I am a sexually out there woman, I like men I like sex, and some would call me "slutty"
I am a woman, a mother, a business owner and a kind and caring friend..those things define me, my sexuality does not.
We do not define hetrosexual men in such a negative way when relating to sex...Stud, Man whore or "Player are sometimes used to descibe men who like sex, but all those all have some sort of back slapping bravado attached to the name calling.
I choose to turn the word into a positive, like gay men did with the word "gay" ...To me slut is defined as a woman who is ok with liking alot of sex.
I have never been called a slut by men I care about , or by my male friends, it is used more so as a insult to wound from men whom I turn down for sex or play. To me , men who say that are insecure and still thinking of women as the lesser sex.
I am a hetrosexual woman, I like men, I like sex, I am am, to some a slut,...I could care less ....Bring it on!
xx
Honey