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were YOU the slut in highschool?
Hahaha NO WAY! I was the epitome of a good girl. :smile:
Did you KNOW the slut in highschool?
I knew of her. We did not travel in the same circles..
She was a short skinny girl with shoulder length brown hair; not much in the way of boobs or ass but lots of attitude.
I was the slut in highschool. Why does this not surprise me. :tongue:
 

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I suppose you could've considered me the "good girl"... but I was actually the very sad girl (has nothing to do with being "good" or "bad"...)

As Mae West said "I used to be Snow White, but I drifted". (I love Mae West quotes!)

I knew of one girl who people said was a slut in school, but she was in a different grade than I was in. I don't know if there was one in my class or not. I was rather out of the loop in my class, being the outcast and all.

I'm still very shy, but I did go through a brief "slutty" time when I was in my early thirties. I was suffering from severe body image issues (yes, even worse than I have now! And I have it pretty bad now!), and was looking for reassurance that I was actually sexually desirable. I don't regret any of the sex, though. Actually, if people were going to think of me as a slut, I would've wanted to have more sex so the label would actually be justified! :biggrin1:
 

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I kicked boys butts. I was a skater/punk girl. I wore my combat boots proudly and no boy ever dared called me a slut.
I was a late bloomer though lost my virginity at 17 to a long time boyfriend at the time. I knew a few sluts in high school. Omg I could tell you all some stories lmao.
 

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I kicked boys butts. I was a skater/punk girl. I wore my combat boots proudly and no boy ever dared called me a slut.
I was a late bloomer though lost my virginity at 17 to a long time boyfriend at the time. I knew a few sluts in high school. Omg I could tell you all some stories lmao.

Hey i used to be a skater.:cool: Not anymore but I still dress like one.
 

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i didn't have my first kiss till i was 16.
didn't have sex till 17, and that was in a ltr that lasted several years.

i was the antislut *sigh*


I didn't kiss til 17 and I'm still a virgin, so err...I win?

I had the opportunity to have sex, but I told the girl I wasn't ready

my mate called me a 'fucking idiot' for it :rolleyes:
 

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Yeah I just hate how people rush into sex as if it is something you HAVE to do as soon as possible

oh and thanks haha.

I didn't really have much opportunity with the opposite sex until recently

cos I used to be fat, not very attractive and very shy

now I am slim, reasonably good looking (I dunno how that one works) and less shy than I used to be

hurray for late puberty...
 

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Sadly, I wasn't the slut either ... but I
am now making up for it ... some people
are starting to refer to me as a slut, a
label I carry with pride since I worked hard
for it!
 

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I'm still very shy, but I did go through a brief "slutty" time when I was in my early thirties. I was suffering from severe body image issues (yes, even worse than I have now! And I have it pretty bad now!), and was looking for reassurance that I was actually sexually desirable.
I'm afraid this is common.

There are a number of entirely different behavioral patterns which the militantly unobservant tend to lump together under the term "slut". This is the major reason that I consider the word despicable and have never, even just mentally, applied it to anyone.
 

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How about we consider people who are freely sexual as socio-sexual?

I have no qualms if consenting adults want to have sex often with different people for the shared sexual pleasure. I do have a problem with are people who will use sex as a way to get something else.

In high school I was befriended by the girl most likely to be labeled a slut. Turns out she made a point of becoming my friend because she wanted my BF's older brother. She told me that she slept with guys to join in with their group (if she wanted to hang out with the basketball team she slept with one of them, rugby, preps, etc). I find that very ingenuine.
My BFs brother asked her how many guys she'd been with before him. Her answer was 13.

Living in the dorms at university gave her more freedom and I think at this point her reasons were more for the shared pleasure than a calculated move. Good for her.

I did have to wince when she got married. She said the reason that she wasn't having a stagette party was because she didn't trust herself to be faithful. She also recommended I have sex with one of the groomsmen because she'd tried him.

Nice.
 

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I have no qualms if consenting adults want to have sex often with different people for the shared sexual pleasure. I do have a problem with are people who will use sex as a way to get something else.

Nice.


Interesting!! Using this premise, one could argue that there are different types of "prostitutes" -- the honest ones (who do it as a living), and the dishonest ones (who use sex to get favors, with the "john" not being aware of it, and thus never having the opportunity to decide if the sex is something he really wants to "pay" for.) :wink: