A quirk of mine is that it takes my cock a while to get fully hard, and I'm not sure if this is just one of those individual things or if it is a result of the size and common to all larger guys. Generally it takes me about three to five minutes to go from completely soft to completely hard (anyone that has cammed with me has seen this). I know it isn't a dysfunction of my pubococcus muscle, as I have been doing kegels for years, and I can hold an erection for hours with continued stimulation (I love marathon sex!). I am also in good athletic shape. It's just a slow starter, and always has been. Only one of my partners has ever said anything about it, and she said she enjoyed it because it meant that she had more time to handle my cock before it got hard (she loved to play with a big floppy cock). My questions for the wise ladies of LPSG are: - Have you noticed a trend that larger cocks take longer to get hard? - Do you have a preference either way? Why?