Slutty Women vs Sexy Women

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From my understanding, many straight men often fantasize about women as they appear in FHM, Maxim or Playboy magazines because they're often viewed as sexy in that circumstance....

however, if these women were suddenly seen in person, they'd be perceived as slutty.



Straight boys, where is the threshold between when a female is sexy and when she becomes slutty?
 

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If you're sitting on a bus going down Fifth Avenue and a beautiful, dark-haired women wearing a strategically unbuttoned blouse and no bra leans over in front of you to adjust her thigh-high boots...that's sexy. If she then gives you and every other man on the bus a sloppy blowjob with a little bukkake thrown in...that's slutty.

There are a few degrees in between, of course...
 

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The "sluttyness" of a person is based on conduct, not just clothes and make-up. The quality of being a slut involves a promiscuous nature and few moral restrictions regarding sex. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, and probably describes most men.
 
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sexy women dress for attention in a classier way, but have self respect... slutty girls will dress for attention and be really easy to lay.
 

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If you're sitting on a bus going down Fifth Avenue and a beautiful, dark-haired women wearing a strategically unbuttoned blouse and no bra leans over in front of you to adjust her thigh-high boots...that's sexy. If she then gives you and every other man on the bus a sloppy blowjob with a little bukkake thrown in...that's slutty.

There are a few degrees in between, of course...

This made me laugh. I agree.
 
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I thought all women could be a little slutty if they wish :) Just like guys. I don't think posing for nuddy pics in a mag is particularly slutty. There are plenty of women as well as guys out there lusting after the women in those pickies too. Are they slutty to do so?

However, I do think there is a big difference between sexy slut and a lying slut.
 

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" Straight boys, where is the threshold between when a female is sexy and when she becomes slutty? "

Would I want to bang the Slutty woman YES, would I want to bang the Sexy woman YES. The only difference is you try not to bring the slutty one home to meet the folks

To turn the page, if a male model, Movie Star who you think is hot in print and in film is Sexxy, but you see the person dressed exactly the same way in real life would you perceive him as slutty. ( yes men can be slutty as well dude )
 
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If you really want to look into it, i think slutty and sexy differ depending on your upbringing, social class and culture as well.

like i heard some people say multiple times on this website that its perfectly ok for a woman to be slutty and they could still make a good and respectable, monogamous gf and/or wife yadda yadda.

Being southern italian, I chill with alot of people from diff countries and normal white canadians. I noticed distinctly that social class and culture play a huge role in whats acceptable in a mate.
 

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A slutty woman always acts slutty, no matter the circumstances. A sexy woman knows when to turn it up and when to turn it down.
 

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Slut is a good word, a very good word. There is a book called "The Ethical Slut" that all should read.

A slut is very in tune to her own desires and doesn't deny them. I don't have a word for it, but a woman that displays overt sexuality because she is insecure and seeks male approval isn't attractive to me.

I don't see it as being wrong for a confident woman to wear her sexuality on her sleeve, in a sense.
 

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A slutty woman always acts slutty, no matter the circumstances. A sexy woman knows when to turn it up and when to turn it down.
Hard to define the difference, but this is a good start, I think, because in part it's to do with social appropriateness. I'm proud and happy to be seen with a sexy woman (not just "taking her home to mother" but at all types of social events), whereas while I can have fun with a slutty woman I'm less likely to want to be seen out and about with her.

Incidentally, I'm not wanting to be unduly sexist here - I'm not sure what the male equivalents are, but I'm sure that they exist.
 
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cant they be the same thing......ive known very classy slutty behaved women, smart...playfull, great fun...
 

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Funny because I thought all girls were sluts, gold diggers and whores. All women had high class and respected themselves. The thing is there aren't any women anymore.
 
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After being around for a little while. Discovering the unique mix of slut and sexy is a rare event. The trick is to keep it so....:) So many falsies out there.
 
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Here's my irreverent take on the matter. Slutty: "Fuck me". Sexy: "You can't not fuck me". All out attack versus stealth. Same objective, different methods.
 
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Here's my irreverent take on the matter. Slutty: "Fuck me". Sexy: "You can't not fuck me". All out attack versus stealth. Same objective, different methods.


OoooooHHhh ya, I like your take on the stealth mode thingy. Sneak up on you and take you by surprise..........

The 'you just never know woman'. The most exciting of all :)

Dirty Bastard :)
 
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