Slower than you = lazy?

[eyescream]

This guy I'm 'doing' goes a whole lot faster than me. I don't know, I just don't work that fast or it gets a little numb down there and orgasms won't feel as good as they should be.

When your partner's moving slower than you do you feel it's because they're not in the mood or that they're lazy and expects you to do the work?

Everyone moves at their own pace is what I believe, I'm just wondering how many people are aware of that? I fear that this guy I'm with might thing I'm lazy.:redface:

 

[B_Kanaye]

Why don't you just look at him and tell him to slow down and take it easier?

Tell him that sex is much better when he does longer thrusts, than short quick bursts?


Honesty doesn't seem all that hard :|