially after the passionate build up before sex, it has made me speed up and blow my load way too quickly just to give her what I think she wants. Honestly, what goes through your mind during these SLOW moments? Are there times when you'd prefer your man to start fucking like crazy from the beginning at the expense of a longer fuck?