I've noticed this disrespect that porn is renowned for is spilling over into the amateur community. I've never liked the slut and whore titles and dialogue but it bothers me that a man would refer to his wife as such. I've talked porn with many different males, any that find this kind of talk in porn to be repulsive, also notices the general misogynistic nature of professional porn. He tends to not enjoy watching a woman be seen as a mere "cum dumpster" and has no desire to mimic that sort of behavior in the bedroom. The males whom i've talked to who do find nothing wrong with it tend to have some pretty messed up relationships with the females around them. Most of the guys i've seen brag on these sort of things or talk about these things as their ultimate fantasy, tend to repel women from them because they treat them in a condescending way. I cringe when i see a guy talk about his fantasies about humiliating a woman in front of his peers. Maybe my own sexually abusive past makes me so sensitive to the sexual disrespect i'm seeing as mainstream and among amateurs. Vintage porn didn't show as much of the following: Slapping a womans face with his cock Requiring oral sex from her with no reciprocation Mass numbers of males cumming on her face Ass to mouth No lubrication prior to intercourse (even anal sex) A blantant disreguard for her pussy such as slapping it, slapping her tits (which is not generally pleasurable) Spitting on her face Forced face fucking Gagging her Calling her names Unrealistic views on the female body to the point where its sexier to be too skinny than to have 5 extra pounds on your ass Digustingly large rippling implants Faking is more popular because women have to fake being turned on when they are being spat on, throat fucked and called a slut at the same time Insane insertions to further push the pussy/ass to the limit and/or humiliate her Pubic hair has to be non-existent or shaped in a way that is difficult to maintain in order to do away with anything naturally pleasing about the female genitalia. With the advent of internet porn and access to unlimited amounts of it for free there is going to be a new culture/generation of males who are not going to know how sex is a delicate dance between the male and female. Not a one way, give it to me, I'll do with you how i please, act that is solely about your cock and balls. I was very fortunate to be paired with males who were respectful to me during sex and most of the time in every day life. I married a man who would cut off his balls before he'd call me a whore in the bedroom. Maybe there are a few of you who like this or are married to women who like this, but i have a feeling most women would refuse to be compared to a whore or a slut but rather more pleasing descriptions if we are hungry for your body in the bedroom. I feel there is more psychological damage done to males and females who find this sort of trend to be acceptable. This is in no way talking about submission and domination agreements between people who participate in that and get turned on by humiliation. Those are a special breed who are ignited by it. I am talking about mainstream everyday pornography found on xtube, redtube, youporn, etc. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on it, male and female.